I hate that the fat acceptance movement condemns feeder/feedees

There is a lot of fatphobia in this community too. Even OP has admitted to such in another post. So it's not fair to say we are body positive as a whole. Also, a lot of feedists talk about fat people in dehumanizing ways - especially those deemed too fat or too small.
1 year

I hate that the fat acceptance movement condemns feeder/feedees

Jelly Rolls:
So the fat acceptance movement has talked about us and called us oppressors of fat people. They said this because they think that fetishizing someone’s weight is a form of oppression and that we are attracted to fat because we like to harm and oppress fat people. They also see someone intentionally gaining for sexual arousal similar to black face. I hate that they actively condemn us this way.

The majority of us do want fat right and acceptance. And the majority of us only partake in our fetish if given consent and do not subject other outside to it. Most of us don’t harass random fat people and know boundaries when dating a fat person. I don’t understand why they hate us so much and say that our sexuality is wrong. We can’t help being attracted to feederism. So why should we be told we are so hateful for it when we only do it with consenting partners/ourselves. To me it’s the same logic as telling a gay person that they hate women because they are not attracted to them. They are almost always lgbtq+ rights activists so why are they going back on their morals. WE CANT CHANGE! AND WE DONT WANT TO OPRESS FAT PEOPLE! WE WERE JUST BORN LIKE THIS!


It's frustrating, but I understand why. There's a lot of feedists out there that are predatory. You hear a lot of horror stories, and I've witnessed feeders sabotaging their SOs to satisfy their fetish. They don't love the person so much as they love their fat.


Also, being fat carries health risks. So even if they are fat and proud of it, they also view themselves as unhealthy. So seeing people get fat or fattening someone up is seen as people risking lives for the sake of the fetish.
1 year

Safely stuffing a submissive feedee

BRBBWadmirer:
Nice to see that those who choose to explore feedism choose to take a safe approach. This kink/fetish definitely belongs in RACK territory, meaning that there is definite risk and consent is essential.


Big facts.
1 year

Full time feedee meat boy. ask me anything.

SimonFl11:
No more no less. Im fat meat and i will become the fattest pig on earth and when at my biggest. I shall be eaten like the pig i am.

Munchies:
You are admitting to crimes.

Letters And Numbers:
I think you’re getting trolled a little bit, fyi

Munchies:
Doesn't matter. I've already reported them. The only reason why I am still responding is to preserve evidence.

Letters And Numbers:
Reported to who? Law enforcement?


No. Site admin.
1 year

Full time feedee meat boy. ask me anything.

SimonFl11:
No more no less. Im fat meat and i will become the fattest pig on earth and when at my biggest. I shall be eaten like the pig i am.

Munchies:
You are admitting to crimes.

Letters And Numbers:
I think you’re getting trolled a little bit, fyi


Doesn't matter. I've already reported them. The only reason why I am still responding is to preserve evidence.
1 year

Has an overweight person ever unintentionally did something that sexuelly arouse you in real lif

PapaBearsPower:
Hi
It's just a little "anecdote" topic and it's all in the title.

When I wrote (something that sexually aroused you) I was thinking of times when an overweight person might rub/play with their stomach, eat until they pass out or many other things in front of you, in the real life, at times when you least expected it, or not.


Can't say they have. All these things are not inherently sexual to me. The intent has to be sexual to turn me on.

It's like dildos. Seeing a random dildo in the wild isn't inherently sexual. It can be funny or shocking, but it's not going to turn you on because it's not being sexual.

But if you are going to use the dildo, then it becomes sexy.
1 year

Full time feedee meat boy. ask me anything.

SimonFl11:
No more no less. Im fat meat and i will become the fattest pig on earth and when at my biggest. I shall be eaten like the pig i am.


You are admitting to crimes.
1 year

Safely stuffing a submissive feedee

As a side note, my partner isn't into humiliation. He's into exhibitionism and twisted praise. He knows I love showing off my greedy fat hog. As he puts it, knowing that I'm crazy for him removes the humiliation aspect of it all. Which is great for me because knowing he loves showing himself off makes it more enjoyable for me.
1 year

Safely stuffing a submissive feedee

5HT1A:
@Munchies thank you for sharing your experiences! I've never been into BDSM so I need to learn how to do it properly, like I know he wants to be tied up, pinched painfully, slapped, but I don't know if he's into degradation or humiliation. I'll ask and make sure one way or the other.

The one thing I do know is that, for tying, you can't just use regular ropes or cuffs, but need to get special ones for the purpose that he could get out of if he wants to... right?

I'm like the "sweet and tender" empath kind of type, so to make him happy I need to learn how to act like the total opposite, lol 😆


I understand. My first feedee got me into BDSM. Didn't vibe with it beforehand.

He was a masochistic sub, and he liked it rough. I was a normie with PTSD. We went slow for my sake so I could discover what I liked, hated, and ambivalent. There were times we had to stop scenes because things got too much for me.

I'm glad he went slow for me. If he hadn't, I'd have sworn off BDSM for all my days. It also helped me to work through some of trauma.

Nothing wrong with doing things out of your comfort zone to please your partner. But don't forget to take care of your needs too.
1 year

Safely stuffing a submissive feedee

5HT1A:
@Munchies Thank you for the tips!! I will talk about safe words/gestures with him, and I'll be sure to monitor his belly and give breaks for digestion. The "no give, no room" tip is very helpful!


You're welcome.

Also, there are different ways you can go about things. My personal favorite is letting my partner work for his stuffings. For example, I'll get a bunch of food - sometimes more than I know he can eat - put it in front of him, and make him earn his stuffing. This usually means some explicitly sexual act, but you can choose something else.

Other times (and this is my partner's favorite thing to do) I'll have him do challenges. Calorie amount, time limits, making him eat everything, I've brought him, stuffing him until he can't move, etc. Sky's the limit. Something I love to do is stuffing him and then making him do something physical. Kneeling, making him touch his toes, walk up the stairs - whatever you like. But don't push too far. Last thing you want is for him to barf it back up.

Unless you're into that. But that would be a huge mess to clean.

I also enjoy teasing, name calling, and degradation. Of course, you'd need to establish boundaries with that. Last thing you want is to call him your greedy slut or piggy bitch and then he gets offended.
1 year