Self-pleasure using toys with a larger body (advice)
BigBoyGinger:
Sorry if this isn't the location for this topic.
If you have trouble reaching your genitalia during self-pleasure there are many great toy options that can make things easier and more fun. Hoping to spread some knowledge from my own training and education since this stuff isn't often talked about for fat bodies.
Wands - Pretty obvious one, having a long handle with heavy vibration at the end can offer many great sensory options. There are several brands that offer Wands with a curved handle which is perfect for reaching around your belly.
Controller toys - We've got variety here. From anal/prostate play to panty vibes to hands-free vibes. All of these categories offer products that can be controlled from an included remote or even an app on your phone. Big recommendation here is We-Vibe. They offer all of these toy categories which can be controlled from a single app. Big selling point here is that you can sync multiple toys under the same vibrations.
Straddling vibes - If you enjoy the feeling of straddling, but don't always want the feeling of insertion then you're in luck. Multiple companies are offering heavy duty straddling pads of varying heights and grooves. Strong vibrations, often with multiple motors inside each peak.
"Fuck machines" - This refers to any toys that offer self-propelling thrusting. This could be something handheld or a full 4-armed rig. A recommendation from me based off of what I've seen is it's better to purchase one that has a suction pad. The ones with a built in dildo will often bend at the connector when meeting any resistance which is often the case with larger thighs. The suction pad makes it much more versatile too! You can attach any dildos or vibrators with a suction base, and you can even attach masturbators with a suction base.
Have some good clean fun out there
Sorry if this isn't the location for this topic.
If you have trouble reaching your genitalia during self-pleasure there are many great toy options that can make things easier and more fun. Hoping to spread some knowledge from my own training and education since this stuff isn't often talked about for fat bodies.
Wands - Pretty obvious one, having a long handle with heavy vibration at the end can offer many great sensory options. There are several brands that offer Wands with a curved handle which is perfect for reaching around your belly.
Controller toys - We've got variety here. From anal/prostate play to panty vibes to hands-free vibes. All of these categories offer products that can be controlled from an included remote or even an app on your phone. Big recommendation here is We-Vibe. They offer all of these toy categories which can be controlled from a single app. Big selling point here is that you can sync multiple toys under the same vibrations.
Straddling vibes - If you enjoy the feeling of straddling, but don't always want the feeling of insertion then you're in luck. Multiple companies are offering heavy duty straddling pads of varying heights and grooves. Strong vibrations, often with multiple motors inside each peak.
"Fuck machines" - This refers to any toys that offer self-propelling thrusting. This could be something handheld or a full 4-armed rig. A recommendation from me based off of what I've seen is it's better to purchase one that has a suction pad. The ones with a built in dildo will often bend at the connector when meeting any resistance which is often the case with larger thighs. The suction pad makes it much more versatile too! You can attach any dildos or vibrators with a suction base, and you can even attach masturbators with a suction base.
Have some good clean fun out there
I'd also take a look at disability-friendly sex toys. You'd be shocked by how many options there are for various things.
I've even seen some dildo extension handles of varying lengths to use with pre-existing toys. So, if there's a toy you love, you may not have to give it up when you reach a certain size.
1 month
Should i wait for my metabolism to slow down?
Arame:
Your metabolism or BMR(Basal metabolic rate) is directly influenced by your lean body mass index(how much you weigh minus the body fat). The leaner you are, meaning less body fat you have, the higher your metabolism will be. To slow it down, you need to increase your body fat percentage. One pound of fat is 3,500 calories. So, to gain one pound of fat a week, you need to consume 500 calories above your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) aka maintenance calories per day to reach 3,500 calories in a 7 day span. Because 3,500 divided by 7 is 500.
By my calculations, you being a male at 5’11, 128lbs. Your BMR should be around 1,593. Assuming that you want to live a sedentary lifestyle, then your TDEE should be around 1,911 calories per day. So, to gain, you should be consuming 2,411 calories a day. Hopefully this helps
Morbidly A Beast:
Exactly! can you like write how to do the math given activity levels and what not, I was always questioning how that effected the math.
Arame:
Sure, I could! But not for you 😊
Your metabolism or BMR(Basal metabolic rate) is directly influenced by your lean body mass index(how much you weigh minus the body fat). The leaner you are, meaning less body fat you have, the higher your metabolism will be. To slow it down, you need to increase your body fat percentage. One pound of fat is 3,500 calories. So, to gain one pound of fat a week, you need to consume 500 calories above your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) aka maintenance calories per day to reach 3,500 calories in a 7 day span. Because 3,500 divided by 7 is 500.
By my calculations, you being a male at 5’11, 128lbs. Your BMR should be around 1,593. Assuming that you want to live a sedentary lifestyle, then your TDEE should be around 1,911 calories per day. So, to gain, you should be consuming 2,411 calories a day. Hopefully this helps
Morbidly A Beast:
Exactly! can you like write how to do the math given activity levels and what not, I was always questioning how that effected the math.
Arame:
Sure, I could! But not for you 😊
1 month
Do you just appreciate the community?
Munchies:
TIL that Enas does not understand the difference between discrimination and consequences for bad behavior.
Learning things. Well, I suppose English is not your native language.
Enas:
I made a distinction between the two. You ignored that?
Im always open to criticism, but i would like to be criticised for the things i actually do, not for the illusions other people might have about me...
TIL that Enas does not understand the difference between discrimination and consequences for bad behavior.
Learning things. Well, I suppose English is not your native language.
Enas:
I made a distinction between the two. You ignored that?
Im always open to criticism, but i would like to be criticised for the things i actually do, not for the illusions other people might have about me...
1 month
