Morbidly A Beast:
props to you for getting a choice in the matter I was already pretty fat when I decided to really give in to my appetite.

You should check your fatphobia tbh a lot of us fat people don’t have ruined faces.

Kitsune2:
I'm genuinely curious what do you two mean by "ruined?" I assume one of you is referring to a double chin which I will be honest I have mixed feelings with mine. OP might've worded their comment poorly but understandably they might have some self-esteem issues.

As a plus size woman myself I sometimes don't love my body thanks to my fataphobic family and how society pressures women to be skinny.

Bovine Princess:
Again, I’m sorry, I don’t mean all fat people have ruined faces. I was careless with my words. And I’m sorry your family is crappy to you for it. I specifically meant that I’m worried about not liking my face in particular with weight gain since I already have a pretty wide face

Iwantafatgirl:
Looking for a feedee who’s looking to be spoiled and fattened up

MarkSeanDavis17:
As I sat in the McDonald's parking lot the other day, I was like "Why isn't this like a pickup bar or something?" lol Lowkey a really easy place to find fat people. Would be a shame if a FFA rolled up on me while I was eating my double quarter pounder!

Munchies:
Probably because it's a fast food joint where people of all ages go to eat and not necessarily get hit on.

Kitsune:
Ditto, I honestly can't imagine anyone wanting to flirt at a messy place with stressed out workers and screaming kids lol. Bonus if the manager is pissed off and everyone can hear them. But I guess different strokes for different folks.

MarkSeanDavis17:
As I sat in the McDonald's parking lot the other day, I was like "Why isn't this like a pickup bar or something?" lol Lowkey a really easy place to find fat people. Would be a shame if a FFA rolled up on me while I was eating my double quarter pounder!

Lovergirl9834:
If you are going from smaller/more on the fit side with a goal of being very fat/gaining rapidly, heavy cream will just fill you up and sit there so you won’t be able to eat more. Put it in a shake, in desserts, in pasta dishes, in cakes, in your coffee, in oatmeal. I used to make a WG shake with a cup of HC, cake mix, appetite maximizer, and Ice cream and drinking that once a day worked wonders

Munchies:
People don't realize some people use heavy cream for weight loss. It's all about how you use it.

SumoSized:
I didn't realize it could be used that way, is it a meal replacement or what?

Lovergirl9834:
If you are going from smaller/more on the fit side with a goal of being very fat/gaining rapidly, heavy cream will just fill you up and sit there so you won’t be able to eat more. Put it in a shake, in desserts, in pasta dishes, in cakes, in your coffee, in oatmeal. I used to make a WG shake with a cup of HC, cake mix, appetite maximizer, and Ice cream and drinking that once a day worked wonders

HugeGainingHog:
If this is not the thought of most over 300 pound gainers and hogs like myself then I would find that hard to believe.

Once you pass that zone of belly size and other areas of fat are obvious( flabby chest moobs , thicker protruding fat pad, decreased penis size with more foreskin and sunken into your pad, fat ass wider )

You know you wanted to keep going
into that transformation of your naked huge fat body turning you on
and that is getting you More horny as you document that size in pics every few months — year after year.

You are HOOKED and boy you can’t stop gaining cuz you love it !!!

Becoming that sub pig, huge hog just wanting more and more
only sexualizes your transformation
because you want to be like those other fat sexy fellas you jerk off to looking at online —

You want to become them and why not !!

Munchies:
Your body will tell you when it needs a break. When you start to stall despite all you efforts, that's when you need to take that break.

NoMoYoYo:
Can you elaborate on what you mean by taking a break? Do you mean eating a regular amount of calories? Eating a bit less than I do currently?

Right now I am trying to have approx 3000 cals a day. Some days I have more, some less. Most calorie calculators say I should have about 2100. Should I aim for that? 2500?

Munchies:
I mean, stop pushing yourself to eat more and, if you aren't already doing it, eat cleaner. Take a break from heavy cream. Take a break from fast food binges. Take a break from belly stuffing - all that other good jazz.

