Photofatty:
Obviously we all have seen the posts online of people seeking feeders and feedees, but I just wanted to pose the question if you have been either of those or had one where or how did you meet them?

Was it an online site, face to face happenstance, or did you introduce them to it?

John Smith:
Well, I am no feedee nor gainer, but I may as well share how I met the different women who gets involved into this lifestyle because of me.

My first feedee and I met each other at secondary school. I was fourth-grade secondary student soon going into my sixteen birthday, she was a fellow classmate who was seventeen of age. Fast-fowarding one year and half later, she caught me ogling at a fellow graduating female schoolmate like us who gained a lot of weight lately (and subsequently developped some embarassing wardrobe dysfunction issues) and sucker-punched me for my lack of discretion, accusing me of visually bodyshaming me. Stunned by the misguided accusation, I casually brushed off that I wasn't bothered by our schoolmate's newfound excess weight issues, but in the contrary rather admirative about it. Dumbfounded by the reveal, she precisely asked me if I was saying that I was drawn into both bigger and gaining girls, from which what I answered yes, totally oblivious at the time at the risk I've would been judged as a total freak if I told that to other people.

Fortuitously to me, that wasn't the case. The next week after, she showered me almost every day with questions about my preferences and what precisely appealed to me when the other girl has started to chub up over the past few months.

Maybe she was geniunely motivated at that time from making a coming-out at a like minded person who happened from having grown so close within her life, or that she was jealous about the other girl and wanted so she scheme a plan purpoted to withdraw my incoming advances and attention toward both the latter one and other girls around me (to be honest, I have strong reasons to opine it was both) , but at a certain point she begun to evoke about things I already knew at the time, thanks to my no-logging lurking activities on DimensionsMagazine's public threads and online library, that was all oddly resembling at both the stuffing and bloating fetishes, that she felt deeply bothered at her "boyish body" (even for the fairly underweight tomboy she she, her past hrybrid banana/cone-shaped body figure was more sylphid and pulpy in appareance than actually unfeminine) and dreamed about possessing womanly, matronal features like her aunts, who all happened to have an ever bigger appetite than hers and subsequently turned obese.

That was how I found out about her being a feedee. The rest is story.

LilFatBunBun:
Broke a chair a few weeks ago when one of the legs broke.

Mariomario:
Maybe a reality tv show?

Ditzy:
Has the family been told of any of this or are you assuming they will be OK with it?

FatLover91:
I’m assuming they’ll be ok with it. They don’t know I’m purposely gaining. I mean what choice will they have when I’m 800lbs and unable to walk?

Zelda64:
I do not believe about this New Age-y "asexuality" crap neither. North Americans likes to stick labels on everything and nothing) .


Spike:
As someone who IS asexual, i once had a dream a man touched my shoulder and puked. The thought of people touching me sexually physically makes me SICK. I am sex REPULSED. That is by definition asexual. I used a sex toy and felt NOTHING. I did end up in the ER though as i was magically allergic to it. Fun .

Asexuality is REAL and VALID.

I never had horniness, i never once felt that. Not once. I never felt "Extra wet" down there moreso than the usual or the monthly time. I never looked at anyone or anything and felt myself want them in any way .

Asexuality is REAL . Just because you are hedonistic and cannot fathom the lack of sexuality doesn't mean it does NOT exist. ***.

John Smith:
You haven't read me carefully-- and that what bothers me a LOT about this forum. People are already emotionally mounting on their high horses before reading and getting the nuance.

I said exactly I was exactly like the original publisher when I had his age. I would even add that younger, the idea of sex or anything sexual revulsed me, in spite being romantically and somewhat sexually drawn into girls when I was a teenage boy.

BUT I don't give any belief to a buzzword. I do not believe into the label. Its underlying inherent tribality. Yes North Americans likes to stick labels for everything and nothing these days, while momentarily preaching about being colourblind, genderblind, blind-anything.

The last time I've seen such lenghts of commercialized solipisism that profits only for the utmost privilegied and the powers that be, these were not "I am this label, this that, hence that" : that were "I am Watutsi, I am Bahutu, I am Pygmy. I am half-master race, you are full N-word, and YOU live naked on trees". Shuiiip... the rest is History, as you know. And people never learns. How many 20th centuries, Auschwitzs and West Banks does we need again? How many Apartheids and redlined middle class neighborhoods does we have to ignore?

Just think out of the box.

BBWcreator82:
'The second supervisor, a greatly attractive Hispanic woman in her early thirties with a statuesque albeit curveous figure, appeared at first somewhat intrigued about my person, before growing rapidly annoyed to the point of acting in an insolent manner.'

That was my favorite part.

Rapidly annoyed. Most people on FF can relate to that when it comes to your posts.

Way to go second supervisor.