slopfatjim:
i have to agree most people now don't care if u belly is left all loose and hanging - one or to say a few comments but hey i don't really mind! - free humiliation - but that said, u now know who like the flab and those who stare weather in amazement or shock! - FA stand out more now! just wish a few more would come and talk
But this is why I approach them first. Before Covid here in my area, after years of getting over the idea pathogen that folks were actually paying attention to how my gut sways and hangs as I waddle I started to pick up on small indicators of interest from female fat admirers. That is why it is up to we waddlers to make this lifestyle more popular just by leading by example
4 years
Allissa:
I really wanna have my belly peak out of my shirt, but I'm afraid of offending people.
Here is the truth, no one cares anymore. I remember in the nineties, if you were obese and had your gut showing then people would say something but not today. I see people with their guts hanging all the time. My gut hangs low so I have to cover that and my fuda with my pants and I will get the looks but even then people don't really care. I say let it hang free
4 years
Ditzy:
Only one time at a BBQ place in Kansas City.
I came close to finishing in the 45 min time limit they had so I had to pay for the meal. $55.00
I did eat all the food that was in the challenge it just took me longer.
It was the most I had ever eaten in one sitting.
2 full slabs of ribs,3 ears of corn,cole slaw, baked beans , a huge slice of Texas toast and a piece of corn bread.
I was sooo stuffed and was miserable for a few hours.
I was 420 lbs at the time and used to eating a lot.
My ex and I would travel during the Summer to the South and we took those type of places on as a challenge but she was more of a stuffer than I ever could be. I can eat large quantities of food but I could never get to the point that I was miserable. I failed every time that we ever tried those types games but we did take pictures at these places to show that I at least tried but failed. I can eat just up to being full several times a day but she tried her best to finish in the time slot allotted to us.
4 years
WideJuan76:
I don't know why but there are plenty down there. To them, the fatter that they could make their husband proved to other women from other families that they could take care of their men the best. I was telling my friend NYCBellyBlimp weeks ago about how I am most got recruited into their little group but I was too fearful because the males in the group were to the point of no return and they were no longer the men; they were just the FAT. There comes a time in a male feedees life when he has to make a choice of either he is going to eat so much that he can't have sex because there is too much fat between he and her and it's mostly his fat or he is going to have to stop. Those dudes only scared about the food and I like food but these dudes were Sitophiliacs.
EmilyW:
I am really intrigued. First, because it turned me on, second because I think I would love to write a story about this one day.
So tell me more!
I am from the North East near DC but raised between there and NYC so I had no idea about how southern women treated their male counterparts and I am talking about in traditional middle class to upper middle class areas as well as some working class environments in which catering to their men by fattening them was seen as a status thing to show off to other women in their group. I was only seen as a fetish for government types who didn't want friends to know they lusted after fat men in DC but in the South to have a male in some groups with a hanging gut made her the spouse of the month in places like New Orleans, South Carolina and some areas like Concord, NC. We would meet up once a month and the males who all meet up in the tv room to watch and talk about everything from sports to what shops to go to to get tshirts to fit their guts but I noticed over time that those dudes went way further than I did and most of them will never see the smaller side of three hundred pounds again.
4 years
WideJuan76:
I don't know why but there are plenty down there. To them, the fatter that they could make their husband proved to other women from other families that they could take care of their men the best. I was telling my friend NYCBellyBlimp weeks ago about how I am most got recruited into their little group but I was too fearful because the males in the group were to the point of no return and they were no longer the men; they were just the FAT. There comes a time in a male feedees life when he has to make a choice of either he is going to eat so much that he can't have sex because there is too much fat between he and her and it's mostly his fat or he is going to have to stop. Those dudes only scared about the food and I like food but these dudes were Sitophiliacs.
NYCBellyBlimp:
Would definitely have to do research, as some spots could be like Camden with diapers rolling in the street.[/quote]
Yeah, you have to do some research because I resided in two different spots with similar results but I had to leave because they went way down the rabbit hole of this fetish
4 years
LilRascl:
Sounds like you may have uncovered something you do/will find fun and rewarding! But I would personally advise you to think about how you’d feel if you are single, or your boyfriend weren’t into your gaining weight. Honestly, the only scary stories I hear about in this kink are from people who were doing something they deep down didn’t want to do... I get it - it’s easy to get swept up in our feelings for other people! But if you know deep down that getting fatter feels right and good to you, then congratulations and welcome to the scene!
