I am not a couple man. But it developped when I was seventeen.



On others. I am not a feedee.



Never.



Again, I am not a couple man. And wbat do you mean by "weight comparisons"?

My first ex-feedee has lost all her extra weight, but hinted on her IG account about struggling with some lockdown gain a little prior I unfollowed and blocked her.

My second ex-feedee had hardly gained any weight, freaked out, later began to become a bodybuilder years after we stopped talking with each other, slacked off for some unknown reasons and blimped out into a bonafide chubster.

My third ex-feedee hardly jumped off the wagon that she leave afterward and trimmed back.

Some former flirtations has gained a lot of weight at varying levels of excess weight nay obesity. I don't know what happened to them next.

My first current official online feedee has begun to soften up, but I suspect she currently had a weight-conscious anxiety attack and now try to tone up and shunning away from the meal plan. Three others has just begun, but they are still skinny. And dozens of unofficial satellitary or proxy online feedees chubbed up, whilst the two latter who occured to be already bonafide obese are now all bordering on super morbidly obese territory.





Referencing Question on #4
At 17 you may have liked women weighing 200 Lbs. and now you like them weighing 300+ lbs.

I was wondering, and it might be interesting to hear everyone else’s input as to some of the questions below regarding weight gain.

1. Have you always desired weight gain on your SO or was it something that developed later in life…..give short example or story?

2. Did you start liking weight gain on others or yourself first….and do you like on both or just one or the other know….and which?

3. Have you always liked gaining weight yourself or is it a desire
that came later in life and at what age?

4. Has the weight you desired on your SO and yourself gone up over time and give examples with weight comparisons etc.?

5. Have any of you changed from the beginning and like less weight on your SO or yourself now? (Placebo question 😂 but still interesting possibly)?

6. Is the act of sex linked to Fat and weight gain either on yourself or your SO for ultimate satisfaction and to what percentage?

I have always loved women gaining weight and especially my GF’s and now my wife for many years. There have been several times where there was a lack of weight gain with my wife when she lost weight and was on a yoyo diet ….and I tried to get her to pack the lbs. on again after several years of staying slimmer. I loaded the pantry and freezer with her favorites and she was quite happy I did and after a few months was gaining a good amount of weight, but I didn’t realize I had been eating a lot more along with her and packed on a lot more than her. I accidentally put on a big gut and because of the lack of weight gain in our marriage on her I decided to intentionally gain and see how huge I could get me gut. It was totally arousing and I wanted to have her scold me, reprimand me or tease me for developing such a huge gut sticking out in front of me.

It actually became more arousing for me to see how fat I was getting my gut than even seeing my wife fatten up at this time. I guess it was because I had secret and willing control where as with my wife we don’t really engage in an open feeding and weight gain arrangement,….I just am happy to see her gaining and don’t really bring it up in hopes she doesn’t recognize herself and she continues to keep packing the lbs.
Since this time I have gone through similar stints where I am almost more aroused by stories of wives secretly fattening their husbands and it almost becomes the ultimate arousal other than mutual gaining which to me is the ultimate.

I very much agree with the after release, feeling less intense with the weight gain feelings but during the times when weight gain is at an all time high it doesn’t last long and I keep aroused and interested fairly quickly after. Other times however the desire isn’t as strong…..but I agree that the sexual release is very much intertwined with the weight gain fetish and is a very strong sexual hold. I have always associated sex with fat and weight gain but as times goes on it is even more linked and needed for total satisfaction sexually.

It almost seems as time goes on with this fetish that the sexual act in itself is not the focus at all …..it is more the fat and weight gain and all that goes with it that is the sexual act rather than the act itself….can anyone else relate to this?

I mean I guess both - on the side of liking your women Fat or yourself Fat is more of a personal thing that you shouldn’t really feel obligated to let the world or your close friends or family know.

I kind of believe it is left for yourself and if you like your partner if and when you feel it’s time. Obviously, everyone has different personalities, some are more reserved and some are much more open. If you are the open personality type then possibly all of you friend group and family may know that you like your women Fat and making them fatter or you tell them you don’t mind having a huge fat gut and that you even try with every meal to make it even larger…..but I don’t think that is the norm and obviously to varying degrees.

A lot of times whether it be having girlfriends and now your wife that were heavy or gained a lot of weight while they were together with you…..I believe that by deductive reasoning most people would feel that you like your women big and possibly enjoy having them get bigger. Or if you develop a big gut and don’t seemed to be to concerned with it then people around you may come to think that it really doesn’t bother you and you might even like it.

I actually just saw a guy I used to work with who probably packed on 75-100 lbs. mostly all to his huge gut In the last 8 years since I have seen him last, I happened to see him at a baseball game and he was eating massive amounts and plowing through beers happy as can be…..and the first thing that came to my mind was he was very much into his new huge gain and belly and that I have to imagine his wife who o know as well might be a feeder or at least like her new hugely fattened up husband…..with this said I do t think that many other that are not FA’s or like us on this site would think that. Others would have probably been in shock, which I definitely was, but they would think that he was unhappy or his wife must totally be bummed out with her now huge fattened husband.

