Feeders turned feedee

Kacchan:
I used to exclusively be a feeder and was fortunate to be able to enjoy this preference with a few consenting girlfriends. However, I decided to take a break from dating and focus on myself for work stress and to enjoy things that bring me joy.

One of those things was to try gaining a little bit of weight, and wow... I learned that i am a REALLY good feeder. When you are able to apply your own feeding style and planning to yourself and you start to enjoy the visible effects - you get fat.

I am now WAY past just chubby, and venturing into "fat guy" territory, but I love it. I am able to compliment myself as the scale keeps climbing, and I'm pretty sure that I have a weird "split personality" in which BOTH the feeder AND the feedee in me get enjoyment as I get bigger.

Laralanesx:
See I think I'm the opposite, I started as a feedee and now after talking to so many feedees on this site and others, I find myself becoming more dominate and being the feeder! ^^


Hey, that's similar to me. I started off as a gainer, but I found far more joy as a feeder.
1 year

Feeders turned feedee

Feedhersoftly:
A feeder to yourself is an interesting concept. Never heard it described like that before


It's a fairly common sentiment. The feeder to feedee pipeline is real. And it often starts when the feeder has no one to feed, so they end up feeding themselves. If it goes on long enough, they go into feel feedee mode.
1 year

Is their any real feeders on this site or all just a fantasy feeder??

Cutecoconut:
everyone on here that ive talked to claims to be a feeder just wants you to send pictures and pretend they are feeding you without actually doing so, so it appears they are all fantasy feeders lol. They act taken advantage of, all while taking advantage of people who want to be feedees...


Don't get me wrong. There are scores of impressively bad feeders out there. I've run into several myself. But I think part of your problem is your profile.
1 year

Gaining while on insulin

Crazyfool:
I keep reading everywhere that insulin makes one gain weight. However, I am not. I do have some sugar spikes. Perhaps I should keep adjusting my doses? Whenever I check online they just mostly focus on how to lose weight while on insulin and navigating this information is getting progressively more cryptic. Does anyone in here have related resources they could point me towards?

Munchies:
If you value your ability to continue breathing, do not do this. Ever. You will end up getting sick and possibly losing weight through limb loss, dehydration due to frequent urination, or muscular atrophy.

If you want to gain while on insulin, you first need to make sure you are stable first. Once that's squared away, there are healthy ways you can gain, like eating more high-fat fish, nuts, or avocados. These are less likely to cause blood sugar instability than say donuts and ice cream.

I Am Uo:
Also they didn't specify if their insulin dependent (type 1) or insulin resistant (type 2)
That makes a big difference


Not as much as you might think for the purpose of this situation. Have you ever encountered a diabetic - type 1 or 2 - that started rationing their insulin? It gets bad. It gets even worse if they aren't mindful of their intake.

If they are on insulin, their blood sugar levels run high. Hypoglycemia can cause a host of short and long-term complications. Some of these complications can lead to hospitalization and irreversible damage to the body. Doing that just to gain weight is impressively idiotic - especially when there are safer ways to achieve this.
1 year

Fattening boyfriend

Angy523:
Well, I guess I'll keep posting updates here. First of all because I know there are some people who are coming back to read and are still interested in this story. But alsk because I wrote here almost the entire story of his gaining and I'm sure I will enjoy reading it in the fluture.

For now I just wanted to say we started to go jogging "together"...meaning that he comes with me to the running track and watches me while I'm jogging. He keeps telling me that he'll start running too, but it didn't happened. Either he had a knee pain or a back pain or...no excuse, just didn't do it.

But, sometimes, when his best friend texts him to ask if he's at home, my bf always send him a pic with the running track and lets him believe he's running. This friend always answers with something like "oh, so you're losing weight, fatty" or "are you jogging again, fatboy?" or "you're going for a run, but ate like a pig at work"... Those comments always make me horny and I saw my bf isn't bothered at all, his actually laughing when he sees his friend's texts.

