When you get the thumbs up to destroy someone's life...

I don't know quite what you mean so here are my options;

1. The Feedee wants to be fattened for the purpose of becoming helpless, unhealthy and immobile.

2. The Feedee is willing to give up health and mobility in pursuit of becoming as fat as possible.

3. The Feedee really wants to be healthy and mobile as possible but their desire to eat and propensity to gain means they can't help but become unhealthy and immobile.

4, The Feedee is a combination of 2 and 3 in that they enjoy getting fatter and know they will become unhealthy and immobile because of their propensity.
6 years

My parents

ThePotbelliedAuthor:
I go to visit my parents alot because I live near them. They are nice except when they complain/joke that I am getting too fat. How do I get around this and keep being a gainer?

AskDrFeeder:
I did help one woman with this problem: askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/letters.html#Amanda


Good work Dr Feeder.
6 years

My parents

Well joke right back at them.
If they say you're getting too fat reply too fat for my pot holing hobby. Or too fat for my medium sized parachute.

If they say, you're getting rather chubby say Thank you for noticing.

If they say, what are you going to do when you're too fat to walk? Say, I'll phone Just Eat.

Have some pat responses. They'll give up once they're used to you being fat.
6 years

Back pain and aches

A practical solution to back problems is Glucosomine and Chondroitin supplement. This is not a painkiller but instead strengthens the back.

As for walking the sensible thing would be to walk less. Get an electric scooter. Get a big one for outside use, they do 8mph. Or get a little one that fits in the car. They can handle heavier weight than stated.
6 years

Not into the whole 'pig' thing?

johnxyz:
I just don't understand. I love women who are large, so why would I want to sit here and insult them? I also like redheads. Would it sit here and insult all of the redheads? Of course not.


Plenty of people like it. I'll call someone a pig if I know they like it. It's not a big thing for me. Some people like the humiliation, I'll go along with that but I would not want it myself.
6 years

Double your partners size

hylia:
I was three times the size of my last partner. He was 130 lbs. Altjough how some of these replies are worded... kind of yikes lol.


I dare you, be specific. Or if it's that bad private message me.
6 years

Premium content is encouraging gold diggers

CreamFilling:
I just spent some time reading through this thread. The conversation itself was illuminating. I am new to the fat positive community.

I freely admit I found this site because I was looking for a job I could do online from home. I did not know what it was. The site was mentioned in an article I read relating to eating on webcam for money.

Then I found the chat room. And a 9 day bender ensued. What do you mean fat positive? You guys really think a person being fat is a good thing? What do you mean I'm sexy? I was shocked. I wasn't sure what to think. And I had no idea this was a dating site. It was overwhelming. 3 weeks later (when I came down from cloud nine), I finally contacted site admin, and was told about the model thing. And it was, oh yeah right, the reason I came here in the first place.

I have made so many wonderful friends in the past month. And blocked several ppl on Skype and elsewhere. Golddigger my ass. I needed a job. And now I have one. And an idea of what to do for a career.

I was sick of having no purpose in life. And of feeling worthless. In this community I am valued. Because I have finally found acceptance, I am overcoming my fear and my shame about my size.

And also achieving financial independence, which was always my goal. I'm sick of living on disability.

So no. I am not a golddigger. Just a fat girl. Who needed this site. And these people. All of you.

And instead of giving in to agoraphobia, I went to a bar last night. By myself. Just a local pub down the street. But more interaction with real life than I had had in years. I haven't spent more than a day inside in over 2 weeks now.

I'm winning this battle. Finally. I will not waste another moment of my life feeling ashamed of my body.

By finding social acceptance I am learning self acceptance.

And remembering who I used to be, before I let the world convince me I had no value.
To then be slut shamed or poor shamed or called a Golddigger is a bit shitty. I do not believe I have done anything wrong.

That's just my 2 cents. Make of it what you will.


I thought I'd quote your whole post because it's so good I want it to stay up even if you leave.

There are a lot of 'normies' who are against Fat Acceptance as they say it's encouraging people to be obese.

I think it is wrong to tell people they should be fat just the same as it's wrong to tell anyone what they SHOULD be. What we have been oppressed by is people telling us what we should be and in the case of fat people it's that they should be slim.

Once you know that there are people who love fat people and people who love being fat then you know you're OK. It seems that this has been kept secret from you as it was from everyone here until they discovered Fat Acceptance.

