You probably can't. Most people do not want to be fat. We kind of lose that sense here being with a lot of feedees.

I love to see non-pregnant women wear maternity clothes. Especially very maternity looking.

I have noticed that tall women, or any woman for that matter will not date someone shorter than they are. I like tall women, but am only 5' 9", so have never been able to date someone taller than me. Of course, I am no longer looking.

Apparently some thin people claim to be feedees, but just want to make a buck from it too. Claim they want to gain, but they never do.

Everyone here is supposed to be 18 years old or older. If you are, your parents should not be telling you what you can or cannot eat.

Most women do not want to gain weight. It is very difficult to look for a woman in the real world and turn her into a feedee. The best thing to do, is to look on websites and choose from the women who are already feedees.

Sorry, but people using the feedee/feeder community as a source of income, rather than for personal enjoyment has been a turn off for many people in the community.

I still think social pressure affects what kind of negative effects we endure. When Marilyn Monroe was popular, women didn't mind the back pain with large breasts. When Twiggy was in style, all of a sudden back pain caused by large breasts was unacceptable.

I put a message under one person's picture, and it remained there for a couple of days. Then it appeared under someone else's picture. I had to delete it.

I think the main reason for not being a feedee, is that as you get older, the weight affects you more. More joint pain. If anyone wants to gain, don't put it off. Gain it while you body can handle it and your body can get used to it as you get older. I do love older feedees, and love chatting with them, however.