Consolidating the two Iowa threads into this one!
1 year
Hey, I haven't forgotten that it's June. Does anyone have any thoughts on what they'd like to do? Poetry obviously wasn't a big hit!
We could:
Do a writing prompt again
Critique a single story (and if someone has something shorter, and would like to volunteer, that would be great!)
Do a Q&A about writing and writing kink fic with all the amazing authors here? Like I could come up with some questions and we could all answer them and then discuss? That one might be fun
Or anything else that you folks can come up with!
1 year
Secret feeding is unethical (to say the least), against the ethos of this site, and Fantasy Feeder doesn’t allow threads like this asking for advice on how to do it or generally normalizing it. Please don’t make this thread again.
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
I wish there were other options, like gainer feedee don’t really fit right at least not for me, I’d feel much better if there was a option for something like BHM or something along those lines
Fat Admirer might work but that seems to be more like active seeking of fat than just being okay with being fat.
I feel like the people who don’t have it right probably aren’t real accounts usually don’t have anything else and are probably picture ripped from other people online. I’ve seen a lot of models pictures on here from profiles that are clearly not that model
If you see accounts like that, please report them. It’s super helpful. There are very few people who actually report fake accounts (there are a couple people who are great about it) and it’s hands down the easiest way to identify them. I know I don’t have an encyclopedic knowledge of every web model out there, nobody does, but everyone working together can make a difference.
1 year
StoryEnjoyer:
Not really sure what I would be in as a feedee, I am not sure if I would be dominant or submissive, in my minds eye I think it is somewhat neutral a bit of both.
Munchies:
Not all feedists are dominant or submissive. In fact, a good chunk exist outside of power play.
Letters And Numbers:
I feel like I notice a trend, maybe it’s younger people, or more online people, or just life in post 50-Shades world, of folks trying to shoehorn every relationship into a dom/sub power dynamic, which is just kinda funny to me.
Munchies:
Not sure how old you are, but this is hardly anything new. In fact, if you scroll through a lot of older feedist community posts (like Dimensions) you'll see that this kind of thinking is quite old. You and I know that being a feedist isn't inherently part of power play. But there's always been a sizeable chunk of the community that sees it that way.
Look at a lot of the older feedist media. Feeders tend to be coded as doms and feedees tend to be coded as subs. It's so ingrained in people's minds that anything outside of this dynamic is transgressive. In fact, if you look at some BDSM spaces, a lot of people think feedism is an aspect of power play.
It's not. I cannot emphasize how much it's not. But this is a mindset that's developed from the earliest days of the community and cemented by the mainstream not knowing what they're talking about.
I’m not talking about the feedist community, I’m talking about general life. There’s a desire to categorize people like they’re Pokémon that seems to be more common with younger folks but it’s not exclusive.
1 year
StoryEnjoyer:
Not really sure what I would be in as a feedee, I am not sure if I would be dominant or submissive, in my minds eye I think it is somewhat neutral a bit of both.
Munchies:
Not all feedists are dominant or submissive. In fact, a good chunk exist outside of power play.
I feel like I notice a trend, maybe it’s younger people, or more online people, or just life in post 50-Shades world, of folks trying to shoehorn every relationship into a dom/sub power dynamic, which is just kinda funny to me.
1 year