I wholeheartedly agree. Some of us have always like getting fat while others grew it. However you waddle "out of the kitchen" doesn't matter if you really dig deep and realize that you would rather waddle than walk then that is all that matters. Waddle along this path because something compels you to and pay everyone else no mind. This is why we like LilRascl
4 years
NYCBellyBlimp:
Honestly wishing I had prepared better, knowing if my confidence was higher years earlier, I would have waited and saved $ vs buying the 5-6X clothing so soon vs the 2-4x that would fit (even if snug). Regretful as that could have went to food, savings or other expenses as I look back.
Being on the darker end of this lifestyle than most I would come across, I'm thankful to have listened and watched some experiences others have had and learn from them.
WideJuan76:
I felt that same way years ago but that fat realization comes when it comes. Had I known that there were women out here who not only loved fat men they wanted them to get even fatter than chubby. Hell, I would have done this post college and would have been set up for a whole infrastructure to complement what I was to become. I didn't find my obese mentor until I moved down south and he still advises me even up to as recent as yesterday.
NYCBellyBlimp:
Always good to have someone give a sincere heads up.
WideJuan76:
It is but most dudes don't even realize that there are more out there like them. When I met him down south, he had several guys and ladies that he was mentoring. I didn't realize til then that this was actually a thing especially in our community
NYCBellyBlimp:
Good point, as its not commonly discussed.
WideJuan76:
It isn't nor do they call it what they call it online. I didn't even know down south that it was sort of like a tradition for some families
quiverdream:
Wait, for reals? There are just families/communities in the South that train each other up to get chubby?
Why am I in New England still??
I don't know why but there are plenty down there. To them, the fatter that they could make their husband proved to other women from other families that they could take care of their men the best. I was telling my friend NYCBellyBlimp weeks ago about how I am most got recruited into their little group but I was too fearful because the males in the group were to the point of no return and they were no longer the men; they were just the FAT. There comes a time in a male feedees life when he has to make a choice of either he is going to eat so much that he can't have sex because there is too much fat between he and her and it's mostly his fat or he is going to have to stop. Those dudes only scared about the food and I like food but these dudes were Sitophiliacs.
4 years
WideJuan76:
It isn't nor do they call it what they call it online. I didn't even know down south that it was sort of like a tradition for some families
NYCBellyBlimp:
Just smh as I know about the 5% and Israelites but completely clueless prior knowing this now.[/quote]
But that is why we have to really get out of our comfort zones and she the world and I did but I didn't come across this until I moved away and folks saw fatty tendencies in me and approached me
4 years
NYCBellyBlimp:
Honestly wishing I had prepared better, knowing if my confidence was higher years earlier, I would have waited and saved $ vs buying the 5-6X clothing so soon vs the 2-4x that would fit (even if snug). Regretful as that could have went to food, savings or other expenses as I look back.
Being on the darker end of this lifestyle than most I would come across, I'm thankful to have listened and watched some experiences others have had and learn from them.
WideJuan76:
I felt that same way years ago but that fat realization comes when it comes. Had I known that there were women out here who not only loved fat men they wanted them to get even fatter than chubby. Hell, I would have done this post college and would have been set up for a whole infrastructure to complement what I was to become. I didn't find my obese mentor until I moved down south and he still advises me even up to as recent as yesterday.
NYCBellyBlimp:
Always good to have someone give a sincere heads up.
WideJuan76:
It is but most dudes don't even realize that there are more out there like them. When I met him down south, he had several guys and ladies that he was mentoring. I didn't realize til then that this was actually a thing especially in our community
NYCBellyBlimp:
Good point, as its not commonly discussed.
It isn't nor do they call it what they call it online. I didn't even know down south that it was sort of like a tradition for some families
4 years
NYCBellyBlimp:
Honestly wishing I had prepared better, knowing if my confidence was higher years earlier, I would have waited and saved $ vs buying the 5-6X clothing so soon vs the 2-4x that would fit (even if snug). Regretful as that could have went to food, savings or other expenses as I look back.
Being on the darker end of this lifestyle than most I would come across, I'm thankful to have listened and watched some experiences others have had and learn from them.
WideJuan76:
I felt that same way years ago but that fat realization comes when it comes. Had I known that there were women out here who not only loved fat men they wanted them to get even fatter than chubby. Hell, I would have done this post college and would have been set up for a whole infrastructure to complement what I was to become. I didn't find my obese mentor until I moved down south and he still advises me even up to as recent as yesterday.
NYCBellyBlimp:
Always good to have someone give a sincere heads up.
It is but most dudes don't even realize that there are more out there like them. When I met him down south, he had several guys and ladies that he was mentoring. I didn't realize til then that this was actually a thing especially in our community
4 years
