Honestly this is the way I feel it should be approached. There's a difference between a lifestyle, a fetish, and a kink, and people in a relationship need to be able to be on that same wavelength.

For me it is just a kink. A very fun one, and probably my most favorite, but by no means the only thing that gets me going. And I just don't want to do it all the time or all that often at all. It doesn't mean I don't have wild fantasies or activities I want to try out, I just... have other interests and kinks etc too!

For those of you who don't know, I'm a writer and also a blogger and I am working on quite a bit of material (fiction and nonfiction). Something I'm working on right now is a post about the nuances of the feeder/feedee spectrum and I am starting with feedees.

I'd really appreciate it if you could take a minute to fill out this survey you identify as a *FEEDEE* (if you do not ID as one please DO NOT fill this out! your time will come. if you ID as both that's great and welcome!)

loradayton.com/2021/07/19/calling-all-feedees-i-have-some-questions-for-you/

Thank you!

Also way more across the entire gender spectrum. trans, gnc, nb, not specified, etc.

I would need to know more about specifically *how* these would work. And if the sub-categories you listed would be specified. will there be limits? minimiums? I'm thinking like an AO3 tag-wrangling kind of thing, that sort of sorting would be f a n t a s t i c

I'm glad I could help! I know that the stuff exists out there, I've come across it, and I'll let you know if I find any more

1. female is not a noun. that is a woman; a human being.

2. if someone says no, that means no. it's not your job to convince her, it's your job to be her partner and love her unconditionally instead of making her someone she's not.

If it helps any, I have some ideas on my docket but won't expect them to be published for awhile. So I don't really have much to offer right now but will in the future. Any specific tropes you like?

Edit to add that I have one story in particular, "Once Around the Sun," that's deliberately meant to be more sensual and romantic than kinky but it's a combo of both. It might work for you in the meantime!

exactly what expanditor said. Also, "free speech" does not apply to private enterprises such as feedist networks. FF allowing content like this (as well as other things, unrelated to this specific thread, so I'll save it for another time) puts their livelihood as a business at risk. It's a liability and that's why there are content guidelines.

Sure, one can compose whatever they wish, but that doesn't mean that a third party has to accept or tolerate that content.

I'm generally very much a "don't like it don't read it," person too but there are limits.

I used to make bulletproof coffee with it, that was the only way I used it as food aside from very occasionally cooking or baking with it.

I made my bulletproof coffee with just 1 tbsp each of the oil and butter (not salted!) but was divine. If you want a drinkable fat bomb, bulletproof is the way to go lol.

Nobody. It's not their business. They know about some things in general kink I am into but not specifics.