Have you ever seen "Paprika"?

Japanese animated cyberthriller about dreams and hacking people's minds.

The main character is a slim young woman, but the guy who helped build the technology is HUGE. Like, wider than he is tall. And instead of passing judgment on him, that's just who he is.

Then he helps her solve the case, and she falls in love with him.

For my big girl, it's all about variety.

She'll just keep eating forever if she has a lot of different things to fill her mouth.

She eats a very balanced nutritious diet...and then keeps eating.

She likes salad and fresh veggies- and then she moves on to carbs and protein- and goes back for seconds or thirds- or starts literally taking food off my plate! After she's eaten so much she gets short of breath and tired, that's when she wants ice cream.

I know she's a big hungry fatty- but last night she did something that impressed me.

She came over...and started eating food right off my plate! She began eating MY dinner after finishing hers, just taking handfuls of my own food!

She was so sweet about it though, "I'm so sorry but I'm just SO HUNGRY, can I have some of yours?" Of course I was like "OMFG YES, poor girl needs to be kept well fed!"

It didn't end there. She immediately said she wanted cake and ice cream. What flavor? Yes flavor. Every flavor. So I went out into the night to buy her cake and ice cream.

Not before teasing her a little.
I told her she needed so much more food to keep her satisfied because she was so obese.

Her- "Yeah haha I know right?! Get me cake and ice cream quickly!"

Holy crap I am so proud of this fatty.

My wife has to keep buying new dresses and shirts. Not just because she keeps getting bigger, but because the way she eats she keeps staining her clothing with grease and sauce that spills all over her cleavage and belly. The stains won't come out, and she's just accepted that's the price she has to pay for being so hungry all the time.

Jewelry is a great way to show off how fat you're getting because it keeps sinking deeper into your folds of flesh as you get huge.

Necklaces that vanish underneath your soft chin and neck fat, and only slightly emerge between all that flab when you strike a sassy pose. Bracelets that start sinking in between the folds of your wrist fat.

As she keeps getting bigger, SHE's getting so comfortable with her size I think she enjoys when strangers remind her of how fat she is.

The most recent incident-
Her doctor's visit. She's so healthy despite being clinically super-obese. So he couldn't give her the "obesity causes XXX" riot act. He just said "How did you get so FAT?!" Probably imagining this might shock her into changing her lifestyle. Fat chance lol.

I know this because she spent the rest of the day on the phone with her girl friends and aunties talking about it, laughing like she was basically bragging about getting fat shamed. In her worlds, "That was rude...but also not wrong, heehee..."

It's not the first time she's seemed to enjoy strangers reminding her of her own weight.

As I become more of a dedicated feeder, there's something I enjoy about those awful tabloid weight-loss propaganda "horror stories."

Mostly because all the stories they tell are things I recognize, but in a positive light. Stuff like "SHE KNEW SHE NEEDED TO LOSE WEIGHT WHEN SHE COULDN'T GET OUT OF THE BATHTUB ON HER OWN!"

Yeah, that happened to us. Except we both started laughing because it was so cute and funny. And we vowed to save a little more money, because it's clear we need a new house. She's gotten too fat for the house.

For me, acceptance came with realizing that genuinely obese people need love and can be happy too.

Some fat people aren't "health emergencies" or tragic cases. They're just... huge. And waiting for love and admiration. And maybe a little help getting out of the tub ~___^

She couldn't stop gaining weight no matter what. Her mom actually gave up on her finding love. I was the first boyfriend she ever brought home. Mom was a little mad at me, because she knew I was encouraging her daughter to get even fatter. But she embraced it eventually because she realized me being a feeder made her daughter happier than ever before, and allowed her to be confident and enjoy her life.

I'm probably a 3, pretty average with fluctuating weight.

SHE'S a luscious 8!
At the point where literally every aspect of her life is influenced by how massive she is, or how hungry she is.

From my experience, you have to show your family that you're happy and comfortable with being so fat, even if they don't quite understand.

My wife's mother used to be shocked at how fat I was making her daughter, and always scolded her in front of me, or told me as the man I needed to put her daughter on a diet. She stopped and gave in when she saw that her girl was completely happy being fat and didn't "need saving."

She doesn't quite understand why a woman would be happy and content to quadruple in size- but she recognized her daughter was happier than ever.