Speaking of not liking your body I was the same way.
My boobs were the only way to tell if I was a girl or not because I was so skinny.
I hated not having any curves as I went thru school.
Same feeling just a different part of the body.
Loving yourself is a much better place to be.
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Just eat larger portions of what you like.
If you work out 5 times a week work out just one.
There is no magic formula because everyone is different.
2 years
Ditzy:
Keep in mind you will get hate,racism and bigotry from all strata of society don't single out white people.
....Hate and bigotry are a learned thing usually comes from their parents.
LoraDayton:
I don't want to derail the thread because this is about what makes a space SAFE for the people mentioned in the title. Munchies didn't single out white people, she mentioned a specific type of white person. If it doesn't apply to you then you don't need to worry about it.
If you understand that hate and bigotry are taught, then perhaps it would be wise to think about what hate and bigotry *you* were taught also and how that carries out in these conversations.
But let's get back to the topic at hand. And if you don't want to participate that's totally cool and best of luck!
No problem I won't comment anymore.
2 years
WASP used to mean White Anglo Saxon Protestant.
All these new terms can be confusing at best.
Keep in mind you will get hate,racism and bigotry from all strata of society don't single out white people.
I'm white ( not my fault) and dated a black friend for a few years and I got more hate and bigotry from his extended family and his friends.
So much so he broke up with me because I was white.
How does that butter your biscuit?
If people are mean and nasty to you just block them.
Lord knows I have had my share of haters on here over the 12 to 13 years I have been here.
People who come from an affluent up bringing aren't bad just because of that.
Same goes for people that had a poor upbringing.
Hate and bigotry are a learned thing usually comes from their parents.
As far as the chat area every time I look in there its 20 somethings that are discussing video games, smoking weed and begging for feeders.
I guess if those are your interests then enjoy.
2 years
Munchies I doubt we can be free of people we don't prefer to be around.
People say they are all inclusive then start excluding certain ones they don't like.Thats far from inclusive.
Personally there are many people I don't agree with on this site but I would never exclude their voices.
All have a right to be heard.
2 years
I would say its just a preference you have.
No reason to over think why its just what you like and part of who you are.
I was skinny in high school and I always preferred dating the fat guys because I liked their personalities.
Guys with big egos were a turn off for me.
My girlfriends thought I was crazy.
2 years
I have to agree on the donuts they are kind of my Kriptonite.
They are part of the reason I'm fat in the first place.
2 years
Ice cream of all types
2 years
Playing with medications is not a wise thing to do.
Some medications will cause weight gain as a side effect but some people are not affected in that way at all.
Medications can affect internal organs like liver and kidneys.
Don't take stuff if you don't have to is what I suggest.
So there are no pills for weight gain .
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