It's now a very big thing in the main stream but has got rather a bad name as it's being promoted by feminazis. They are countering the pressure of people being told they should be slim and only like slim people by telling anyone who is not attracted to fat people that they are bad.

Acceptance is the key. To know what you now know, that fat is sexy for many people.
6 years

Ban on energy drinks


StarSmoke:
I was going to mention something about how parents should start actually parenting their children and punishing them accordingly, but I noticed this turned into a huge political debate and I try to avoid those haha. I�d slap the shit out of my kids if they were doing stuff like that. They wouldn�t have the privilege or opportunity to go to stores alone and buy stuff like that if they were making poor decisions like that.

Pedophiles and rapists... oh man, those are two of my biggest triggers! Especially the pedos... I�ll just stick to my usual outburst about them needing to be tortured to death or my more recent statement of them deserving a �Game of Thrones style death� lol.


The point I am making is there are serious problems in the UK but our glamorous PM with the man sized lady shoes (honestly if I was in drag I'd borrow her shoes) just focuses on silly things like fizzy drinks and plastic bags.

There are also too many people here who think they are doing a good job "Um yes in my opinion it's not right for kids to get jacked up on energy drinks and then go joyriding, something must be done, I'm glad they are banning energy drinks, they should ban crisps whilst they are about it."
6 years

Ban on energy drinks

bat man uk:
... Parents cannot stop there children buying this stuff before or after school. ...


Really? So you think this is an acceptable solution. Get the government to take the place of the parents. You may not realise it but you are a communist.

As for the NHS they are far from perfect. They have the monopoly on health services in the UK and actively work to deny people cures for their illnesses.

Free Speech is OK for you since our Communist Conservative government and media agrees with you. Try saying something good about Trump for example or bad about Muslims or bad about Israel.

As long as you protect paedophiles and rapists you're golden.
6 years

Ban on energy drinks

Its Bubba Jay:
www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-45342682

So the UK is trying to ban energy drinks cos of the high sugar amount that leads to obesity.

I mean of course there's alot more to it than obesity but is obesity really a problem?

StarSmoke:
I am so very glad that I live in the US and not the UK. I don�t really drink energy drinks (more of a coffee person) but just the fact that they feel they can ban people from drinking what they want is outrageous. You can still buy plain sugar right? So what is the point? I already knew I didn�t ever want to live in the UK when I discovered the whole backlash against the nazi pug guy and he�s STILL fighting with them about it.

No freedom of speech. No freedom of choice. Who knows what else... man I�m just glad I live here haha.


The PM has been heavily critisised for proposing the ban. The problem they are addressing is under 18's getting wild on the drinks and also getting fat. Red Bull and Monster and Relentless are carefully concocted with sugar, cafine and other natural stimulants, none of which are illegal or banned from children.

A law would have to be specific enough not to ban all beverages and general enough that they can't just rebrand and reformulate. The task is probably more difficult than BREXIT.

The other thing the PM is doing is increasing the tax on shopping bags from 5p to 10p. A no brainer as all the work getting the tax on the things has already been done.

As for people not shooting each other in the UK. People stab each other instead and also do have street gunfights quite regularly.

There are different laws for different ethnic and cultural groups in the UK. Small matters are settled in Sharia Courts if both sides agree. The Muslim areas have Sharia Police patrols tolerated by the real police since they can't police those areas anyway.

You don't hear a huge amount about this in the mainstream media as people tend to get locked up if they report on it.

The UK government is leaning on Zukerberg to have him 'fact check' Facebook to keep such stuff off his site. It's called Hate Speech. We have Free Speech here, you can say anything you like as long as it's not Hate Speech which is any speech that might offend one of 5 protected groups, I'm serious. Blacks, Jews, Muslims, Disabled and Politicians (from memory, one of the groups might be imigrants).

Also if what you're doing causes a mob of angry people to start smashing things up then you are arrested for Breach Of The Peace. I was threatened with this once when I had a village hall full of people chanting at me to shut up and go away.

As for the police, they are being commercialised. They must make money. The Association Of Chief Police Officers wrote a document called Paying The Bill, where Bill also means police. The police must find ways of getting money out of people, to invoice them. They invoiced me £390 and tried to invoice our village £22,000 to allow some bands to play in the park.

This explains why the police won't do anything if there is no one they can bill at the end of it.

Solution is to double the tax on plastic bags and propose banning energy drinks.
6 years