Fantasy Feeder

Buffet binge

FatCat300:
Has anyone ever been to an all you can eat place for pretty much all day or have gone for multiple days or even weeks. It has always been a fantasy of mine to eat at a buffet every day for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. And maybe meals in-between, in the hopes of getting fatter with each time I go.

It's been a reoccurring fantasy for my partner and me to do an all-day stuffing in a buffet. But, realistically, I am not sure we'd ever do that. Sure, doing a public stuffing in a buffet is definitely something we want to do. But, realistically, we probably wouldn't stay the entire time there. It would get boring after a while, and we wouldn't be able to do everything we normally do during stuffings at home. So it would be in foreplay territory.

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Any story ideas?

Letters And Numbers:
So it looks like you’ve got some college gain/workplace gain stories, and some sci fi. Is that what you like to write or are you trying to branch out?

TheBellyAppreciator:
that's what i mainly like to write, so any suggestions there would be great! but i'm open to hearing more suggestions as well[/quote]

Considering the type of things you write, I'm shocked there are no stories about culinary school.

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What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

Gastonitza:
There is no doubt about it in my mind, there is nothing as thrilling, fulfilling and arousing as witnessing fat being deposited on someone's body, including your own. From subtle changes to unmistakable ballooning. I have been much bigger before, and through various life events, have lost the weight. Coming up to the festive and indulgent season again, I am already gaining weight again, and although everything around us is shouting, stop! The allure of seeing that first little bulge or roll, or the slow but sure tightening of clothing, is intoxicating. We all know about the health implications well enough, but still we deliberately eat to gain body fat. I think I have always been this way, but in later life, with metabolic changes and more sedentary lives, the inevitable fattening happens with relative ease.

What was it for you? That thing that sparked your obsession to get fat or to fatten another? When did you know it, and is it still as exciting now as it was then?

Munchies:
I've always loved fat. It's soft, warm, mesmerizingly jiggly, and makes you sturdier.

I love it rough and I love to cuddle. And food is a love language to me. A big fat guy that likes loves to eat and can keep up with me just makes sense.

Gastonitza:
Wobbling, jiggling, shimmering... The swish and sway of fat when a large person moves, is hard not to stare it. I have been busted many times, letting my gaze linger just a little bit too long, when looking on in awe at a beautifully big person walks past or sits nearby in a restaurant. I love the way fat forms rolls and can't be concealed by clothing. It just seems so crazy to feel so attracted to fat and fatness, but it must be something to do with bounty, being plentiful, abundant. Being thick and substantial. There is nothing attractive about a stick insect!

I wouldn't say being thin is unattractive. While I prefer big guys, I've seen many thin ones that I wouldn't mind tapping. Plus, I've been thin before (I'm athletically thick now), and I've always been able to get it.

I've never had an issue with staring. If I saw a cute fat, I'd chat him up. Of course, that comes with it's own issues. A lot of fat guys have low self-esteem. So they get confused when an attractive woman comes onto them. It's kinda heartbreaking, honestly.

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Question for those in relationships

Evcole74:
Whether you’re a feeder/feedee, did you find someone who was already into this? Or had you introduced someone into the fetish?
I’m trying to gauge whether I should commit to one or the other 😅

Feeder here. I've had some dedicated feedees in the past in addition to regular playmates. I've always approached things without any expectation for more. About two years ago, I was in chat looking for some fun. I got a message from this nice dude that had similar kinks, so we had an online stuffing session.

Things went so well that he hit me up the next day. We got to talking about feedism and life, and had a great time. So great that we started talking every single day. Shortly after, he became my feedee.

The plan was just to have some fun, but when you talk every single day, you end up focusing on more than just kinks. And the more we talked, the more we realized how well we clicked. After a few months, we went from just playmates to friends and then to partners.

We'll always be kinksters, but our relationship with kink evolved overtime. It went from being the focus to more like a seasoning. This isn't a bad thing because our relationship would have been short-lived if it didn't.

This past January, my partner said to me he wanted to stop gaining and focus on being healthy. If kink was still the focus of our relationship, things wouldn't have lasted long. But since we love and respect each other so much, it wasn't a big deal.

We found ways to indulge in our kinks, but at this point we are more like your average couple. We even enjoy vanilla stuff because sometimes we are too attracted to each other to focus on kinks.

If you want to have a relationship with a feedist, more power to you. It's great being with someone you're sexually compatible with. However, if you want to make things last, remember you're partners first and kinksters second.

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Asexuality in the world of feeder/feedee, belly gainers and chubby hunters

PapaBearsPower:
Hi.
I'm writing this topic because, I don't know if it's me, but I have the impression that there is a tendency to have more asexual people among feedees/feeders, Belly Gainers, Chubby Chasers and other worshipers and fetishists of everything that revolves around big bellies than in other communities. Am I wrong ?
Is this true why?

