I don't see this talked about on here too much. But can anyone else feel their stretch marks come in? I really don't have many at this point, just some on my loves handles, arms, and chest, but none on my belly. But in the last day or so my previously faded stretch marks have turned red again at their tips and they're giving me a weird tingling sensation. It's both slightly uncomfortable and also a nice reminder I'm starting to make some progress again in my gain
10 months
I'd be down, I personally prefer Java but I have bedrock too
10 months
Dude Minecraft goes hard as fuck, I swear that was the only thing that kept me sane during the pandemic
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Miachu:
Just wondering if anyone had any favourite characters in media who got fat. From fat TV episodes, characters who got fat in books/comis or characters who just got bigger over time
Curious what folks favourites are!
One of mine probably gotta be Deku's mum from my hero, as it's never really brought to your attention that she got fat, just that she was skinner in the past, it feels real natural to me
For me it has to be god of war Thor. Like he has the perfect belly to muscle ratio, I would literally kill to have that body or date someone with that body or preferably both. I'm just so tired of Thor being depicted as super slim, even though if you look at any strong man they are nowhere near slim at all
10 months
So for as much as I talk about how hot I think muscle chub is I honestly haven't been able to go to the gym that much recently. I just got a second job in June and honestly that been eating up most of my free time.
Usually when I take long breaks from the gym I'll start to lose weight because my body starts breaking down the muscle. But this time my weight actually started going up, and oh boy I could definitely tell once I got to the gym.
I've completely cut cardio out of my workout routine, but even just using the machines was a pain. I can definitely tell most of the machines at my gym were made with skinny people in mind because even though I'm only 224 my shoulders still felt too tight in a lot of them, so I had to sort of wiggle my way in there. And even though there was massive overhead fans blowing I was still sweating like crazy. I swear I would practically never sweat when I was below 200 lbs but recently the Texas heat has gotten to me much more.
I'm curious if any other gainers/feedees have any going back to the gym stories they'd like to share
10 months
Ultimateaaron12:
I think I’m finally ready to give into gaining but my problem is I feel really embarrassed at the idea of ordering at restaurants or grocery shopping like a fat person especially as someone the exact opposite and of course already being shy in general doesn’t help but I’m wondering if anyone who had a similar experience who was embarrassed about giving in and eventually let go has any advice would be greatly appreciated
Morbidly A Beast:
3 words: food delivery apps
Worried about people judging you for getting enough food to feed a family of 12, don’t worry door dash will do it for you and they’ll just drop it at your door no interaction required
Or you can do curbside pick up you can have someone shop for you and alls you have to do is open your trunk and boom you got groceries or like I said just get a grocery delivery app
People need to stop worrying about what people might say or do and just learn to go with the vibes, don’t get me wrong I struggle with this sometimes too but the idea that someone is going to say something or bully you for being a fatty because you got a lot of food will never happen and if it does ever I will eat my words trust me but it won’t the fear is irrational fundamentally
I feel like this is a really common fear for people who started off skinny, or people who just generally grew up in a very fatphobic household. I'm definitely guilty of projecting a lot of the fatphobic views my parents instilled in me, so for instance sometimes when I'm going through a drive thru as soon as I hear the person's voice through the speaker I'll downsize my order because I'm afraid of them thinking I'm being a fatty. So I can definitely vouch for morbidly a beast's advice. Even if the worker is going to completely forget you exist in like 5 seconds, ordering online helps avoid feeling embarrassed
10 months
I'm not vegan but I have been vegetarian for a long while. The main thing that makes being vegetarian/vegan so hard with this fetish is that most of that food just doesn't have that many calories so you have to find little work arounds and just eat in as large of quantities as you can stomach. I would suggest trying to find a good protein powder/mass gainer (I don't know any vegan brands off the top of my head) and make a bunch of weight gain shakes with that and peanut butter (I've found I prefer soy milk for shakes if I do a milk alternative but really any of them should work). Then for meals just try to find things that are heavy in carbs and try to eat as much as you can. For a nice simple meal one of my favorites is refried beans on rice with cornbread.
10 months
This is my my feederism hot take but honestly I don't like completely sedentary jobs as a feedee because at least for me if I stay sedentary all day I just don't get an appetite at all. I would say preferably try to find a job where you move around some but still get to sit down for long parts of the day. I currently work at a warehouse as a wheel chair technician which allows me to set around for most of the day waiting for our deliveries to show up, and when they do I can sit down while I work on them. Because of that I'm burning some calories through out the day but it makes me hungry enough I'm easily able to eat enough to replace and exceed the calories lost.
10 months
I'd say if you're in the fence give it a shot. I thought I was more of a feeder/fat admirer when I first got into this fetish but I started gaining weight on my own and I turned into a full on feedee. If you gain a few lbs and decide it's not for you, then no harm no foul. Its not that hard to loose that little of weight. But if you decide you like it then you may actually be a feedee in hiding or a mutual gainer
10 months
I've mentioned this on other posts but I started gaining when I was 125 lbs, but it was a lot of lean muscle mass. Once I hit 175 ish I started putting on some more body fat as well as muscle, and now I'm sitting at 222 looking to get bigger
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