Fat shamed by doctor

HappyBigBelly:
The interesting thing is that her last several trips to the doc have involved just asking her what her weight is. She purposely just tells them a number, ha. Told them 314 most recently. I think she’s about 330 based on recent pics. :-)


Just asking? That's odd. Every time I go, I get weighed - no matter the type of appointment or doctor. They tend not to trust self-reports for this very reason.
2 months

Ai generated content, yay or nay?

BigBallBellyGirl:
Strongly agree with Munchies. My husband is a dom, but he's my husband and partner first. Since I had heart surgery last year, he's completely adjusted the way he engages with this kink. Instead of feeding and stuffing me, he's gotten into a lot of belly play and other activities. That's because makes decisions with his brain and his heart, not his dick. If the opposite were true, that's when an ethical question would be in play.


My partner and I do something similar. I'm his domme, but I fully support his weight loss. (He's struggling a bit, but since we are moving in with each other next year, he'll have more support in his weaker areas.)

Sometimes, I still feed him, but it's normal-sized portions.
2 months

Being fat at a theme park

Slayright:
Has anyone had any interesting experiences as a fat person at a theme park ie. Going on a rollercoaster and filling multiple seats. Or just eating lots of food at a park.

BigBallBellyGirl:
I was about 250lb. when I last visited a theme park. It was July, and I sweated profusely even then. Now I'm around 650lb. I'd go if there were enough non-ride attractions, i.e. Epcot or Dollywood, or to see holiday decorations or shows. I'd need my own scooter, and it would also have to be during the cool months.

Munchies:
Went to Dollywood with my 400 lbs partner. He didn't get on any of the rides (although he still wouldn't have gotten on the rides even if he could fit because he doesn't do heights). But he still had a lot of fun.

Lots of fun things to see and do, even if you don't get on the rides. Although he did get on this lazy river ride. He had to get a seatbelt extender, but he fit just fine.

BigBallBellyGirl:
I'm also reeeeally not a fan of heights. A few years ago, a friend bought a condo on the 18th floor of a building, and she was very excited to have a balcony. The view is coveted, but I never went beyond the doorway. I may be a scaredy cat, but that's a hard no for me!


I'm not afraid of heights. It's the downs that spook me.
2 months

Fat shamed by doctor

Audrey Beauregarde:
A while back, my doctor noted that I'm getting larger and said in a pretty condescending way that I should probably stop. I've since stopped going to her and went with another.

Munchies:
Good on you. Fatphobic doctors are not good doctors. And it has nothing to do with feedism. They are more likely to disregard symptoms as you being too fat rather than investing things.

And if you do end up losing weight, they are more likely to encourage unsafe practices.

Audrey Beauregarde:
That happened to a friend of mine. Her symptoms were dismissed because she was fat and it ended up being terminal cancer.


Horrible. Sadly not that uncommon.
2 months

Fat shamed by doctor

Audrey Beauregarde:
A while back, my doctor noted that I'm getting larger and said in a pretty condescending way that I should probably stop. I've since stopped going to her and went with another.


Good on you. Fatphobic doctors are not good doctors. And it has nothing to do with feedism. They are more likely to disregard symptoms as you being too fat rather than investing things.

And if you do end up losing weight, they are more likely to encourage unsafe practices.
2 months

Ai generated content, yay or nay?

Morbidly A Beast:
i think that the weight gain ai videos are a good thing because it will eventually take priority over the sort of usurious fetishism many people engage in online with real human beings, with no concern for their health and well being.

HomuraAkemi:
Honestly, this fetish was never ethical in the first place in my opinion. I would argue that the latter solution isn't perfect either. You are using up resources and you could've commission an artist or animator instead for kink imagery.

Although not everyone has the money which is valid. But I do find it wild that some AI "artists" are charging $100 or more for commissions by just inputting code which I find absurd.


Feedism is ethically neutral. It depends on how you go about it that can push it in one direction or another.
2 months

Ai generated content, yay or nay?

ScandinavianFA:
Lately I have been noticing a huge uptick in content (usually videos) that is clearly AI created. I’m not sure I like it. On one side you *can* create some pretty good stuff if you know what you’re doing but on the other hand most of it is just the usual AI slop, IMO. It also takes away most of the erotic impact, knowing that this is not a real person gaining weight etc. It feels oddly empty and disconnected, and unfortunately there seems to be more and more of it. YouTube has gotten especially bad. What are your thoughts, do you agree or disagree?

Also, sorry if this has been discussed before.


Huge nay for me. Ethical situations aside, they are not good. Really bad quality.
2 months

Being fat at a theme park

Slayright:
Has anyone had any interesting experiences as a fat person at a theme park ie. Going on a rollercoaster and filling multiple seats. Or just eating lots of food at a park.

BigBallBellyGirl:
I was about 250lb. when I last visited a theme park. It was July, and I sweated profusely even then. Now I'm around 650lb. I'd go if there were enough non-ride attractions, i.e. Epcot or Dollywood, or to see holiday decorations or shows. I'd need my own scooter, and it would also have to be during the cool months.


Went to Dollywood with my 400 lbs partner. He didn't get on any of the rides (although he still wouldn't have gotten on the rides even if he could fit because he doesn't do heights). But he still had a lot of fun.

Lots of fun things to see and do, even if you don't get on the rides. Although he did get on this lazy river ride. He had to get a seatbelt extender, but he fit just fine.
2 months

Hiya, new face here

Queenofthefattylake:
Heya!

I'm ally! New here smiley just looking to meet new friends and find all the resources!

I've been around various different communities for a little while, gaining on and off accidentally usually. Just enjoying life at a bigger size!

Nice to meet you all ☺️


2 months

New here

Gainer7772:
How can I get fat faster

Munchies:
Eat a high calorie diet, and make sure you eat more calories than you burn.

MottiF:
no one could say it better


Lol, thanks
2 months