RegularGhost15:
Hello all! I'm not new to the fetish, but I am new to trying to gain weight on purpose.

So I've been trying to gain weight since before Thanksgiving. To be fair, I wasn't going that hard until last week, but I have spent years on being fit and keeping my caloric intake at about 1600-1700 to maintain my body. So I figured it wouldn't take much to pack it on, and after spending a month letting go of my diet (eating a slice of pie after dinner, letting myself have an extra soda a day, just eating whatever I want, really) and a week of actually going out of my way to take in more (eating at least an extra 500 calories a day), I've gained...

Nothing!

Needless to say, I'm really shocked and disappointed.

I have a history of ED, so I guess the perception that my gut was softer and fuller is just a symptom of that. I have gained not one single pound.

To add salt in the wound, my partner, who is aware I'm trying to gain weight, and expressed excitement at my plan, has also let his diet go, I guess. But I have definitely been eating more than him and he's gained 5 pounds without really trying.

I don't know. I'm just feeling discouraged. I couldn't lose weight by cutting calories ten years ago and I can't gain weight by adding them now. It's like my body is cursed.

Melchior:
A few years back I used to chat with a guy who was about 450lbs and gaining, and once he came for me on camera by jiggling and squeezing his fupa. He said he was almost perpetually at half-mast because of all his fat constantly jostling his smothered dick. The only way I could even tell he came was from his high pitched moaning and the little trickle of jizz that eventually seeped out from his flabussy. 🥰


Canuck:
"flabussy" is a new one! my partner calls mine a "fatgina"

i was a thin, fit guy for most of my life. my penis is average length, 6 inches. when i started to get really fat, like over 300 lbs, i was very nervous that the fat accumulating down there was making it look smaller and smaller.

it was something that really concerned me. when it started to really cover i did get worried about the future of my sex life, and how i would experience that kind of pleasure. plus it was a little embarrassing.

in the last few years, now growing to 450 lbs, my fupa (fat upper pubic area) covers my penis even when it's hard. it is totally buried all the time (unless my partner manually pushed the flab out of the way so she can see and access the head).

unlike the guy you mentioned, i can't get off just by moving my fupa. it would be fun to experience, but it just doesn't work for me. penetrative sex with my partner isn't impossible, but it takes so much effort, it is so awkward, and my stamina isn't want it once was, so it's kind of impractical and not really pleasurable. but we've adapted in numerous ways. i've become more of a "bottom" where penetration is concerned, and oral is great - it's even inspired us to explore new ways to derive pleasure from oral, which has been amazing. lately i have been experimenting with multiple orgasms by avoiding stimulation of the penis.

do i miss being able to fuck the traditional way? sometimes. but this has opened up a whole slew of new experiences i would never have explored if i didn't end up in this position.

Melchior:
The thought of a guy eating himself into such a state of obesity that he becomes, essentially, a formless blob of lard, is one of the few fantasies that leaves me with a lingering question as to my heterosexuality. Like, the idea of heaving some cute, hairless boy's gut up to reveal a bloated mound of pubic fat that totally envelopes his little cock is just 🥵🥵🥵

Having to reach all the way up to my elbow just to find his buried nub, all the while he's struggling to hold his belly back from just avalanching down on top of me...

A few years back I used to chat with a guy who was about 450lbs and gaining, and once he came for me on camera by jiggling and squeezing his fupa. He said he was almost perpetually at half-mast because of all his fat constantly jostling his smothered dick. The only way I could even tell he came was from his high pitched moaning and the little trickle of jizz that eventually seeped out from his flabussy. 🥰

Anyway...yeah, feminine guys with completely buried dicks are hot af.

FAMGM:
Once again, this is an issue stemming from the miscategorisation of things as a fetish or a kink.

If you accept that there is such a thing as a sexuality relating to fatness, then it is very hard to condemn.

Personally, I find the idea of celebrating fatness but ignoring fat sexuality extremely artificial and offensive.

Casey88:
Just wanted to share my experience of possibly fully converting my wife into a feedee. She was skinny dancer/cheerleader growing up but since being with me for 4 years now she has ballooned. Discovered early on she was a foodie and fell into the lazy spoiled overfed lifestyle quickly. Told her about a year in that I love her gain/belly and mentioned feederism but didn’t get into details and she didn’t ask lol. Ever since though she has let go even more and will show off her belly and try on old clothes if I ask. I am not sure if I should tell her everything or just continue to enjoy the ride as is..

Letters And Numbers:
Maybe it’s just my experience, but I feel like the female feeders and FFA’s have really come out of the woodwork in the past few years. They feel like a much more vocal and integrated part of sites like this. I remember years ago on FF, when you would go to pics, it would default to pics of women. Pics of men were there, but it took another click or two. Now it defaults to pics of people and you can click to search for men or women if you want. I don’t know when that change was made, but it’s nice, and I’m sure came about because of user feedback to make the site more inclusive. There are way more stories about men, by women authors. Or at least it feels that way. It’s definitely not perfect, like Munchies said, but I do feel the vibe of the community is more inclusive than it was, say, 10 years ago. At least here and on Dims. I can think of sites that aren’t that way.

CramMeFull:
kinda just wondering cause i feel like the answer is no, but maybe i'll be surprised

Canderson206:
I've considered leaving online feedist spaces too. There's plenty of gross sexism and degrading, unhealthy attitudes directed towards men as well, and it's often given a free pass when similar commentary towards women is met with outrage. Messed up.

REDDOUGHMAN:
As someone that uses wieght gain shakes and nutrition shakes for extra calories, I have been searching for a food pump contraption. There are the slow medical ones you need installed but I want something I can put in my mouth and pump shake into me over periods of time. I work from home remote and would love something like this for my home office to use of course. Has any one found anything on these?