That’s my test too. It’s called cummer’s remorse. In the beginning of gaining after I shot I’d say this isn’t for me, I’m not like this, etc. Now after I finish I’m still happy being fat and getting fatter.

If gainer material is SFW I don’t think they’ll take that down. I’ve found some great fat-guy pics that are PG.

I don’t consider this site, grommr, xtube, tumblr and the like to be cheating unless you follow through with something more than internet chatting or masturbating to porn or other fantasy.

I’m not sure I even consider raunchy sexting cheating as long as both parties know it’s only fun fantasy and will never go further. However, I think the line is crossed with cam2cam, Skype (or whatever it’s called) masturbation. Grommr members are notorious for wanting to wank on camera. My own profile says I don’t do it, don’t want to, can’t do it, so don’t bother asking.

I’m there and here to talk about something we can’t ordinarily talk about irl. In fact a couple of guys I chat with on Grommr said to me first they just want to talk about weight gain, food, clothes.

I can only relate to me, so here goes...

1. Lumbar fusion that limits my flexibility and ability to do physical things.

2. A bipolar/migraine med I take that my doc acknowledges makes me gain weight.

3. “It happens” as I shrug my shoulders.

4. I like to eat.

Folks, this wavering is extremely common, especially in the beginning of gaining. I’ve gone through it myself several times, even to the point of joining WW again.

Then I start gaining again, like what I see and feel, get disgusted and diet, get fat again, rinse repeat. It could be several times over several years it happens. Only after almost 3 1/2 years of the roller-coaster am I happy to be fat and plan to stay this way.

I may just gain a little more and maintain maybe I’ll keep going. I call myself “Fatboy” all the time, even with coworkers. I make references to my belly, my weight and being fat because I like it now.

It’s whatever you feel comfortable with.

I still weight lift but not as heavy as I used to. I don’t do cardio anymore though I like outdoor walks in nice weather. I’m not dieting anymore and not going to lose the weight. I’m looking to gain a bit more. I’m 5’6” and 230 lbs now, my short term goal is 235. Maybe 240-245 as long as I can still wear my clothes. I can’t afford anything new. But I’m a fat guy and I like being fat, and I like who I am.

I’m rather hairy. I shave my back, front and arms. I like the smooth look.

I’d say it’s within the past 10 years I started fantasizing about getting fat, and about 3 years ago I did start gaining.

Before that I began to be attracted to fat guys over 20 years ago. There was a fat guy named Hector I worked with. It hit me like a ton of bricks that I found him really attractive and fantasized about being with him. I still occasionally think about it.

But over the past 10 years or so I began noticing fat guys more and more, how attractive they were and how I wanted to be like them. So I started gaining. I wavered, gained, lost, gained again, a few times.

But now I’m committed to my gaining and goal. I think about what it will be like to walk around with my belly hanging over my belt and rippling.

This is the first time in a number of years we’re going to my sister’s house. She cooks an insane and obscene amount of food. Unless she’s scaled back it will probably be
1. Baked ziti or lasagna w/ meatballs and other meats.
2. Antipasto (cold cuts, olives, red roasted peppers, etc.), Italian bread (we’re Italian).
3. Ham.
4. Turkey w /stuffing and gravy.
5. Sweet potatoes.
6. Mushrooms.
7. Vegetables.
8. Cranberry sauce.
9. Pies and Italian pastry.

This is also the first year I intend to eat with reckless abandon and unabashed gluttony in order to keep gaining weight.

Hi there. 👋