Archibold789:
Anybody have an ex who was (or wasn’t) into feedism and ended up getting huge after the breakup? I’m kinda going through it
Why do we care about our exes?
2 months
TheManOfQNA:
I want to apologize if the title or subject is offensive. I'm a black man, not sure if that makes it less offensive.
I have a special opportunity to work in California and I'm excited about the probability of meeting a woman.
This is just me, I have always been crazy about overweight white women. I've only been with 2, while they were on vacation in Jamaica.
I know Hollywood doesn't portray how many overweight people is in America. I know there are complex social stigmas around obesity. I know I should treat each woman as an individual.
But with that said.
Does anyone have anything to say ?
Munchies:
Black woman here.
Black men being with fat white women is practically a stereotype. No one will care. No one will bat an eye.
What you should be doing is focusing on how to be a good boyfriend.
TheManOfQNA:
Thank you for responding.
I've heard about and understood treating a woman like a human being. Don't objectify her.
In a place like California, when and how is best to tell a woman my outside-of-the-box appreciation for her beauty ?
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You are a black man who is into fat white women. This is so common it's practically a meme. You are overthinking it,
Now, do you plan on fattening her up? Because that's a different conversation. But if you are just a fat admirer, it's not even weird.
2 months
Finickyfeedee:
If you want a relationship where you actively engage in feedism, you should probably look on online dating platforms and advertise your preference there.
If you just want to date a fat white woman without doing anything unusual in the relationship, just approach her like you would any other woman, and tell her you think she’s beautiful like you would any other woman. There’s no need to do anything special.
Watch out because there are some white women in the US who fetishize black men and can be very disrespectful and objectifying. It’s important that you’re being treated well in the relationship, too.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
2 months
Munchies:
What's her favorite dish?
Fitfats:
Grilled steak, barbecued food, pasta, grilled cheese, pulled pork bbq sandwich, loaded meat pizza, sausage rolls and pork belly stir fries are all her favourites.[/quote]
Well, there you go. Feed her that. Probably not all of that. I doubt she could handle it. But those are good options.
Some advice. If you plan on feeding her messy foods in bed, put a towel down. Makes clean up so much easier.
2 months
TheManOfQNA:
I want to apologize if the title or subject is offensive. I'm a black man, not sure if that makes it less offensive.
I have a special opportunity to work in California and I'm excited about the probability of meeting a woman.
This is just me, I have always been crazy about overweight white women. I've only been with 2, while they were on vacation in Jamaica.
I know Hollywood doesn't portray how many overweight people is in America. I know there are complex social stigmas around obesity. I know I should treat each woman as an individual.
But with that said.
Does anyone have anything to say ?
Black woman here.
Black men being with fat white women is practically a stereotype. No one will care. No one will bat an eye.
What you
should be doing is focusing on how to be a good boyfriend.
2 months
Fitfats:
So I've been dating this woman for 7 months. She's fun, impulsive, we have crazy chemistry, banter and a dynamic unlike anything I've ever had before. She's a short slightly bigger girl and had a lot of body hangups when we first dated. She used to be a good 100lbs heavier and her family and ex used to make her really self conscious of it.
I've been building up her body confidence in the bedroom. I'm constantly praising her for her curves. Lately she's realised that pushing out her belly, ass and tits making her look bigger has turned me on and she also knows that I love a food baby on a stuffed up girl.
The bedroom life is amazing. She asked me to call her "my greedy girl," and she's been enjoying food coma belly rubs. She's even started to regain the weight she's lost from her diet since she started dating. We've been sharing more about each others kinks and desires trying to be as open as possible with one another. I've not mentioned feedism to her but mentioned I would love to try to food play with her.
A couple weeks ago. She shared with me a fantasy for the new restraints I got her.
She wants to come over mine and be blindfolded and restrained by me, to be fed a meal and dessert, before lifted over to the sofa (or her "throne" as she calls it) where I'll worship and have her.
This kinda took me by surprise as I expected her past body hang ups to block her wanting from wanting to try feedism. At the same time I'm seeing her get more and more confident, embracing her figure so I want this experience to satisfy her and not bring up any of the negative trauma her family used to bully her with.
She already wants to be fed strawberry chocolates for dessert. But I'm hitting a blank with what to feed her for her first ever feeding?
Do you guys have any meals you'd recommend me cooking her?
Any advice on how to make it a safe space for her without intimidating her or bringing up the past trauma will also be appreciated.
What's her favorite dish?
2 months
Munchies:
YouTube is not a good place to post feedist things.
I remember for a while there was this weirdo who'd go around and post that he was reporting people who posted feedist things on YouTube. He also had an FF account at one point.
I am very confused about that person.
JN_TumLover56:
Yeah posting feedist content (or any other adult entertainment content) on YouTube is pretty risky business regardless. Especially now with the restrictions going on from that platform, which is understandable to a degree.
I also remember coming across a channel that was about “SW News” that was pretty critical towards Candii Kayn. Reiinapop as well, but definitely Candii for the most part. I even once saw a video from them when they had put in links to other feedist creators’ channels to report them as a way of “doing something positive”… always finding some way to shut us all down. 🙄
Who knows maybe that was them who you mentioned beforehand?
••Apologies to necro-post I’ve been wanting to comment for awhile••
Nah, it wasn't SW News. I saw this weirdo a lot in the comments. All he'd ever do is say he was reporting someone for TOS violations.
Some time later, I get around to joining FF and as it turns out, the weirdo was a member here.
I haven't seen him in ages, but I remain confused about his motivations to this day.
With that said, SW News sounds insufferable. There were a handful of YT channels dedicated to discussing various models. I made it a point to avoid all of them.
2 months
Morbidly A Beast:
I didn’t know there was a fandom for king of the hill.
If it exists, there's a fandom for it. Hell, sometimes, it exists even if the piece of media doesn't. Like the Goncherov fandom.
2 months
HomuraAkemi:
@Munchies Not sure if you were being passive aggressive or not but no it's not my first time. I've stated in the one paragraph I had dealt with unsavory people from the LPS and Dear Evan Hansen fandoms.
Those were just latest examples. During the early 2010's when MLP:FIM was popular I was bullied by a brony on some forum and I was like 12 at the time. I've been using the internet for decades now (and yes I wasn't always supervised from parents) so I have seen a lot of drama from various communities. Such as the dumb wolfaboo hatedom on Deviantart.
On a side note I did tried deleting this embarrassing thread but I kept getting an error message. At least it didn't receive much traction so I guess that's sort of relieving.
I was being tongue-in-cheek. I've been in fandom spaces since the LiveJournal days, so I've seen my share of toxic fandoms.
Hell, I remember fandoms so toxic they were infamous for being toxic. Hetalia and Homestuck come to mind.
2 months
Younggainer77:
Can I make my own heavy cream at home?
Yes, but you need full fat milk to do it
2 months
