If you don't care about what you're doing, you shouldn't do it.

No one is asking for professionalism. We are asking for a tiny bit more effort. Proofreading. A sense of pride, maybe?

People, new people, come to this site. They click on the stories and you know what they think when they see that unreadable trash??

"God these people are just as dumb as the internet says they are."

That is what they think.

By god man, is it too much to ask to run a spell check through some of these stories? Is that seriously too much to ask? Really?!!

If you spend THAT much time trying to craft a story, wouldn't you want it as good as you could get it before you sent it out?

No one is asking anyone to be perfect. But, try, at least to do the best you can. No one should have to "Get around the bad grammar, punctuation, style, and spelling" to see the story that is "there"

If you're going to create something, why do a terrible job at it? Do the best you can.

To excuse these patterns is to encourage laziness and bad habits.

If you're not going to even bother to spell check it, don't bother to upload it.

First off. No one came here for authors, I'm not convinced most people here know how to read anyway.

There is no quality control. Submissions are not accepted. The stories are just uploaded by whoever wrote them.

No one checks these things. There is no gatekeeper. I agree that most of them are an embarrassment to the site and should be deleted and there should be a quality control system involved.

But there is not.

Welcome to FF.

Oh no, not all of them. You need to fill out Form 1337 and 616. Pay the Princess License fee. Have a blood test to make sure you have the right blood type and DNA profile. Then we need to make sure you're cell counts are up too.

The process takes about six weeks.

Then you can be a princess. Calling yourself a princess just doesn't work. If it did. Anyone could do it. There would be chaos.


Please start the process, thank you.

Sorry, but you don't have a princess license.

If you're forced to be a straight edge. Just set goals, take your time and don't push it.

Make it as special as you can instead of an everyday thing.

I'd highly encourage you to branch out, though.

Feederism is extremely hard to keep going for long term.

People with no real life experience always have big fantasies in their head. Well, the thing is that you can blow through all of these things in a couple of weeks if you find a feedee who is just as passionate as you are.

You can only do something for the first time, once.

This is why online relationships fall apart too. Once the thrill is gone and you've done everything you have in your head has been tried to both parties acceptable limits...then what?

Weight gain isn't like other fetishes. It requires commitment from both sides. If she gets bored, he's gonna pick up on that and everything grinds down until no one wants do it anymore.

The point where a feeder becomes uninterested doesn't only depend on how big the feedee gets.

Like any relationship, this takes a lot of work from everyone. Not one person should ever be expected to do everything.

Feederism takes several different forms, too. Everyone's relationship is different. Some people just have a goal they want to reach. Others have no limits. Some just want to be stuffed on occasion.

You need to know who you are and what you're looking for. Don't find a really old school feeder who has huge plans if you just want to gain 38 pounds and that's it.

Find one that is compatible with you and be clear about what you want.

Also feederism purity is might as well be a fetish death sentence in most cases. I don't know why but lots of people seem to be into this, and nothing else. I don't know how that works. Variety is important.

Don't be afraid to branch out and explore. Lots of things mix well with this and you just never know what is going to bring the spark back. The more options you have, the better your chances are.

A feeder can only be as interested as you are, and you can only be as interested as the feeder. If you're really lucky, you find someone who can keep finding ways to keep things interesting for a long, long time.

lol no, not you.

The original poster of this topic. Sorry.

You sure ask an awful lot of questions. Are you a reporter of some kind?

Hello. Some of you know me. Some of you don’t but that doesn’t matter

This is a thing that I think must be addressed. It has gone on too long and no one has seemed to be willing to talk about or bring it up. So, I will.

Also, this post is a little long. I will understand if you can’t hold your attention for this long.

Scams and Rumors of Scammers.

Lately in the shoutbox I have seen loads of posts similar to this: Member X is a liar; don’t trust anything she says and don’t give her any money.
And that’s all. No further information. No reason why. No nothing. I have a couple of theories as to what happened here.

Theory one. Let’s face it, guys. Some of you have some twisted ideas you’re not willing to share. I’ve heard more than I ever wanted to from women who have complained about your insanity. This theory says that YOU crossed some kind of a line and once they said no, you retaliated.

I wouldn’t want to say why either if I paid someone fifty bucks then told her to drink three quarts of cooking oil, or something worse, and she said you’re nuts. Took your money and cut you off.

Theory Two. You’ve been giving her money for a week now and SHE STILL HASN’T GAINED ANY WEIGHT!!!! Right? Somewhere in your broken brain you think people are going to change dramatically that fast. All those sticks of butter and gallons of straight oil are the perfect thing to make her huge. Anyone in their right mind won’t stick to this plan.
When it doesn’t happen.....well...

You can’t handle it so they must be lying, right. I mean. Your money is way more special than their own and any food they buy with it should make them gain a hundred pounds in a week, right?

So of course, when this doesn’t happen you flip out and spam the shoutbox about how not real someone is.

Now both of these theories, I am willing to bet are true! Guys. Come on. I know the name of the site is Fantasy Feeder. But a little bit of realism might bring you a long way.

You have all of these insane ideas in your head, give the money. Then start saying what you want and you are surprised that she bails on you? I mean, really?

Chances are you can’t pay people enough for the things you want them to do. And this is why none of you ever give out any information as to why the she is a scammer when you throw your accusations around because its “Personal”

Now, I will always be the first one to speak out against this whole trend as using Feeders as a free meal ticket. I am old school and think that a relationship is more important than being desperate and paying any feedee who MIGHT be willing to indulge in whatever fantasy floating around in my head at the time.

And if you need to rely on people who frequent this site to survive from day to day. You may need to get your life in some kind of order. I believe in you, you can do it!

You guys on the other hand, might just be desperate and broken enough to throw money at anyone who offers a short term good time.

With that being said. It’s time to address the other half.

Ladies. I get it. Guys here are slime. Most of will tell you that you are the most beautiful thing they have ever seen until the next woman comes along to distract them. Getting money from these brain dead zombies is likely pretty easy.
However, the dead brain reacts in bad ways. So, I have some suggestions to protect yourself from events like these and being the next one accused.

One: Make boundaries. Be one hundred percent clear on the things you will and will not do for money before any money is given. This seems like common sense but I have a feeling not everyone thinks this far ahead.

Two: Keep your circles of feeders small. Instead of advertising and trying to get as many as possible. Try to keep the number down to two or three people you can trust to be reliable. Talk to people, build a good foundation. If you cast wide nets, you’re going to catch everyone you don’t want.

Three: Set prices. Don’t be vague. Don’t set up an Amazon wish list and hope for the best. Be clear on what you want. Create a Tier system. Don’t be “Small donations” don’t be that person. Put a little bit of effort into it.

Four: Evidence. If someone calls you a scammer and refuses to say why you are one. Keep screen shots of the reason you cut them off. Then you can defend yourself and expose them for the sick and twisted person they really are.

Five: Maybe don’t ask for money on the FF shoutbox? It’s against the rules and anyone can report you for it. It makes you seem entitled, arrogant and pretentious. You can be a better person! Professional even if you get your act together and stop looking for the slime dwellers all the time.

Keep it low key, put it on your profile and let people take notice. You know they are going to look. So, hang out in chat and socialize a little bit. Don’t just demand money and see what happens. Be a real person.

I am sick of all the “She scammed me” posts.

Yes.