I've only come to understand in the last 5 years or so that I likely struggled with EDNOS as an adolescent and likely orthorexia in my 20s. It's a story I'm actually not really ready to tell, but fortunately I've always been able to separate kink from real life and for me that means really just respecting and holding my boundaries at all costs. They were never related in any way that I can tell, so it's been very easy for me to enjoy it for what it is while working on myself otherwise.
No one is immune to disordered eating. Strongly recommend avoiding individuals in this community who minimize how severe it can be, or the fact that it can strike anyone at any time for any reason and it doesn't have anything to do with gratification. And especially if they enable it for their own gratification... Drop them like a bad habit
3 years
I looovveee the thriller idea, I have a couple of dystopian novels very loosely in a similar vein. I may very well write something with it
3 years
CuddlesMcBK:
This is something that's been on my mind for a while. I love artwork of fat women, and I love fanart of my favorite franchises, but I'm rarely fond of artwork depicting fat versions of my favorite characters. It's difficult for me to explain why, but I suppose it feels a bit... exploitative to reduce well-written, even complex, characters to fetish fuel. It certainly doesn't help that most of the time, these characters' circumstances make weight gain pretty unlikely. I find OCs are more interesting and lack these burdens, so I tend to enjoy them more.
I don't know, maybe my explanations on this are inadequate, but it's definitely a preference I have. I'd love to hear everyone else's thoughts.
I feel the same. I think there are some characters and IPs that are basically considered some feedist/expansionist canon one way or another but something completely unrelated, I just can't do. It's easier for me to consume fanart if I am not already familiar with the source material.
I also loathe celebrity morphs for this reason. It just crosses a serious line for me.
3 years
One time I had a feeder pop on and stuff me silly with whatever I was having for dinner, which was rice and steamed veggies like broccoli and cauliflower. It worked like a charm after a couple of hearty servings and a ton of water.
3 years
I wish we could upvote because Elle is 100% correct
4 years
anything full-fat dairy: yogurt, cottage cheese, ricotta, milk of course. Suuuppeerrr soft cheesees, even better if you can soften/melt them.
Avocados!
Mash up bananas, make smoothies with that and peanut butter and the milk. Get hawaiian rolls and dip them in soups - but you may have to puree chunky ones if your teeth are in bad shape.
Have you been examined by a dentist? "Sensitive teeth" is more of a genetic thing than environmental/diet unless you mean other problems. As someone with dental issues, it's worth getting your teeth examined at the very least, because whatever problems you have will only get worse.
4 years
hiccupx:
Definately! How wouild you categorize our stories. Please post below.
Well I did already describe this a bit in an earlier comment: model the AO3 system. Otherwise, this forum really does not lend itself to describing what kind of organization needs to happen and quite frankly I already pay full price for this site, I don't do that kind of work for free lol.
4 years
Are there any librarians in the membership that can help us out?
Not library systems, but I do handle data management and this kind of organization a lot for a day job so if you're serious about asking for help I can definitely assist.
4 years
