Sadistic domme feeder here.

Communication and trust is key. You two need to have boundaries and safewords/gestures established ahead of time. This is for his sake as well as yours.

You can also keep tabs on his fullness by feeling his stomach. If there's no give, there's no room. Belly rubs and massages help digestion and free up space. Feel free to take breaks. That way he can digest and have more room.

If she doesn't want to stay then that's her choice. There is a lot of sexism in this community. And leaving it is a perfectly valid choice. But those of us that choose to stay have a duty to push back against the isms we come across.

You're right. I don't like the idea of preventing people from losing weight just because you have a fetish. It's dehumanizing. Even the way he described these people (deflated beach balls) is gross.

That said, a lot of jobs offer health insurance. And you can get inexpensive health insurance plans on the Market Place thanks to the Affordable Care Act. So that's not a good indicator of class.

How do you feel about that?

Okay, now you are being very silly. And also very gross for saying that. It's super objectifying, and a handful of women (I hope you don't mean girls because that's pedophilia) does a trend not make.

Some points:

Not every middle class woman is trying to lose weight.

There is a sizable anti-modern medicine community of middle class women who will use natural medicine.

Ozempic and Wegovy can make people feel violent ill. And there's a growing voice warning people that some will face irreparable health issues.

Both medications are injections. People would rather take a pill than stab themselves.

While Ozempic and Wegovy (the most popular weight loss medications) can be covered under insurance, it's not always the case. For example, Medicare (it's possible to be on Medicare as a young person if you have certain disabilities) does not cover Wegovy at all. At it will not cover Ozempic for off-label use. Tricare can cover Wegovy, but you have to meet certain medical criteria.

Most middle class people get their coverage via their job. And not every plan will cover it. Those that do typically require you to have some obesity related health issue.

If you are fat but not sick, you'll have to pay out of pocket. Ozempic costs about $892 a month. Wegovy can cost about $1,349. There are coupons and manufacturer drug programs that can mitigate the costs. However, the coupons may not reduce the costs very much. As for the programs, not everyone will qualify, and the programs tend to be limited.

Some middle class households can eat these costs. Some can't. Some don't want to. It depends on a lot of things like cost of living and lifestyle.

So, you are being very, very silly.

Damn. You don't love yourself or your man. And your man doesn't love himself or you.

You're gonna die, and your man is going to rot in jail.

Also, you won't have a lot of meat to begin with. Your muscles will atrophy, and it will be mostly fat. So even if you want to give your meat to your partner, it won't be very much. Doing you even understand basic biology?

All of this is extremely stupid. Like ... mind blowingly stupid. Two people will throw away their lives for a disappointing ending.

Deffo move around more once you've recovered. If you want to sustain your weight for longer, it's good to mitigate the risks that come with it. And might to moderate exercise is one such way to do it.

If you are kind to your body, it will be kind to you.

Hey man, there've been people who consented to getting eaten before. And there is a very high chance that your feeder will go to jail for it. Like ... life in jail.

Let's not forget the 2004 Human Tissue Act which effectively makes the whole thing illegal.

legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2004/30/contents

And then there's the murder part of things. (Illegal). And even if you give him consent to do that, that assisted suicide. (Illegal).

If you decide to kill yourself and he eats you, that's desecration of a corpse. (Illegal)

Here's a copy of the law in full: bills.parliament.uk/publications/43369/documents/853

And then there's the suicidal behavior aspect of things. If this is just a fantasy, then that would be one thing. Not my cup of tea, but you do you. But you are strongly implying you want this for real. So it sounds like you actually want to die.

If that's the case, I strongly suggest reaching out to this organization:
spuk.org.uk/national-suicide-prevention-helpline-uk/

As someone who has gone through suicidal depression, I promise that it gets better. And if your feeder cared about you, he wouldn't want you to die. He'd want you around for a long time. But he doesn't care about you at all. He's just going to murder you, eat you, and go on to the next person. Assuming he doesn't get arrested and go to jail first.

If you get off on the idea of being eaten, and he gets off on the idea of eating people, then fine. Not my thing, but you do you, boo. But some things should remain in fantasy.

Eat you? Like for fantasy or for reals?

Sorry, love. But no. That comes down to genetics.