NYCBellyBlimp:
Honestly wishing I had prepared better, knowing if my confidence was higher years earlier, I would have waited and saved $ vs buying the 5-6X clothing so soon vs the 2-4x that would fit (even if snug). Regretful as that could have went to food, savings or other expenses as I look back.
Being on the darker end of this lifestyle than most I would come across, I'm thankful to have listened and watched some experiences others have had and learn from them.
I felt that same way years ago but that fat realization comes when it comes. Had I known that there were women out here who not only loved fat men they wanted them to get even fatter than chubby. Hell, I would have done this post college and would have been set up for a whole infrastructure to complement what I was to become. I didn't find my obese mentor until I moved down south and he still advises me even up to as recent as yesterday.
4 years
WideJuan76:
But the I am fat aspect is just the gateway and starting point; it is the I am obese part that ultimately takes some of us under and those of is with a certain personality type will always succumb to it. Noticing you are fat is when you can get into your jeans but you can't fasten the button while the I AM OBESE part is when you notice that you can feel your belly jiggle, the back fat of your thighs jiggle, each butt cheeks jiggling and your calf fat all move simultaneously and that leads to sensory overload and you then realize that you just don't have the discipline anymore to lose three hundred pounds so you just give in
Bicepsual:
This. There was such a big lifestyle change right when my wife started referring to herself as fat (the way you call yourself obese). That moment when there was no more denial, she self-identified as being fat, all of a sudden she seemed to give in so much more to hedonistic eating and being lazy.
"Why not order a 2nd pizza for myself to eat later? I'm already fat. Nobody will even notice at this point."
Everyone gets fat at some point in their lives but earning your obesity is a whole other monster. It is harder to lose weight then it is to gain weight so most of us come to a crossroads in which we are either going to lose it all or say the hell with it and keep going and she cane to that fork and the road and she took that fork and said to herself that she is going to use that fork to get fat with. She saw her fate and she gave in to this addiction because don't get it twisted we feedees are food addicts to the third power but most of us will never tell you that. You have to psychologically morph your mindset to say to yourself that you are going to eat and eat to the point that your need to eat superceded your need to have sex because the more you eat the more fat your partner will have to dig through to entice you. 🐽🐽🐽🐽🐽🐽🐽
4 years
Thegainer0308:
I honesty think it is inevitable that a feeder would gain weight. Afterall, they make their partner big, which most likely makes them want to be like their feedee as they stuff them silly.
So many people whom I have met who identified as feeders eventually germinate into feedees especially as they age due to their vantage point being changed. When you actually get an opportunity to actually actualize this lifestyle, you don't want it to stop but sometimes you break up with your feedee and then you realize that very few people actually live this lifestyle so for some of us we just internalize it and become our own feedee. I experienced this as well as the guy who got fat with someone and they left so I have been on some many sides of this lifestyle choice
4 years
Weed smoking was my partner in helping skyrocket my gains. Whenever I had an issue with my day, smoke a sativa and that became the helper in giving me the urges to actually see myself as that obese glutton while I would smoke a indica and that would chill me down to not give a damn which led to me eating way more than with the sativa so anyone who smokes weed and being obese is attractive to me
4 years
Tubby Puertorican:
I would like to get to 300lbs. But I would love to go further, reach to 400 and beyond. But I don’t want to be limited in doing things. Man this fetish drives me nuts. 😆
I am amazed that I have gotten this flabby and fat but that was somewhat due to reading posts from becomingoverweight so a big shout-out to becomingoverweight for being the saint of fat but I wanted to get as fat as humanly possible until I met a guy in North Carolina who gave me pause because he was the embodiment of superobesity but he couldn't walk up the stairs and his wife had to help dress him and tie his shoes so I know what you are saying because this fetish keeps you conflicted because you have one part of you that can indulge up to a point while the other side hopes you hit the lottery so you can eat yourself into oblivian.
4 years
I had always had a crush with fat but it was when a female character became fat in a future vision or on Family Matters when Donna Summer got fat as Aunt Oona those are just some sequences that started me on dating ssbbws but it wasn't until I met with an ex who was actually doing research on feederism that it grew from being an encourager to me being a feedee because up to that point it was fat on someone else.
