LeFerrellV:
My fiancee goes on my case about eating my food fast. I just can't help it. It's like my mind turns off when I eat. I do get indigestion from it but the idea of mindless eating is really erotic. Does anybody else have this issue.
I have a friend who teaches middle school. Lunch periods are 40 minutes. That time includes lining the students up to walk to the lunchroom, standing beside her class in the lunch line, and waiting at her designated spot for them to line back up when finished. As a result, teachers end up wolfing down food quickly. She realized, as she unintentionally gained about 20 pounds (unwanted, in her case), she was eating everything quickly and would often be overly full before her brain and stomach connected to realize it. One of her weight loss strategies was to slow down and eat mindfully.
I don't want to lose weight, but when I did decide to more or less maintain, I started doing the same thing. As a stuffer, I'm accustomed to putting away a whole large pizza in 15 minutes. I've had to step back and learn to taste my food instead of packing it in as fast as possible. Granted, I still eat a lot. My maintenance calories at my size are about 4,500 a day. But eating more slowly has helped me cut back to that, from 10,000 to 20,000 as my norm.
I said that all to say, what you've read is definitely true. Take it from a long time power stuffer
1 year
BigBallBellyGirl:
Several of my favorite foods! I love meatball subs, with tons of cheese and marinara.
Morbidly A Beast:
Great appetites think the same XD
So good with some salami and pepperoni drenched in marinara
Delicious. I once ordered three foot-longs, including mozzarella meatball, turkey and swiss, and chicken Philly cheese steak, a bowl of broccoli and cheese soup, and a large soda. I ate it all in restaurant and got lots of stares from the staff!
1 year
I mean... He's not wrong. Between Nov. 2022 and Dec. 2023, I went from 290 to 490, and my belly went from 58 inches to 93 inches because I was shoveling in pounds of hamburgers, chicken tenders, fries, pizza, bread, chips, pasta, and cheese everyday. That not only led to a big pot belly, but to a huge layer of hard visceral fat.
1 year
I love it, but I've actually become so obese It's logistically difficult to pull off. You also don't see as much difference with 525 lb body. Always loved the sensation though.
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
I stacked a 4k calorie breakfast yesterday 4 sausage egg and cheese McGriddles 4 sausage egg burritos and 4 hashbrowns then for lunch I got two meatball pepperoni Foot Longs and dinner I had a big ass chicken Cesar salad
I feel like a mountain today XD
Several of my favorite foods! I love meatball subs, with tons of cheese and marinara.
1 year
At a certain size, shower benches, spray wands, and brushes become a must have!
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
why can’t everyone be the size they want to be and we leave it to themselves how they want to be? So often I see feedists wish for everyone to be super fat and I’m like ok enjoy your nut I guess but as a fat person in the here and now I would have to decline I enjoy the fact I am the one who will get 4 double cheeseburgers at 130 in the afternoon have a pizza by dinner and the fact I’m bigger than most people who’d most consider very fat, I don’t wish that at all I just want to be treated fairly and receive the same respect other people are given
Also 600 lbs? Its always immobility or something with these people most peoples bodies couldn’t handle that it’s pure fiction not everyone even given unlimited calories time etc could do it
Munchies:
My partner loves to be fat. He wants to be 550 lbs one day - maybe even 700 if his body could handle it.
He emphatically does not want to be immobile. He loves his independence too much.
Sure, there are people who would love to be immobile outside of fantasy, but that's not most people - even those who think it's hot.
Yep! This describes me as well, Munchies. But last year, I was gaining so fast, my body *couldn't* handle it, so I put on the brakes.
And Morbidly A Beast, you are SO right about the need to respect that feedee members of this community come in all sizes. Someone can be thin or average weight but love to think about being obese or occasionally stuff, a little chubby, somewhat fat, or enormous. It's all valid. Wouldn't it be weird if all people wanted to be the same? (For one thing, if everyone was my size, far fewer passengers would fit in a plane, and restaurant booths would be unusable. 🤣)
1 year
BigBallBellyGirl:
I think the only way you could gain this kind of weight unintentionally, other than what Munchies already described, is if you were already fat and accustomed to eating enormous amounts of food everyday. At one point, I was eating so much, 10,000 calories was a moderate day. I didn't feel like I was trying to gain. I was just eating a lot, and I kept blowing up. That takes time to work up that kind of capacity though. I can't imagine an average weight person putting on 60 lb in 3 months without meaning to do it.
Munchies:
I was thinking of you when I posted my last comment. I was going to post it without the last paragraph, but then I was like, "BigBallBellyGirl could gain 60 lbs in 3 to 4 months accidentally." And then I tacked on the last paragraph.
BigBallBellyGirl:
It's true. 🤣 It's what happens when you eat so much, for so long, enough food to feed a family of five in a day becomes your norm.
Since I'm maintaining now, I kind of miss it from time to time. Sighhh...
Munchies:
Feel that. My partner hasn't been gaining for about a year now. And while neither of us st it, and I don't care how big or small he is, we both miss the extreme stuffing sessions we used to do all the time. Honestly, it was more enjoyable than all the weight he gained.
Oh well. It's on the to-do list for later this year.
I get that. I definitely miss massive extreme stuffings, where we would push until I was way beyond capacity, and then push some more. It's a huge turn-ons for both my fiance and me. But being able to enjoy our lives together is more important, and because I put on SO MUCH so quickly and was stuffed 24/7, all kinds of health and mobility issues popped up. We had an understanding before hand and open conversations throughout, and he always said he'd be happy if I got to 600 or lost to 400, 300, or less. At the moment, I'm doing okay at 525. I've been more physically active, and I've been eating more clean food. At some point, we'd both love to do another massive stuffing like the 90,000 calories I ate over 2 days last Thanksgiving, but it will have to wait, just like your partner is taking a break. I don't think we talk about that enough as a community. For the vast majority of gainers, life, health, and mobility do impose a cap. It's not all eating, growing, and stuffing all the time. There are breaks and sometimes necessary losses. Sometimes, people into this treat those periods as a weakness, or a disappointment, but they're not. And they're necessary. A good partner, like you or like my fiance, appreciates and respects that.
1 year
I have no regrets about growing to more than 500 lb. Granted, I've never been thin or even average weight, so I was accustomed to being obese. In a year though, I intentionally gained 200 lb through daily stuffing and extreme over consumption. I have settled around 525 lb, and am maintaining for health and mobility reasons for now. I love my size and body though, and even when I encounter difficulties because of how big I've gotten, I still feel like it is worth it.
1 year
I started breathing heavily at very light exertion when I hit around 400 lb. When I reached 500, even getting up from my recliner became a strain, and I would feel fatigued instantly. It was hard, but I had to start moving and adding steps. Now I actually walk about a mile a day, slowly, across four small walks. I know that isn't much, but for someone moving 525 lb around, I'm pretty happy with it. I haven't lost any weight either -- and don't want to. Because of that, I don't want my knees to fail me before I'm 30, and I don't want to be bed bound by the time I'm 35. So the activity is critical to support the heavy body I carry around.
1 year
