Anyone switch from feeder to feedee?

voluptuouslover:
After I continued to intentionally gain along with her feeding us both huge fattening meals.....without one conversation about this she actually took on the feeder roll in our relationship and was making us BOTH much fatter than I ever achieved. She seemed to have a sense of excitement with verbally discussing how fat I got not to mention I think she loved the fact that she thought it was all her cooking and live that made me this FAT.....and the best was she didn’t even care how Fat she was getting for the first time in her life. Mutual gaining for sure became my total favorite.

canuck:
that is really great that you are both engaged in this, and that you both are so accepting of your growing bodies. smiley

was this a gradual shift over a long period of time?



I just noticed I had a huge typo. It was supposed to say without not with. So, it was basically a non verbal thing going on….in which she was feeding us both and we were both gaining a bunch but we didn’t discuss it openly. I believe she liked the big gut I put on and didn’t seem to mind herself getting fatter since I got so big. Usually when she is gaining she puts a stop to it where as this time she kept eating huge along with me and getting much fatter than she would typically allow herself. I tacked it up to just indulging my fattening ways of filling my huge gut with her help and not really minding how big she was getting because I was now the biggest one in the marriage.

Although, I did relate to mutual gaining in my marriage being the absolute biggest kink and arousal I have now. Something not only about your wife fattening up continually but seeing your own big gut sticking out in front of you and having your ever gaining women feeding you both all the time knowing you both keep getting fatter and fatter. It is certainly true in my discovery that getting fatter together leads to a much much more satisfying sex life. Both stuffed and bloated cuddling and making love with their ever expanding figures is the highest arousal in my book.
5 years

Starting to realise i'm a feedee

I have always been into women gaining weight my whole life and especially my SO and now my wife.
This weight gain thing does manifest itself in other ways as things go on. I have found myself a few times throughout the years accidentally gain and I then turned it into an intentional gain. I believe it was because of a lack of weight gain for a while on my wife…..but I found at that time I became more interested in myself gaining than even my wife gaining. I had the biggest arousal and desire to have my wife tease me or even scold me for putting on such a big gut in a fairly short amount of time.

I would recommend what I did at the time. I stuffed every day when I wasn’t around my wife and would have plenty of sweets (which I know craved) donuts, snickers ice cream directly following a normal work day lunch. Before I would go hone for dinner I would suck down a couple fattening milk shakes from a drive thru. At this stage I had already packed on a good size gut and my wife was used to cooking us some pretty fattening large meals because both of our appetites had increased pretty big over the last several months. I would be so bloated that I didn’t tho I I could even eat dinner and my wife would come over a put a massive plate of lasagna, and Italian bread in front of me, after my first bite I just kept going, before I was even finished she would come over with the pan and scoop my an even bigger piece of lasagna as well as given her plate another huge piece. I continued this overly obnoxious stuffing day after day, week after week and before I knew it my appetite was so huge I almost didn’t get full anymore just kept eating and eating. But what I did a couple months prior to get to this stage was when I was completely stuffed and didn’t tho I I could eat another bite, I would then make fattening milkshakes. I was surprised that I could put 3+ milkshakes and then follow by a couple tall glasses of milk and then water. For one, it is pretty fun to see how stretched and distended your gut can become and it became a bit of a contest with myself to see how big I could get it. The other thing it does is it stretches out your stomach and I got to the point when not my even hungry I could easily eat 3-4 times what I would eat in a normal sitting without feeling sick from the big meal. I honestly believe that in order to get really big and fat this is something that occurs in everyone of that size. I would wake up in the morning with hunger in my stomach….if I didn’t eat a huge amount I felt as though I needed so much more to feel even close to satisfied. Eventually when you are at this stage you can basically eat and eat and eat even more even if you are not hungry.

Try this out and see if you surprise yourself the way I did.
5 years

Expecting pants to fit - and they don’t

Ditzy:
Since this covid thing everything I own has gotten tight.
My skirt waistbands are stretched just about as far as they will go.
My PJs barely fit and just roll down at the waist.
Had to break out some of my old fat jeans because 28s were just too hard to button and not comfy at all when I sit down.
Back in the 4 and 5X tops now too.


Love your new pic….and all of your commentary and input!
5 years

Period stuffing, anyone else?

My wife has a big increase in her appetite for not only meals but chocolate and ice cream even more than usual. I can always tell that she is pms’ing because her Breasts are over flowing / double bubbling out her bras. She definitely gains 3-5 lbs. in these few days if not more….and it is very clear to me❤️
5 years

What does rapid weight gain feel like?

So many have replied to the first question I don’t want to be redundant …..but with regard to the second one.

Always stuffed big gut from morning to night when you stuff all day. Your appetite increases to the point your not even hungry when it is time for the next meal but them once you start eating you just keep going like a bottomless pit. During my time of four months my gut was huge, distended and bloated all the time. You have to adjust for so much more belly sticking out in front of you with size not really weight in my situation. Bumping into things with your gut sticking so much further in front of you, not seeing your feet…..bending over to pick something up your but hits something else because you have addressed the situation of making more room for your new frontal.
5 years

How much did you gain before weight visually oiled on faster?

