Fat shamed by doctor

Audrey Beauregarde:
A while back, my doctor noted that I'm getting larger and said in a pretty condescending way that I should probably stop. I've since stopped going to her and went with another.

Munchies:
Good on you. Fatphobic doctors are not good doctors. And it has nothing to do with feedism. They are more likely to disregard symptoms as you being too fat rather than investing things.

And if you do end up losing weight, they are more likely to encourage unsafe practices.

Audrey Beauregarde:
That happened to a friend of mine. Her symptoms were dismissed because she was fat and it ended up being terminal cancer.


Horrible. Sadly not that uncommon.
2 months

Fat shamed by doctor

Audrey Beauregarde:
A while back, my doctor noted that I'm getting larger and said in a pretty condescending way that I should probably stop. I've since stopped going to her and went with another.


Good on you. Fatphobic doctors are not good doctors. And it has nothing to do with feedism. They are more likely to disregard symptoms as you being too fat rather than investing things.

And if you do end up losing weight, they are more likely to encourage unsafe practices.
2 months

Ai generated content, yay or nay?

Morbidly A Beast:
i think that the weight gain ai videos are a good thing because it will eventually take priority over the sort of usurious fetishism many people engage in online with real human beings, with no concern for their health and well being.

HomuraAkemi:
Honestly, this fetish was never ethical in the first place in my opinion. I would argue that the latter solution isn't perfect either. You are using up resources and you could've commission an artist or animator instead for kink imagery.

Although not everyone has the money which is valid. But I do find it wild that some AI "artists" are charging $100 or more for commissions by just inputting code which I find absurd.


Feedism is ethically neutral. It depends on how you go about it that can push it in one direction or another.
2 months

Ai generated content, yay or nay?

ScandinavianFA:
Lately I have been noticing a huge uptick in content (usually videos) that is clearly AI created. I’m not sure I like it. On one side you *can* create some pretty good stuff if you know what you’re doing but on the other hand most of it is just the usual AI slop, IMO. It also takes away most of the erotic impact, knowing that this is not a real person gaining weight etc. It feels oddly empty and disconnected, and unfortunately there seems to be more and more of it. YouTube has gotten especially bad. What are your thoughts, do you agree or disagree?

Also, sorry if this has been discussed before.


Huge nay for me. Ethical situations aside, they are not good. Really bad quality.
2 months

Being fat at a theme park

Slayright:
Has anyone had any interesting experiences as a fat person at a theme park ie. Going on a rollercoaster and filling multiple seats. Or just eating lots of food at a park.

BigBallBellyGirl:
I was about 250lb. when I last visited a theme park. It was July, and I sweated profusely even then. Now I'm around 650lb. I'd go if there were enough non-ride attractions, i.e. Epcot or Dollywood, or to see holiday decorations or shows. I'd need my own scooter, and it would also have to be during the cool months.


Went to Dollywood with my 400 lbs partner. He didn't get on any of the rides (although he still wouldn't have gotten on the rides even if he could fit because he doesn't do heights). But he still had a lot of fun.

Lots of fun things to see and do, even if you don't get on the rides. Although he did get on this lazy river ride. He had to get a seatbelt extender, but he fit just fine.
2 months

Hiya, new face here

Queenofthefattylake:
Heya!

I'm ally! New here smiley just looking to meet new friends and find all the resources!

I've been around various different communities for a little while, gaining on and off accidentally usually. Just enjoying life at a bigger size!

Nice to meet you all ☺️


2 months

New here

Gainer7772:
How can I get fat faster

Munchies:
Eat a high calorie diet, and make sure you eat more calories than you burn.

MottiF:
no one could say it better


Lol, thanks
2 months

New here

Gainer7772:
How can I get fat faster


Eat a high calorie diet, and make sure you eat more calories than you burn.
2 months

Girlfriend lost weight

Caddsaya:
When I met my girlfriend she was 320lbs and rather busty. A few years into our relationship she decided to lose weight.

I supported her because that’s obviously a decision for her to make. She was successful and lost quite a significant amount of weight including in her chest.

I’m happy for her of course, but a part of me misses her larger body. Has anyone been through a similar situation and how did you cope with this? Feel free to message if you’d like to chat more about this.


Honestly? You need to make peace with it. If you don't, you'll end up like that one guy who had a very public crash out of the fact that his gf decided to lose weight. Not a cute look, tbh.

Learn to love her body as it is. You'll be fine.
2 months

🐷🐷

Cszst18:
breakfast, snack, lunch, snack, dinner, snack,but I also have a lot of exercise


That doesn't answer my question. What specific foods do you eat? What is your usual diet?
2 months