What I think is that it's disgusting and dehumanizing to use feedists who have eating disorders as a mere token of discussion in a sexual conversation. and it's also irresponsible to encourage them to do so or imply that it can help. Having the kink and having an ED can both happen, but feedism is a kink, nothing more. ED treatment would help someone cope with feedism, not the other way around.
and nonethless, it is vile that you even thought it was a serious question to ask. Eating disorders can be fatal.
This is not a conversation for you.
4 years
absolutely not. No. NO. This is such an irresponsible question to even consider. Only—ONLY—qualified medical and mental health providers can do this. I cannot even believe I have to say that out loud.
a kink is not a treatment for a disorder. Literally what is wrong with you.
4 years
I've only come to understand in the last 5 years or so that I likely struggled with EDNOS as an adolescent and likely orthorexia in my 20s. It's a story I'm actually not really ready to tell, but fortunately I've always been able to separate kink from real life and for me that means really just respecting and holding my boundaries at all costs. They were never related in any way that I can tell, so it's been very easy for me to enjoy it for what it is while working on myself otherwise.
No one is immune to disordered eating. Strongly recommend avoiding individuals in this community who minimize how severe it can be, or the fact that it can strike anyone at any time for any reason and it doesn't have anything to do with gratification. And especially if they enable it for their own gratification... Drop them like a bad habit
4 years
I looovveee the thriller idea, I have a couple of dystopian novels very loosely in a similar vein. I may very well write something with it
4 years
CuddlesMcBK:
This is something that's been on my mind for a while. I love artwork of fat women, and I love fanart of my favorite franchises, but I'm rarely fond of artwork depicting fat versions of my favorite characters. It's difficult for me to explain why, but I suppose it feels a bit... exploitative to reduce well-written, even complex, characters to fetish fuel. It certainly doesn't help that most of the time, these characters' circumstances make weight gain pretty unlikely. I find OCs are more interesting and lack these burdens, so I tend to enjoy them more.
I don't know, maybe my explanations on this are inadequate, but it's definitely a preference I have. I'd love to hear everyone else's thoughts.
I feel the same. I think there are some characters and IPs that are basically considered some feedist/expansionist canon one way or another but something completely unrelated, I just can't do. It's easier for me to consume fanart if I am not already familiar with the source material.
I also loathe celebrity morphs for this reason. It just crosses a serious line for me.
4 years
One time I had a feeder pop on and stuff me silly with whatever I was having for dinner, which was rice and steamed veggies like broccoli and cauliflower. It worked like a charm after a couple of hearty servings and a ton of water.
4 years
I wish we could upvote because Elle is 100% correct
4 years
anything full-fat dairy: yogurt, cottage cheese, ricotta, milk of course. Suuuppeerrr soft cheesees, even better if you can soften/melt them.
Avocados!
Mash up bananas, make smoothies with that and peanut butter and the milk. Get hawaiian rolls and dip them in soups - but you may have to puree chunky ones if your teeth are in bad shape.
Have you been examined by a dentist? "Sensitive teeth" is more of a genetic thing than environmental/diet unless you mean other problems. As someone with dental issues, it's worth getting your teeth examined at the very least, because whatever problems you have will only get worse.
4 years