My girlfriend in college took a part time job in a HR dept. for a real estate development company. You are exactly right, every women she worked with was nice and fat and didn’t shy away from all the snacks and deserts that they all brought in to eat at their desks. Over the course of six months working there my already quite plump GF gained quite a bit of weight. She kept telling me how fat she would get if she worked their full time like the other women that really befriended her. I was secretly hoping she took a job there upon graduation.

Definitely this (or you can also try)
“I want you to match me point for pound while I am pregnant, so I don’t feel strange being so much bigger than you”! Then, show him how happy you are with that weight he has been gaining and tell him you are so turned on by him looking so much more manly. Guy’s are suckers for their women sink to them….before you know it he will be 250 lbs. with a huge gut sticking out in front of him and an appetite that is uncontrollable and he won’t be able to stop gaining even if he wanted to.😁

Agreed with above……quality is key! But I am quite sure that there would be a good market for this specialty.

Whoever thought the weight gain women model market porn driven would be the top searched porn…..right….all of us did…but there are a lot of closet Fat lovers out there.

Agreed with above……quality is key! But I am quite sure that there would be a good market for this specialty.

Whoever thought the weight gain women model market porn driven would be the top searched porn…..right….all of us did…but there are a lot of closet Fat lovers out there.

I am a FA really into weight gain
A Feeder (more of an encourager)
A Feedee
Very much Into Mutual Gaining

I go in and out with varying degrees of this Kink. Weight gain on my wife and women is always on my mind…..but there are certain times where it is much much stronger than other times. Obviously it has to do with how busy I may be at these given times bit still it will come on like a storm. During these times it is when I intentionally gained myself.

I mean, I always notice a 2-3 lb. gain on my wife and get excited as I do noticing a gain on any woman I see…..but there are certain times where I need weight gain in my life like in an intense way…..more than always wanting it. Anyone else?

Bringing back a great thread -

I identify with FA and really into weight gain, Fredee (more encourager), Feedee and Mutual gaining.

I think the ultimate is mutual gaining in a marriage or relationship. Mine was non-communicative. My wife knows I like her gaining weight (definitely not to the weight I would love to see her get to) we have never ever discussed anything about my discovery of me growing my own gut. It has happened a couple time at first accidentally and then intentionally. She played right into fattening us both up without us ever discussing it. It was probably the ultimate with this kink the way I am have ever felt in my life. She was getting fatter than she had ever allowed herself to get before and seemed fine with it, maybe because I was now the biggest as the couple. Possibly it was because I put on a huge gut at the hand of her cooking or so she thought (when I was stuffing myself intentionally when we weren’t together). She seemed to love the big gutted husband she created and didn’t even mind that we were now a Fat couple.

I believe I felt more shame when I was at my biggest and knowingly chugging heavy cream and stuffing myself when I wasn’t around my wife to later come home for dinner and have her stuff me even more. I guess the reason I felt that which is also the reason it was so damn arousing is that it was kind of secretive from her….but she is the type that doesn’t like to discuss kinks in any way. I got over it because I felt everything was working favorably for both of us during this time….she seemed fine e with her weight and certainly loved the much bigger bellied husband of hers and it was all very fun and really arousing. There were times when I was by myself where I would feel a bit embarrassed if I saw someone I knew that I had t seen in a long long time and here I was with a gut sticking out in front of me looking as if I was 18 months pregnant. But most of the time I was totally aroused by my massive gain and would show off proudly and even engage in conversation at the grocery store or wherever with employees I knew but were not close to that still saw me with at least a 50 lb. gain. I would be buying tons (obscene amounts) of ice cream and sweets to pack the pantry and fridge…..and start a conversation about weight gain….you would be surprised how many people love to engage in these conversations.

I have never felt shame or embarrassment for my wife’s gains and only relished in them. Likewise I have done my entire life with heavier girlfriends or people in general. I have loved fatter women since I was kid and the weight that I love has only increased over time. I think that is probably the main thing I feel ashamed about a bit is my wife thinks that I like her Fat and in her eyes that is 170+ lbs. at 5’ 3”. When she was at 200 lbs. or slightly over she was definitely Fat in most people’s eyes and definitely in hers and probably felt as though I thought she was Fat. If I ever muster up enough courage to tell her I would love to see her at 300 lbs. or even 350 lbs. and would love her just the same but probably lust after her even more……she would say I am weird and disgusting. So, I have never ever said that yet. I long time ago early on when my wife was at her heaviest after multiple pregnancies in a row we were at the mall and she was in an inquisitive mood, she asked me looking at a very pretty woman that was heavier (around 250 lbs.) “does she got into your Fat catagory of liking”? I simply said I think she is pretty and not to Fat…..this is a tricky situation. Then she asked if another lady who must have been 300+ but not very attractive at all “do you tho i she is hot”? I was caught but I had an out because I didn’t think she was hot, but I certainly didn’t mind how Fat she was……so, I said No….she then said “Good, because if you think I would look Hot that Fat….I would think there is something wrong with you”! So, I do t think I am going to bring up that I want her to get Fat for me up to 300-350 lbs. anytime soon. I have definitely told her early on and several times though that she would never ever be Fat that I didn’t find her totally beautiful and love her at that size. I guess this is the only thing I feel ashamed or guilty of being scared to have her tho I I so strange for the upper end what I am attracted to with her gaining or for any woman!