Also, there were many times when my bf told me he doesn't think he can run 5km anymore (he could run 20km 2 years ago). The last time he actually asked me if I think he is able to run 3km. Every time I encoraged him and told him I'm sure he can, but not as fast as he used to. But I can't help but wonder if he would enjoy some teasing related to this...or if he's actually asking for it


Sounds like he enjoys being teased.
1 year

I'm just looking or anyone to talk on here

Fattoo:
I mean so many foods are blended with oil or other fat.
What I got out of Reubins drink, is to blend olive oil with something sweet like OJ. Because fat and sugar makes you fat. As does chocolate bars, ice cream, syrup, cookies, cakes. Even soups having real chicken or duck broth with noodles, rice, or potatoes. (Samurai diet).
Ask anyone who grew up on a ffarm eating wwholesome foods.
Alot of stuff is watered down in store bought items.. He did not say to drink an oil like olive oil only. And 50ml is only about 3 tablespoons to drink with a cup of juice. I agree it is gross if not blended.


Like homemade ice cream is dairy fat and sugar. Although guar gum used ruins most brands.

So many foods are nothing more than a fat blended with sugar. As far as gaining weight goes, it is not healthy to have a high ratio of fat to carbs all day . But to wash down a meal with with just the right amount that feels good is quite satisfying. Too much of a good thing is always bad. It is important to know. And maybe Reubin said something somewhere that would lead people to think of drinking just olive oil. But that is not what I read. And fat alone may help Alaskans get fat, that is not usually my choice, unless it taste good . It just is much satisfying at the beginning and end of a day to chase down I meal with a light drink (Sweet OJ and a dap of olive pomace oil) that is actually loaded with calories. Even if just coffee, cream, and sugar. The typical morning chaser.


Alright. You grown. If you wanna be dumb and not listen to those who came before, that's on you.

Just don't say nobody didn't tell you.
1 year

Gaining while on insulin

Crazyfool:
I keep reading everywhere that insulin makes one gain weight. However, I am not. I do have some sugar spikes. Perhaps I should keep adjusting my doses? Whenever I check online they just mostly focus on how to lose weight while on insulin and navigating this information is getting progressively more cryptic. Does anyone in here have related resources they could point me towards?


If you value your ability to continue breathing, do not do this. Ever. You will end up getting sick and possibly losing weight through limb loss, dehydration due to frequent urination, or muscular atrophy.

If you want to gain while on insulin, you first need to make sure you are stable first. Once that's squared away, there are healthy ways you can gain, like eating more high-fat fish, nuts, or avocados. These are less likely to cause blood sugar instability than say donuts and ice cream.
1 year

Any gayner's or just guys attracted to male bodies and bellies get a burst of messages from wome

Wolfer:
I'm new and just got smacked by a bunch of messages from girls who I'm pretty sure saw "feeder" in my profile and ran with it! Anyone else had this happen to them?


This is fairly common. If you are a man, you'll get DMs from women asking/demanding money from you. This is double true if you are a male feeder.

Ignore and block them. A lot of these are catfish and scammers.
1 year

Difference in reasons for being here

Compa32:
I notice a lot more feedees here are here to sell content instead of looking for relationships and feeders tend to come for relationships and not really looking for models to follow. Why are you here?


I don't think it's accurate to say most feeders come looking for relationships. In my experience, most of the feeders I've run into were looking for a fun time. Some might have been open to something serious, but most were only there to get their rocks off.

This ties into the uptick in content creators. They wouldn't be here if there weren't a market for it.

I'm not a feedee, but based on the sheer number of male feeders I've encountered, most would be happy to get free content. They don't want to pay for it but are happy to consume it. I've even had some attempts to bully me into giving them free content. These are not the hallmarks of someone looking for a relationship.
1 year

Subconsciously playing with your belly

BigOke02:
So I've been wondering about something lately. Is there some reason why we fat people tend to subconsciously play with our bellies?

Because sometimes without noticing, I'd put my hands under my belly, and flick it upwards slightly with my fingertips. I'd only notice when I feel my hands are super warm for some reason... 😂 I've also read other examples of people rubbing their bellies or sit with their arms on top of them without noticing/thinking about it.

So yeah, just something I was thinking about...

Munchies:
Easy. It's warm, soft, and jiggly. All of these make it fun to touch. It's a good way to relieve boredom and stress.

People do something similar with hair and nice fabrics.

Malvineous:
They're just stimming, lol


Stimming is good. Stimming is great.

Plus, a lot of us are autistic.
1 year