I think for me in the beginning was the most dramatic change going from thin sinewy muscles to bulky muscles with a belly in a matter of three years. People that hadn’t seen me since early college to right after where extremely shocked. I was more of. Muscle chin with lifting but in a matter of three years my metabolism changed and became very muscular thick with a small gut. Another change was when I intentionally gained. While back. It’s funny how once you are bigger you sometimes don’t even notice an extra 20 lbs. gained …..and them all of a sudden you do with reminders of walking by a mirror (must be one of those weird fattening mirrors), or your T-shirt not pulling down over your gut (must have shrunk in the dryer) or these slacks don’t even fasten (they must be an old pair from a long time ago that are several Inches smaller in the waist). U til you recognize how much food you pack away in a given day. I am a fairly tall guy but I would say when I was over 250+ lbs. I definitely felt bigger and heavier…..although I didn’t think I felt as Fat as some may have thought I looked. I guess the best answer to your question is it may come as a surprise all of. Sudden when you are not paying as much attention.
5 years

Gf doesn’t like skinny bf’s

So, since the last posts have both of your bellies been growing?
5 years

Gaining whilst gf is away

The crazy thing is she didn’t even mention it how big my gut grew....other than a couple times when she was slightly intoxicated and in a fun and teasing way. She just kept feeding us and seeing her husband blow up right in front of her eyes and she was packing on quite a bit as well. I almost thought either she was proud she made her husband Fat with all her cooking or she must have some kind of kink towards this .....just not nearly as strong as I do....and she was just going with the flow.
5 years

Anyone switch from feeder to feedee?

Yea, I too was a feeder or more of an encourager. But what I found while stocking the freezer and pantry with all my wife’s favorite treats trying to help really fatten her up again.....o found after several months watching her struggle to fit into her clothes that my clothes had become even more ill fitting with a big gut sticking out in front of me.

I became almost more aroused by intentionally packing more on my gut than trying to fatten her still. I had a huge thrill to have her tease me, scold me or poke fun at me for the big gut I had packed on.

After I continued to intentionally gain along with her feeding us both huge fattening meals.....without one conversation about this she actually took on the feeder roll in our relationship and was making us BOTH much fatter than I ever achieved. She seemed to have a sense of excitement with verbally discussing how fat I got not to mention I think she loved the fact that she thought it was all her cooking and live that made me this FAT.....and the best was she didn’t even care how Fat she was getting for the first time in her life. Mutual gaining for sure became my total favorite.
5 years

Gaining whilst gf is away

So, i have mentioned my situation like this before here. I originally was buying extra snacks and making some extra fattening dinner for my wife and myself. After several mot Js of buying obscene amounts of her favorite Ben n Jerry’s flavors, chocolates, cakes , chips etc. and seem to make fattening pastas and lasagna many times a week I noticed she started packing on the lbs. but I didn’t notice at first that I had packed on way more than her and was eating her Ben n Jerry’s and snacking on cakes with her directly following dinner. I had never had a sweet tooth before and lol of a sudden I ow had a big gut sitting out on my lap and as big of a sweet tooth as my wife.

I then decided to gain intentionally to see how big of a gut I could get. Mostly, I had such an erotic desire to have my wife tease me, scold me or make fun of me for gaining such a big gut. I began stuffing like crazy all business day when I wasn’t around her. Large meals followed by deserts after lunch and continued calorie stuffing. I would get home so bloated my dress shirts were ready to shoot buttons across the room....and my slacks were easily 4” to small but I rode them lower below my newly acquired huge gut. As if it wasn’t noticeable I would try to emphasize my massive bloated gut in front of my wife....she would come in for a kiss and my huge gut would push her back and she would make a double effort to grab around my neck and pull down pressed firmly into my new size just to get close enough to kiss me. She would have me sit down to a massive fattening dinner which I was concerned I would never be able to finish after all my stuffing throughout the day. I surprised myself to low through the creamy fattening pasta dish and before I know it she was shoveling a second plate massively full even more than my first plate......it was almost like she was trying to make me even fatter.

Still she never said anything. I kept stuffing myself during the day and she would feed me and us obscene amounts for dinner followed by her plopping a massive bowl of ice cream on my lap after dinner on the couch. I ended up packing on packing on 45+ lbs. in a fairly short time and it looked like even more based on all of it going to my huge gut.

Who knows, maybe your gf will be the same way as my wife.....and you will end up much bigger than you thought with the help from her. One tho g to keep in mind.....in my case when my wife was only my gf a long time ago she would have never liked her man having a big huge gut but something g does happen to these women after they are married....they almost take honor in a way of them cooking up and making their men Fat.
5 years