4 years
Ditzy:
420 was it for me.
I couldn't fit in my 09 mustang but still could fit in my SUV.
Walking up stairs was very very hard.
Next to impossible to tie my own shoes and very hard to put on socks because my belly was in the way.
Unable to sit in some chairs as well.
The fattest that I had gotten to was around 488 Once, you start getting into the three hundreds you start to feel slightly heavy but you don't realize that you are actually waddling until you get into the early four hundreds. That is when you have to plan when you leave the house and strategize how not to go to stores with too many steps. In the mid four hundreds for me, that was when I had to get a seatbelt extender but as I got to the five was when I got so fat that I started to have mobility issues and said that 488 was my limit.
4 years
jb28401When I jiggle from hitting the slightest bump in the road while driving... that's when I know I've gotten fat
jboabfe:
I had one today, I sat up and felt my belly sitting on my legs, I usually can flex and my belly will readjust, however today I noticed I have to pick up my belly and move it where I want it.
quiverdream:
Okay, these are the sorts of things that when I hear them I immediately want to start gaining (....or encourage my partner to do so)
WideJuan76:
These are the small little nuances that folks rarely talk about when gaining. But the I am fat aspect is just the gateway and starting point; it is the I am obese part that ultimately takes some of us under and those of is with a certain personality type will always succumb to it. Noticing you are fat is when you can get into your jeans but you can't fasten the button while the I AM OBESE part is when you notice that you can feel your belly jiggle, the back fat of your thighs jiggle, each butt cheeks jiggling and your calf fat all move simultaneously and that leads to sensory overload and you then realize that you just don't have the discipline anymore to lose three hundred pounds so you just give in
quiverdream:
🥵
Imagine how I felt as I was going through it. But one of the things about being this fat is that you can feel arousal but your too obese for anyone to notice. Just another fat superpower.
4 years
jb28401When I jiggle from hitting the slightest bump in the road while driving... that's when I know I've gotten fat
jboabfe:
I had one today, I sat up and felt my belly sitting on my legs, I usually can flex and my belly will readjust, however today I noticed I have to pick up my belly and move it where I want it.
quiverdream:
Okay, these are the sorts of things that when I hear them I immediately want to start gaining (....or encourage my partner to do so)
WideJuan76:
These are the small little nuances that folks rarely talk about when gaining. But the I am fat aspect is just the gateway and starting point; it is the I am obese part that ultimately takes some of us under and those of is with a certain personality type will always succumb to it. Noticing you are fat is when you can get into your jeans but you can't fasten the button while the I AM OBESE part is when you notice that you can feel your belly jiggle, the back fat of your thighs jiggle, each butt cheeks jiggling and your calf fat all move simultaneously and that leads to sensory overload and you then realize that you just don't have the discipline anymore to lose three hundred pounds so you just give in
Tubby Puertorican:
That sounds like a hell of a experience.
At first, what happened was the existential experience that I let it go this far and then the thought crossed my mind that if I was going to ever lose it the work to lose ot would be hard as hell so I was like the closer I got to four hundred that I thought I might keep going and then forgot about all of that because after a couple of days I just gave in to it. I love to meditate so when those new experiences show up with new gains that I am mindful enough to feel it when the new jiggles arise....
4 years
jb28401When I jiggle from hitting the slightest bump in the road while driving... that's when I know I've gotten fat
jboabfe:
I had one today, I sat up and felt my belly sitting on my legs, I usually can flex and my belly will readjust, however today I noticed I have to pick up my belly and move it where I want it.
quiverdream:
Okay, these are the sorts of things that when I hear them I immediately want to start gaining (....or encourage my partner to do so)
These are the small little nuances that folks rarely talk about when gaining. But the I am fat aspect is just the gateway and starting point; it is the I am obese part that ultimately takes some of us under and those of is with a certain personality type will always succumb to it. Noticing you are fat is when you can get into your jeans but you can't fasten the button while the I AM OBESE part is when you notice that you can feel your belly jiggle, the back fat of your thighs jiggle, each butt cheeks jiggling and your calf fat all move simultaneously and that leads to sensory overload and you then realize that you just don't have the discipline anymore to lose three hundred pounds so you just give in
4 years