Kink doesn't have to be strictly sexual. And most kinks have an ace community.

Plus, feedism is special regarding the community's overall approach to sex and sexuality. In many ways, it's oddly chaste.

I remember coming across an interview with a porn star that dabbles in multiple kinks. She said she loved making feedist content more than other kinds of porn because all she has to do is wear comfy clothes that show off her belly and eat a lot. She mentioned that most of the people who watch her stuff would feel embarrassed if she was as overtly sexual as she is making her other fetish stuff.

And it makes sense. I have a number of kinks. When I look at porn or erotica for most of these, it's usually about sex in addition to the kink. However, while such things exist in feedist spaces, a lot of it is gluttony-centered. Too small clothes, overfilled bellies, getting so fat you don't need clothes, etc. There's even a sizable chunk of people that think getting too fat to have sex is sexy.

So of course it will appeal to asexual people.

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Merry christmas

Merry Chrysler

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What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

Gastonitza:
There is no doubt about it in my mind, there is nothing as thrilling, fulfilling and arousing as witnessing fat being deposited on someone's body, including your own. From subtle changes to unmistakable ballooning. I have been much bigger before, and through various life events, have lost the weight. Coming up to the festive and indulgent season again, I am already gaining weight again, and although everything around us is shouting, stop! The allure of seeing that first little bulge or roll, or the slow but sure tightening of clothing, is intoxicating. We all know about the health implications well enough, but still we deliberately eat to gain body fat. I think I have always been this way, but in later life, with metabolic changes and more sedentary lives, the inevitable fattening happens with relative ease.

What was it for you? That thing that sparked your obsession to get fat or to fatten another? When did you know it, and is it still as exciting now as it was then?

I've always loved fat. It's soft, warm, mesmerizingly jiggly, and makes you sturdier.

I love it rough and I love to cuddle. And food is a love language to me. A big fat guy that likes loves to eat and can keep up with me just makes sense.

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Too heavy for grocery store scooter

BigBallBellyGirl:
In the past 50 to 75 pounds of gain, walking around has become much more strenuous, and consequently, I'm moving less and gaining faster. That's not a huge obstacle in 2023, both because I have a partner and because you can have nearly everything you need delivered. That said, I do enjoy grocery shopping, and I generally use an in-store scooter, since we don't yet have the ability to put my new one in the car. (We're upgrading to a van soon, and we plan to add a hitch.) However, yesterday, the first scooter I got on stalled after traveling about 30 feet. We assumed it might be a mechanical issue, but when we traded places, it worked for my partner with no issues. Nevertheless, he took it back and brought a new one, which did exactly the same thing. We had to settle for letting me lean on a shopping cart, with him doing most of the running up and down aisles. While this definitely presents an inconvenience, it's also nice to hit a milestone of being fatter than most fat people who use the scooters!

If I recall correctly, store scooters have a max weight of 500 lbs. Any bigger and you'll need to bring your own. Those can get pricey, so ask your doctor for help. It may be covered under your insurance.

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Eating more makes me hungrier the next day?

Kimllyy:
When I overeat one day, I wake up ravenous the next day. If I eat a normal amount one day, I’m usually not as hungry the next day. Any idea why? I would’ve thought the opposite.

When you eat a lot, your stomach stretches to accommodate it all. It takes some time for it to shrink back to its normal size. The more you stretch it, the hungrier you are afterward.

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Awkward moment

Calfrase17:
Find it mad when people think only being attracted to bigger women is a fetish can assure you i am not attracted to skinny women in any way. So for me i think ts like a gay man liking men wouldnt say thats a fetish. Youre thoughts everyone...

ForeverFFA:
Can I ask honestly if there is something wrong with having a fetish? Sometimes it feels like people in this community have an aversion to the word, but all it means is that something specific is **required** to achieve sexual arousal. I personally identify as having a fat fetish but not a fat-forward sexuality, because I can still feel (and have felt) **emotionally** attracted to thin people as well. But what is the shame in a fetish?

Munchies:
It's the same with the evolutionary essentialism crowd. It's ultimately about legitimizing the taboo. People want to enjoy their fetishes but also want to fit in. Nothing wrong with that. But the way they go about it is very ... having your cake and eating it too.

Mentat798:
With most fetishes, can't you do exactly that? Have your cake and eat it too I mean. I mean, to my knowledge, having a fat fetish is one of those fetishes that you can't easily take off if you are the fat partner or participant.

Not really. I've seen post after post wax lyrical about how their obvious fetish/kink isn't a fetish or a kink. It usually comes at the expense of someone else - usually women. And when you point out the obvious flaws in their logic they either double down or say "Well that's just my fetish."

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