Current BMI is 93.7. I'm a bit of a chunk.
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
Content Creators are Toxic for the parasocial aspect it sends mixed signals to people who probably don’t know better, but it really isn’t the creators fault but like it isn’t said enough I feel like. But I also think sex work is real work. Big brain.
Agreed! I'd say that content creation is absolutely valid entrepreneurship, and I certainly respect people who are able to make it profitable. I think the danger is when people assume everyone on the site wants to put out content and is somehow not participating appropriately in the community if they are not doing so. As fat people, we don't exist for others' gratification. We exist as whole humans, all by ourselves, with the right to be active here and in any other space we choose in whatever way we choose.
1 year
BigBallBellyGirl:
I mean... He's not wrong. Between Nov. 2022 and Dec. 2023, I went from 290 to 490, and my belly went from 58 inches to 93 inches because I was shoveling in pounds of hamburgers, chicken tenders, fries, pizza, bread, chips, pasta, and cheese everyday. That not only led to a big pot belly, but to a huge layer of hard visceral fat.
Nofbar:
Ack! You're making me jealous of you blowing up so big so quickly.
And I have zero regrets! If my body could handle 100 more pounds, I would do it in a heartbeat. Unfortunately, I had to put the brakes on after I hit 500 to 525.
1 year
LeFerrellV:
My fiancee goes on my case about eating my food fast. I just can't help it. It's like my mind turns off when I eat. I do get indigestion from it but the idea of mindless eating is really erotic. Does anybody else have this issue.
BigBallBellyGirl:
I have a friend who teaches middle school. Lunch periods are 40 minutes. That time includes lining the students up to walk to the lunchroom, standing beside her class in the lunch line, and waiting at her designated spot for them to line back up when finished. As a result, teachers end up wolfing down food quickly. She realized, as she unintentionally gained about 20 pounds (unwanted, in her case), she was eating everything quickly and would often be overly full before her brain and stomach connected to realize it. One of her weight loss strategies was to slow down and eat mindfully.
I don't want to lose weight, but when I did decide to more or less maintain, I started doing the same thing. As a stuffer, I'm accustomed to putting away a whole large pizza in 15 minutes. I've had to step back and learn to taste my food instead of packing it in as fast as possible. Granted, I still eat a lot. My maintenance calories at my size are about 4,500 a day. But eating more slowly has helped me cut back to that, from 10,000 to 20,000 as my norm.
I said that all to say, what you've read is definitely true. Take it from a long time power stuffer
LeFerrellV:
10,000 to 20,000 Wow!!! I like to stuff from time to time. I think that's why I eat fast because I have probably learn to turn my mind off when I eat. I don't want to lose weight either. I get stomach indigestion sometimes, especially from eating pizza, and I absolutely love pizza. I wish that I had the money or resources to consume 10,000 to 20,000 calories a day. It is hard for me to consume 4500 calories a day. I wish that I could be mindless to a lot of things sometimes.
Pizza is delicious -- but I know some folks pay for eating large quantities of it with indigestion! For some reason, I have an ironclad digestive system. In spite of everything I have packed in my belly over the years, I can't really recall a time when I had heartburn. Other issues, yes, but not heartburn.
1 year
Aliaspace10:
Hello
I have always been chubby and I have self-consciousness until now, I have tried all the diets to lose weight since I was very little, today I accept and I love my fat and flabby body. would like to gain even more weight but I'm afraid that my family and friends will comment and put me on a diet (this has already happened) How I could gain weight without them noticing?
Munchies:
Friendly reminder that you are 18 now. They can't make you do anything.
Aliaspace10:
But I still live with my parents
Munchies:
Still an adult. And as such, they have no legal right to your bodily autonomy.
That said, I highly recommend securing income so you can buy your own food if possible. That way, they can't harp on you for eating up all their food.
Echo this... Part time job, freelancing, Up work... It *IS* reasonable that you expect to contribute to expenses you incur. It is *NOT* someone else's right to demand your body look a certain way.
That said, I do understand. And realistically, it is a balance. What do you find exciting and hot? What do you find reasonable for your daily life and budget? How much judgment are you willing to tolerate? Are you ready to face it? Know wherever you are in your journey is okay.
But if you are ready to take the leap, good for you. Your body only belongs to you, even if you find the love of your life. Wishing you the very best.
1 year
We recently went back to my college town and ate at my favorite buffet. They now have a three plate limit, not including salad and dessert. I was very disappointed. I used to pile up seven or eight plates and eat to my belly's content. 😭
1 year
I was the fattest kid in school, the biggest person 99 percent of the time in my college classes, the largest person with my company, and pretty much the fattest person I see in most public spaces. My immediate family members are all thin or average weight, and there's no one in my extended family who is more than a little overweight.
1 year
I've actually had the opportunity to do it before-- an all-day stuffing. Thousands of calories of rich, delicious food... all kinds of flavors... Until my tight, bloated belly is so stuffed, there's nothing to do but nap. When I wake up, I'm ready to do it again, and this time, I expand even more. I repeat this for a full day, until I'm so swollen and sated with food, my body is sensitive to the touch, and my belly button feels like it's straining. No sensation like it.
1 year
MickRidem:
It's been warm enough a few times to not wear a jacket! I love tucking the seat belt under my belly and feeling the jiggles when I drive. But this past week there was a strange feeling, like something pushing on the back of my sides against the seat. I reached around to see what was stuck, I didn't think I sat with a shirt bunched up or anything...
It was just the sides of the bucket seat shape, pushing against my fat that apparently has wrapped around my sides more, and making contact. That was the first time I've ever felt that sensation. I have... I have wrap-around fat?! 😲🤯🍆
BigBallBellyGirl:
It feels great, doesn't it! Of course, I'm someone who actually outgrew a car, soooo... 🤣
Nofbar:
I'm around 330 now and am starting to notice pressure from my car's door and the brake release pushing into my fat. How big were you when you outgrew a car?
Around 450, I started losing the ability to turn as I needed to in my vehicle, therefore, I lost full visibility. I found my belly mashed into the steering wheel too, and when I almost lost control struggling to make a turn one day, I knew it wasn't safe to drive my sedan anymore. For a brief time, my now fiance did all the driving. Then, we traded my Camry for a van. I'm both safer and more comfortable. I've also been able to add a mount for my new scooter, which is useful because I've gotten too heavy for most loaner scooters in grocery stores.
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
When I first joined the site I thought I was only attracted to skinny bodies but as I’ve explored a bit I’ve come to really admire larger women and a couple men that are roughly the same build as me. That said physics would probably favor the smaller partner and an active partner would make up for some of my laziness
It works this way for my fiance and me. I'm very obese; he's 6'4" and a lean 180 pounds. I love his body regardless, but his build does allow us to do things we might not be able to do if he was fat too.
1 year
