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You don't need to drink heavy cream. You can cook with it, too, and you might enjoy it more.

I'd say consume however much is comfortable for you. Just don't forget to take breaks. Consuming heavy cream for too long can mess up your internals.

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Either way, being obese doesn't make you a better feeder necessarily. I've run into some obese feeders that are truly dog shit.

What makes you a better feeder is your ability to listen, emphasize, and put your feedee's needs and wants before your own.

Still, I wish you well in your journey.

As a domme feeder, I concur.

For example, a large fupa can easily be part of humiliation, feminization, or chasity play. So if she isn't okay with the length loss, you might be able to compromise by tapping into other forms of play similar to your interests.

I mean, sure. There are a lot of activists that died painful early deaths. But there are also activists that made it to old age. Hell, there are members of the Black Panther party that are alive today.

That said, how society views the activist's cause will determine what kind of push back they will get. For example, the reason why online schooling was possible when COVID hit was thanks to acivists pushing for that schooling option over a decade earlier.

Your average person probably hadn't even heard about this, but I was in community with these people. There's disability activists too who, at this point in history, will make it to old age just fine.

As for fat activists, I think a lot of their blow back comes from societies hatred of fat people and a misunderstanding of what fat activism is. The think fat activists are pushing for the right to be fat when they are actually pushing for protection from things like job discriminiation, the ability to find affordible clothes in their size, and for doctors not to dismiss all of their symptoms as being obese instead of testing them like normal people.

You have confused breeding kinks with the biological urge to reproduce. You have also confused having a breeding kink with power play.

Breeding kinks are all about having sex with a chance to be pregnant. It often coincides with a pregnancy kink, but they are two different things. It's super common to be into breeding and not pregnancy.

It's also super common to enjoy breeding without the power play or for the person being bred to be the dominant one.

You might be onto something.

A bit unorthodox, but at least this is safer than chugging butter.

Honestly, peanut butter and other nut butter are good for weight gain.

I wish you well on your journey. You'll probably be fine.

As a feeder into extreme weight gain, it can be a challenge to keep it all in perspective. When I first took on my partner as a feedee, I asked him how many calories he ate daily as a benchmark. He said it was about 4 - 5k calories. I remember thinking, "Oh, that's not that much."

Meanwhile, if I tried to eat 4 - 5K calories daily, I'd be in a food coma well before reaching that.