Swiss Gainer:
Why does anyone give statements on a single quote..and have to be so rude .. at least read all the history …
no one knows her better than me … and no one loves her more than me .. and the opposite… again I'm not looking for couple therapy.. just to understand the tools to use to face a very peculiar topic that put me in a stall.
No one is being rude. We are being blunt.
We can pontificate until the cows come home. But everything we say is a stab in the dark based on whatever information you give us.
Literally the only way to know for certain is to ask.
If you want advice on how to go about doing this or understanding how feedism works, that's perfectly fine. But no one in the entire universe can tell you if your wife is a feeder or not except for your wife.
Talk to her. You are working yourself up over something you don't need to work yourself up about. Maybe she's a feeder. Maybe she isn't. You'll never know until you ask.
What are you afraid of? That she'll end up being a feeder and ask you to get fatter? Or are you afraid that she isn't and you've let your weight get out of hand? Or is it a secret third thing?