As he's gotten fatter the little Butterball has a hard time with stairs with housework. When I'm home on Fridays I see him catching his breath as he finishes chores. I obviously discourage him from exercise. Though he didn't want to admit it, he didn't even want to go on a 15 minute walk. I knew he would get tires and hungry. So I encourage him to stay home and cook, as it encourages him to snack and rest himself.

Well, the future in-laws finally left. They spent five days (feels like an entire week) here with the little Butterball and me, clearly trying to get him to lose weight without saying it. Suggestions of, "Save some for later," and other such things were posed, and it was tedious to get through them.
One afternoon they decided we should all take a walk, and made him nervous when he tried to beg off. I told him he could stay home - who else would cook dinner? And during the walk one relative asked me about the weight.
Earlier today he said he finally told them he's happy this way, which made me so glad he stood up to them.
Hopefully it will make our lives easier

I agree that mindless snacking while idle is best. When I fattened my bf this is what got him gaining, without any effort. Slowly releasing yourself from guilt or portion control is the main thing.

The thread "Fat girl humiliation" is a long one, so I'm not sure if any boys have chimed in, but I've seen enough fat girl humiliation, and I'm wondering about fat boy humiliation. Any boys out there like to be humiliated or teased about their gain?

I have handcuffed and fed the little man before. It's a remarkably enjoyable experience.

Definitely a Domme. I've fattened the little man up to where he's soft and round, and now that he's been fattened he is far more content and obedient than otherwise. He was naturally inclined toward fatness, loving sweets and being a generally very easy going sort. As I've said elsewhere, we were always a D/s relationship, but the fattening has brought a new level of respect and obedience. We're getting married in Spring, and he'll stop working so he can be home full-time, where he belongs.

My preference has always been for plumpness, just on the cusp of fat. There's something endearing about it, although I did enjoy fattening my bf a little more after he reached my goal. But where he is now is just the right amount of fat.

When I fattened mine up, the point of no return was more about his lack of willpower. Never very strong, at one point he insisted he wasn't fat and so I put him through a day with the amount of food he would have consumed nearly a year ago. By the evening we were in a Souther restaurant where he gorged on two substantial appetizers, two entrees and went out for dessert.
So it's more a frame of mind than a physical point - though they can be intertwined.

I think it totally depends on the dynamic between the two. I'm dominant in feeding and outside of feeding. But I've found this varies from relationship to relationship. There's a vast spectrum of dominance and submission, and I've found the key to a successful and satisfying relationship is the energy between the parties involved.

I don't know. I guess I like the process more - letting his appetite get the better of him and I would be cautious if you do indeed go for one of these stimulants.