Try bringing different foods into the bedroom every night and feed them slowly to her while telling her how your going to help her grow fatter and sexier. Strawberries one night, small pastries the next, ice cream the next. Don't know if she is turned on by "fat talk" but if just thinking about gaining weight turns her on, she might be open to hearing from you how much helping her gain and grow fat will turn you on and how much sexier it will make her. Also during the day, offer to buy her various fattening treats and when going out to dinner ask "Why don't we order a nice fattening dessert".

I agree with the above. I had the exact same experience as a grew older. Started with chubby girls in middle school, and now as an older adult I find myself really turned on by heavier women. It really depends on a woman's height and how she carries the weight. Being a member of boards such as this for a number of years has really opened my eyes to the beauty and sexual appeal of SSBBWs. I would have to say a range of 250 to 400 lbs. is ideal for me now. Although I can get turned on by smaller, chubbier women as well.

I can't think of anything more erotic than mutual gaining. Both you and your spouse or partner enjoying talking about food, eating out often, sharing desserts, feeding each other in bed, caressing each others bellies and encouraging each other to grow ever fatter. this would be so hot!

While a fat round belly is my favorite, after that I would have to say thick, luscious thighs that rub together just above the knees along with fat upper arms. I don't know why fat arms turn me on so much but they really do, especially when you see a beautiful fat woman in a sleeveless top or dress.

When I got married I was 175 lbs. and the weight crept up after that. After numerous diets where I always gained back the weight, I decided some time ago to never diet again and enjoy all the food the world has to offer. I slowly gained 130 lbs. over a 12 year period and have been over 300 lbs. ever since. I have embraced the fat life and found I really enjoyed gaining weight. Food and fat are now my passions.

For me the growth in the numbers on the scale and in my measurements always added a thrill to my gaining. It was direct evidence of my progress and the higher the numbers went up on the scale, the more turned on I became. Reaching 300 lbs. was a special thrill and seeing my weight exceed that number for the first time on the scale really excited me. I also like it when I weighed in at my doctor's office and my weight was at an all time high. I found I looked forward to being gently scolded by my female doctor for getting even fatter. It may sound a bit weird but it is true. And growing ever larger in my clothing sizes was a turn-on as well.

Couldn't agree more. You are definitely one of my favorites Elanor.

Could not agree more. I have found that I really can't gain much more than 300 lbs. without really compromising my knees and mobility. The fantasy of growing even bigger is very pleasant and intellectually I would love to eat my way up to 400 lbs. but know I can't in real life. I am definitely a full-blown FA with strong gaining fantasies and love fat but know there are limits in reality.

Love all the above. Here are some actual comments from female friends and relatives:

--I love to eat. Eating makes me happy.

--I am so full I am going to explode out of these jeans.

--Let me sit here for a minute before dessert to let my food digest. I am so full.

--I am glad I wore my eating dress (looser than normal) so I could really enjoy myself.

--I am really looking forward to this cruise. I can pig out for 8 straight days

--I hope nobody minds, but I really have to loosen my belt.

--You know I am a big eater.

--Excuse me for a moment. I have to put on a larger pair of jeans. I really overindulged this time.

--I could never go on a diet and give up the foods I love.

--I must be really putting on weight. These seats use to have plenty of room.

Comments like these really turn-me on!

I would love this as well. It would be a dream fulfilled. And Modrockerbee's idea in a group stuffing of giving the winner a prize of an extra piece of cake if their clothes ripped or a button popped off is great and hot!