NoMoYoYo:
I do need to eat cleaner. As I've mentioned before, fast food is my weakness. I love it so much.

I wouldn't say I never eat clean. But junk and/or fast food plays a big role in my eating habits.

My hope was to reach my goal of 275 and then take it easy. I've been close for a few months now and can't get over the hump.

I think my only choice to take that break now, with the hope of not losing too much in the meantime and try again in the not too distant future.

Munchies:
One of the most important things a gainer can do is know when to take their foot off the gas. It's not the same thing as giving up. It's simply listening to your body's needs.

NoMoYoYo:
After gaining 72lbs in a year, I took a break last July because I wasn't feeling great. It lasted about 3 months and I lost 26lbs.

Since then I've re-gained 30lbs. I don't feel like crap right now, but I have only gained 5lbs in the last 3 months. I will give taking a break a shot.

Curiousv:
I'm encountering a strange phenomena as a guy who is attracted to overweight women. Although weight is not the deciding thing and I can accept her at nearly any weight, there is still a factor of attraction and what I imagine being the most attractive. The strange thing is how inconsistent it is what I'd find ideal, depending on her weight.
Just a few examples:
- If she was 150 lbs, I'd wish she only gained about 10-20 lbs
- If she was 200 lbs, I'd wish she gained 100
- If she was 350 lbs, I'd wish she only gained about 10-20
- If she was 400 lbs, I'd wish she gained 100 or more.

This seems contrary to what I see most FA want: they have a maximum limit, or an ideal weight, and if their partner is below it, they wish the partner jut reaching that limit. So if someone has 500 lbs as the desired limit, they'd want both a 200 lbs and a 400 lbs partner to just grow up to 500.

But for me it's not like that. It has always been in distinct ranges, and I have a resistance of someone moving from one range to the next.

I intuitively recognize size not as a spectrum, but in zones, each with its own lifestyle and identity:

- Zone 1 (curvy/fit): active, flexible
- Zone 2 (plus-size/BBW): Some of the most active hobbies become impossible, but most of day to day life is not affected too much.
- Zone 3 (super-sized): fatter than most things are designed for, problems with navigating a world not designed for such sizes

I find each zone beautiful in its own right—but I don’t want her to cross zones lightly. I prefer gain to occur within a zone, not between them. Crossing a zone boundary feels like a loss of identity, capability, or balance.

So, for me, it's about lifestyle changes. If she is near the top of a zone, I'd only want very small gains, but if she is at the bottom of the zone, I could be comfortable for her to go all the way to the top of the zone. As these zones represent different ways of life, crossing from one zone to the next means certain activities and abilities are being lost. But if she is already inside that zone, then the lifestyle changes already happened, so there won't be too many lifestyle compromises unless she crosses into yet another zone.

Are there others who think like this?

Munchies:
Your body will tell you when it needs a break. When you start to stall despite all you efforts, that's when you need to take that break.

NoMoYoYo:
Can you elaborate on what you mean by taking a break? Do you mean eating a regular amount of calories? Eating a bit less than I do currently?

Right now I am trying to have approx 3000 cals a day. Some days I have more, some less. Most calorie calculators say I should have about 2100. Should I aim for that? 2500?

Munchies:
I mean, stop pushing yourself to eat more and, if you aren't already doing it, eat cleaner. Take a break from heavy cream. Take a break from fast food binges. Take a break from belly stuffing - all that other good jazz.

NoMoYoYo:
I do need to eat cleaner. As I've mentioned before, fast food is my weakness. I love it so much.

I wouldn't say I never eat clean. But junk and/or fast food plays a big role in my eating habits.

My hope was to reach my goal of 275 and then take it easy. I've been close for a few months now and can't get over the hump.

I think my only choice to take that break now, with the hope of not losing too much in the meantime and try again in the not too distant future.