Fantasy Feeder

Pasta dishes non bake.

Bigwideland:
Hi,

I want to take a reheat-able pasta dish, to do as a batch and portion up for work. As I often do not eat lunch at work. I can do bolognaise. But a few more will be good easy and tasty, not excessive on the cheese. Amy suggestions.

Ever try a pasta salad? Those things are good.

1 year

Munchies

How did you overcome societal pressures?

Iridescent Pearly:
My family and a few people at school have commented on my weight gain. Stating I have no self control. How did you overcome your internalized fat phobia?

Never had any fatphobic comments from anyone other than my family. Mind you, I am not, nor have I ever been fat. They just project their insecurities onto me.

I put up boundaries and enforced them. Took them a few months, but they eventually stopped.

1 year

Munchies

Anybody know if it's possible to be fit and mobile while fat?

Bigandbloated:
Essentially what I'm asking is if it's possible to be like Bob from Tekken

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Part of the problem I'm facing is there are activities I like to do and want to get better at like dance and obstacle running, that are making me hesitant about committing to this kink. Right now I'm building muscle anyway, so it feels nice to indulge in it since I have to be in a calorie surplus (just call it a dirty bulk). Only question is whether I'll have to eventually decide to cut when it starts to interfere with my performance too much.

It's possible to be in really good shape as a fat person, but how that looks will vary from person to person. Your nimbleness will take a hit no matter what, but that doesn't mean it will be severe.

1 year

Munchies

A note on weight/disability

Ditzy:
There is this one lady in my Overeaters Anonymous group that is on disability for knee problems ( she claimed was because of her weight) but she seems to walk ok.
We both weigh about the same but she is taller than me.
She mentioned I should try to get it and I said I don't think I want to.

MRFATS53:
For me, you are fat and so desirable so it's hard to square with 'a disability'. So agree with you.

That's? Not how disability works?

I'm not saying that fat equals disability. However, how horny you feel about someone doesn't have any impact on whether or not they are disabled.

It's like saying "Whether or not a it rains today depends on if my dog rolls over." These are two wholly unrelated things.

1 year

Munchies

Clean eatin

Bigboysdoitbetter:
I do! I think it’s fun! And That’s mainly what I do bc of how “picky” I can be lol any eating out is usually only because of work we’ve had short staff so 11 hour days woohoo

Munchies:
There's a lot you can do. Pot roast, slow cooker meals, stir fry, pasta and rice dishes, etc etc.

One of my fave things to do is pick a random culture and look up easy recipies. You can find a lot of good, healthy foods that way. Then just add things like sauces, cheese, or butter and eat bigger portions.

Bigboysdoitbetter:
That’s actually a really fun way to mix it up I think I’m gonna do that! Thank you for all the recommendations your always really knowledgeable

I appreciate that.

I'm also just someone that likes to cook and have fun in the kitchen. Been cooking for 20 years at this point.

1 year

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My wife can look 40 pounds different in weight based on what she is wearing

Voluptuouslover:
My wife happens to be 5’ 3” and probably 180 pounds currently.

We went out to dinner the other night and she had on some extremely tight jeans and a higher waisted blouse that showed her large lower belly snug in her jeans with at time her belly squishing out and love handles exposed when sitting down.

The main part that caught my attention and always seems to - she has on flat sandals - she looked a good 40 pounds heavier wearing her flat sandals as opposed to when she has on 3-4” heels. It is amazing how much heavier she looks just with a shoe adjustment.

If the men find out we can shape shift, they're going to tell the church

1 year

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Clean eatin

Bigboysdoitbetter:
I do! I think it’s fun! And That’s mainly what I do bc of how “picky” I can be lol any eating out is usually only because of work we’ve had short staff so 11 hour days woohoo

There's a lot you can do. Pot roast, slow cooker meals, stir fry, pasta and rice dishes, etc etc.

One of my fave things to do is pick a random culture and look up easy recipies. You can find a lot of good, healthy foods that way. Then just add things like sauces, cheese, or butter and eat bigger portions.

1 year

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Feeling truly unfit

Chubbylittlepigg:
Today I attempted a workout for the first time in at least 50 pounds- and I discovered I can’t do a single sit-up (even an inch off the ground.) or do more than 3 jumping jacks before I’m out of breath. I used to run a 7 minute mile! Feeling much much fatter after that. Anyone have similar experiences of really feeling outta shape?

The closest I've gotten to that is when I went from a C to a DD cup. Lemme tell you, exercising became an experience. Getting a good high-impact sports bra is a must.

1 year

Munchies

Just a little psa

FeedeeViolet:
people are allowed to have preferences for whom they like! some of y’all need a refresher course on consent 101 or something.

Munchies:
Context????

FeedeeViolet:
a lot of men here like to harass when i turn them down/think they can force their ideals onto me

Probably should have opened with that, lol.

But I get it. There are a lot of creeps on here. The best thing to do is report and block them.

Make sure you take screenshots and send them to team@fantasyfeeder.com. This is the most important part.

A lot of people freak out and close the PM. Maybe they make a forum post that gets buried later. That's the absolute worst thing to do because they will do it again. Sometimes, they'll end up doing it to you specifically again because they either forgot they spoke to you or are just that sick of a person.

If more people reported creeps with screenshots, it would tamp down on many creeps, but I understand why people don't. You feel violated, and you want to get away from it as fast as possible.

Personally, I don't mind the creeps too much. I'm a sadistic domme, and they make wonderful chew toys. But I'm a special kind of crazy.

1 year

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Just a little psa

FeedeeViolet:
people are allowed to have preferences for whom they like! some of y’all need a refresher course on consent 101 or something.

Context????

1 year

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