Aliaspace10:
Hello
I have always been chubby and I have self-consciousness until now, I have tried all the diets to lose weight since I was very little, today I accept and I love my fat and flabby body. would like to gain even more weight but I'm afraid that my family and friends will comment and put me on a diet (this has already happened) How I could gain weight without them noticing?
Munchies:
Friendly reminder that you are 18 now. They can't make you do anything.
Aliaspace10:
But I still live with my parents
Munchies:
Still an adult. And as such, they have no legal right to your bodily autonomy.
That said, I highly recommend securing income so you can buy your own food if possible. That way, they can't harp on you for eating up all their food.
Echo this... Part time job, freelancing, Up work... It *IS* reasonable that you expect to contribute to expenses you incur. It is *NOT* someone else's right to demand your body look a certain way.
That said, I do understand. And realistically, it is a balance. What do you find exciting and hot? What do you find reasonable for your daily life and budget? How much judgment are you willing to tolerate? Are you ready to face it? Know wherever you are in your journey is okay.
But if you are ready to take the leap, good for you. Your body only belongs to you, even if you find the love of your life. Wishing you the very best.
1 year
We recently went back to my college town and ate at my favorite buffet. They now have a three plate limit, not including salad and dessert. I was very disappointed. I used to pile up seven or eight plates and eat to my belly's content. 😭
1 year
I was the fattest kid in school, the biggest person 99 percent of the time in my college classes, the largest person with my company, and pretty much the fattest person I see in most public spaces. My immediate family members are all thin or average weight, and there's no one in my extended family who is more than a little overweight.
1 year
I've actually had the opportunity to do it before-- an all-day stuffing. Thousands of calories of rich, delicious food... all kinds of flavors... Until my tight, bloated belly is so stuffed, there's nothing to do but nap. When I wake up, I'm ready to do it again, and this time, I expand even more. I repeat this for a full day, until I'm so swollen and sated with food, my body is sensitive to the touch, and my belly button feels like it's straining. No sensation like it.
1 year
MickRidem:
It's been warm enough a few times to not wear a jacket! I love tucking the seat belt under my belly and feeling the jiggles when I drive. But this past week there was a strange feeling, like something pushing on the back of my sides against the seat. I reached around to see what was stuck, I didn't think I sat with a shirt bunched up or anything...
It was just the sides of the bucket seat shape, pushing against my fat that apparently has wrapped around my sides more, and making contact. That was the first time I've ever felt that sensation. I have... I have wrap-around fat?! 😲🤯🍆
BigBallBellyGirl:
It feels great, doesn't it! Of course, I'm someone who actually outgrew a car, soooo... 🤣
Nofbar:
I'm around 330 now and am starting to notice pressure from my car's door and the brake release pushing into my fat. How big were you when you outgrew a car?
Around 450, I started losing the ability to turn as I needed to in my vehicle, therefore, I lost full visibility. I found my belly mashed into the steering wheel too, and when I almost lost control struggling to make a turn one day, I knew it wasn't safe to drive my sedan anymore. For a brief time, my now fiance did all the driving. Then, we traded my Camry for a van. I'm both safer and more comfortable. I've also been able to add a mount for my new scooter, which is useful because I've gotten too heavy for most loaner scooters in grocery stores.
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
When I first joined the site I thought I was only attracted to skinny bodies but as I’ve explored a bit I’ve come to really admire larger women and a couple men that are roughly the same build as me. That said physics would probably favor the smaller partner and an active partner would make up for some of my laziness
It works this way for my fiance and me. I'm very obese; he's 6'4" and a lean 180 pounds. I love his body regardless, but his build does allow us to do things we might not be able to do if he was fat too.
1 year
MickRidem:
It's been warm enough a few times to not wear a jacket! I love tucking the seat belt under my belly and feeling the jiggles when I drive. But this past week there was a strange feeling, like something pushing on the back of my sides against the seat. I reached around to see what was stuck, I didn't think I sat with a shirt bunched up or anything...
It was just the sides of the bucket seat shape, pushing against my fat that apparently has wrapped around my sides more, and making contact. That was the first time I've ever felt that sensation. I have... I have wrap-around fat?! 😲🤯🍆
It feels great, doesn't it! Of course, I'm someone who actually outgrew a car, soooo... 🤣
1 year
Aliaspace10:
Hello
I have always been chubby and I have self-consciousness until now, I have tried all the diets to lose weight since I was very little, today I accept and I love my fat and flabby body. would like to gain even more weight but I'm afraid that my family and friends will comment and put me on a diet (this has already happened) How I could gain weight without them noticing?
Your body is YOURS. If you love yourself at a larger size and want to gain, do it for YOU. Love your body, and enjoy yourself.
1 year
BigBallBellyGirl:While I am supersized, I'm still very much into looking neat and feeling pretty. Clothing are a challenge because I'm short (5'3"
and very big bellied. I intentionally gained 200 pounds last year (plus a few more this year, though I'm mostly maintaining). My standing midsection measurement, at the biggest spot, is 98", which is bigger than 80% of plus sized retailers carry. Of course, as is the case with fat, my girth increases dramatically when I sit, so everything has to have a lot of give. The point is, clothing is tricky because of my shape, but I'm excited because I found a freelance fashion designer/clothing maker on Upwork. I sent her measurements and got three beautiful spring dresses. I'm definitely going to order more. Of course I had to wait for them, and they weren't cheap, but I'll be wearing them all season. Going to prove that fat girl summer can be hot girl summer too!
Munchies:I bet you'll be stunning
Thank you so much! I'm so happy I will get to be both in style and comfortable.
1 year
While I am supersized, I'm still very much into looking neat and feeling pretty. Clothing are a challenge because I'm short (5'3"
and very big bellied. I intentionally gained 200 pounds last year (plus a few more this year, though I'm mostly maintaining). My standing midsection measurement, at the biggest spot, is 98", which is bigger than 80% of plus sized retailers carry. Of course, as is the case with fat, my girth increases dramatically when I sit, so everything has to have a lot of give. The point is, clothing is tricky because of my shape, but I'm excited because I found a freelance fashion designer/clothing maker on Upwork. I sent her measurements and got three beautiful spring dresses. I'm definitely going to order more. Of course I had to wait for them, and they weren't cheap, but I'll be wearing them all season. Going to prove that fat girl summer can be hot girl summer too!
1 year
