Help! advice needed

Cady55:
First, I’ll admit by saying I’m a horrible person. (Let’s look past that) I have been cheating on my husband with a guy I work with for about 6 months now. I finally got a conscience and decided to break it off. Come to find out, this guy is a closet feeder. Told me if I stopped hooking up with him he would go to my husband. Now, he doesn’t just want sex, he wants to make me fatter too. Now the problem is, I find it kinda hot. 🙈


Nah, not looking past that. Sort your shit out and come clean to your husband. Don't be shocked if he leaves your ass.

I don't understand why talking through your issues with him or divorcing him wasn't an option in your head before you got to this point.

I've been in happy, open relationships before. It was fine if I wanted to enjoy someone else because we established that boundary beforehand. All was well. Never cheated because I'm an adult and act like it.
1 year

Anyone ever have pancreatitis

Jacen1008:
I was gaining but pancreatitis derailed it. Has anyone else experienced that and how did your recovery go?


I don't have experience with it, but I wish you good health and healing.
1 year

Feederism podcast?

FeederOni:
gmmm I see. the reason I bring this up
is because (I watch Deadwingdork) I seen zoos and even..other people who i will niot mention, make a podcasts for their..crimes

meanwhile, we don't for some reason
hell, I even seen Atheist podcasts to....


With peace and love, but not everything needs to have a podcast.
1 year

Feederism podcast?

FeederOni:
Why Don't we have a podcast?
Like, I seen podcasts for other kinks and such, but never a podcast for feederism or just being an FA

Why is that? Like, we need a positive voice or just find more like minded people


Having interacted with a lot of people on FF, I think it's because most people are not interesting enough to have a podcast.
1 year

Fasting to lower metabolism

ObeseCalorie:
What's the best way to do it? Is it enough to eat nothing till like 3pm? Or should I not eat for a whole day or more?


Your profile says you are a 48 year old woman who is 187 lbs and 5'5".

Personally, I wouldn't recommend messing with your metabolism.

Short, heavy older women approaching menopause need to be very careful when gaining. Your metabolism is already lowering, menopause will mess up your hormones, and your bones and joints are at an increased risk for damage.

You can still gain safely, but you should be careful not to gain faster than your body can tolerate it. Otherwise, you run the risk of not gaining as much as you could gain or needing to lose weight for health reasons.

Be patient. You are already fat. You'll get fatter in due time.
1 year

The munchies has always sounded hot

Munchies:
Yes I'm very hot.
🤣🤣🤣

Finish8000:
As well as a talented writer and intelligent person. It's always worth reading what you have to say.


Lmao!
1 year

Unsure and confused about this

Chlo456:
The one thing I've always found so difficult to accept about myself is this kink which I have always had my whole life. I found it difficult making an account here as I still feel weird about it. At one point I thought it was just a phase and I still find it hard to admit I get these urges, because I don't feel like I want to gain from a rational perspective, and I am happy with my current active life and body, it makes me a little scared and confused as to why i have this kink and what to even do about it. It seems the only reason I want to gain is purely kink reasons which for me doesn't seem like a good reason as when I am not in that space I no longer want to gain and with this you have to keep the fat regardless of arousal. If it's purely from an erotic standpoint I feel like I should keep it as a fantasy but has anybody else felt similar


Everyone is different. While I make it a point not to encourage the uncertain one way or another, I am curious about some of the things you said.

You seem to feel like gaining weight is bad. Untangling that feeling as well as exploring your reasons for feeling that way would help you choose your path.
1 year

Fat mermaids

Sarahishungry420:
Can we talk about fat mermaids? Sailors didn't see manatees on rocks and think they were some instagram baddie waif who does a juice cleanse twice a month they thought they were some fine-ass big girls. Every aquatic mammal has literal blubber. Why do people draw mermaids skinny, they wouldn't be able to survive in the ocean with that physique? Where are all the fat mermaids in art/media?


This is a repost of the original vid. The original came out when I was a kid.

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1 year

Regretting the gains

FatFalcon:
I quit Grommr. It’s not worth the effort and energy when it comes to finding a partner. Gaining on your own sucks the life out of you.


Agree to disagree about gaining on your own sucking the life out of you.

I am an ex-gainer. I gained 50 lbs by myself. Went from 115 to 168 before stopping.

I am happy I did it alone. I never wanted someone's help because I didn't want to be under anyone else's authority. I was already underweight due to my mother insisting 115 was a good weight (and sometimes insisting I could stand to lose more.)

So while I understand that solo gaining isn't right for you, it can be the right choice for other people.
1 year

Gaining weight after moving out

Faust:
Has anybody else started gaining after moving out of their parents house? I feel like this would be relatively common but I don’t see it talked about all that often!

Since turning 18 I have moved out into an apartment of my own and for the first time in my life weight has started really piling on, and I’ve found it thrilling after a lifetime of being skinny so I’ve been itching to talk about it somewhere.
I’m only 110 pounds but a few months ago I was 90, and now all of my pants are super tight and give me major muffin tops when I sit :’)
I don’t think I’ll be slowing down anytime soon, with all of the eating and drinking I’ve been doing and with McDonald’s only a minute walk away I’m eagerly awaiting another ten pounds at least.


I'm glad you are no longer underweight.

I used to be super underweight. I put on about 50 lbs on purpose and noticed my health significantly improved. I went from getting sick at least 2 a year to very rarely.

I do see post from new gainers talking about how they gain from people who just moved out. However, I've noticed most of those people don't stick around for long.

Some of them come back for good. Most of them are serial deleters. Best I can tell, most of them feel overwhelmed about gaining and go back and forth about whether or not they want to commit it gaining.
1 year