It's not the first time, surely, because essentially, I've been gaining all my life and getting fatter and fatter. However, last year, I put on 80 lb in 2 months. When I saw my best friend after I grew so quickly, she commented that she wasn't expecting the difference to be so dramatic even though I told her I gained a lot of weight. She also commented on how crazy it was that my belly was round and somewhat firm instead of super jiggly. I was thrilled of course, since I had been stuffing around the clock with the goal of growing as big as possible.
1 year
FuntimesGettingFat:
Okay when I stuff myself, I like to wear elastic cloths that fit me tightly before. Then after it looks so much bigger after I finish it's just nice. But that is to say what's yalls favorite cloths to stuff in.
Munchies:
But a close second is in a tight button up shirt. Alas, I had him burst through a button up shirt only once. As much as he likes destroying clothes with his fat, replacing them us expensive.
NoMoYoYo:
I hear that. I went from L to needing to buy clothes at the big boy store during my 9 month gain. It does get very costly. Another reason to slow down.
Agreed. I am both very obese and also unusually shaped. There are no stores I could walk into and buy clothing off the rack. There are so few online vendors who can accommodate me, I could count them on my fingers. When I recently needed nice clothing in the form of spring dresses suitable for a professional environment or a social event, I found an extraordinary online retailer who takes custom measurements at no additional charge. That said, I spent around $550 for three cotton dresses. It's a reality I'm obviously willing to live with, because I'm not trying to lose weight, but a reality to be taken into consideration nonetheless.
1 year
FuntimesGettingFat:
Okay when I stuff myself, I like to wear elastic cloths that fit me tightly before. Then after it looks so much bigger after I finish it's just nice. But that is to say what's yalls favorite cloths to stuff in.
I'd have to say comfort is my biggest priority when extreme stuffing. My usual attire is a soft, large T-shirt and stretchy bottoms. My belly is typically exposed though, so there's no pressure on it as I get more and more full. I also tend to get hot as my body works to process the rush of calories, so short sleeves and shorts are ideal. I have split a seam before and popped elastic waistbands, but buying clothing in my size is so costly, I can't do that regularly, sadly.
1 year
NoMoYoYo:
After gaining about 65lbs in the last 9 months, I've finally hit a point that my body isn't happy with me.
I feel tired, sluggish etc.
I am about to change my strategy. I want to still gain, but in a much healthier way. i.e. less fast food.
I know what I've done to myself. I knew I'd reach this point. Surprised it took as long as it did.
Does anybody have any suggestions on how to keep gaining while being healthier?
BigBallBellyGirl:
I've struggled with this too.. gaining and then feeling an extreme toll on my body, stamina, and mobility. I by no means have mastered a perfect balance. In fact, I still fall off the wagon once every couple of weeks and end up putting on weight as a result. I'm currently about ten pounds heavier than what I set as my absolute limit. BUT... I have slowed down A LOT, and I'm taking steps (including literal ones) to ease knee and back pain that at one point, had become unbearable.
A couple of observations from my lived experience:
1) I love junk food. I can put down 10 fast food burgers without feeling full. Fat, sugar, and carbohydrates don't give me the right kind of energy though. I feel much better if I've included salad, greens, fresh vegetables, and fruit than when I exist off McDonald's and Pizza Hut.
2) My drinks of choice are Dr. Pepper and chocolate milk, but I feel loads better when I make myself drink water.
3) Movement is essential. I carry my weight in my midsection and have a very round, heavy belly. I have limitations on what I can do physically because of my size, but I do sitting stretches and lift weights sitting. It keeps the strain on my body from being unbearable. I also make myself get outside, and I'm walking about three miles a day, broken up into small segments/multiple outings. I'm slow, but I get those steps in, and my knees are better for it
I hope some of the things that work for me are helpful to you too. And adopting new habits doesn't mean you have to lose weight. I certainly haven't. Sometimes the difference is in the little things.
NoMoYoYo:
Thanks. Wow 10 burgers! I've had 3 and nuggets. Thats a level I'm not sure I'd ever reach.
I know I need to do more exercise...including walking. I did much better while on vacation a couple weeks ago than I thought I would. But boy was I exhausted and a bit sore.
Extreme stuffing is one of my favorite aspects of feedism, and though I've always been fat, massive calorie intake put about 200 pounds on me last year. I don't regret the gain, but I will say, I stretched my stomach out so much, it is very, very challenging to maintain. I initially said 500 was my limit, but I couldn't put the brakes on. Then I capped myself at 525. I overshot that as well, and I'm currently in the 530s. The gain has been much slower, but it's still a struggle, and I still fall off the wagon.
I hope you find the balance you're looking for, and I hope you reach a place where you feel well enough to do everything you want to do!
1 year
Miachu:
Guess can give another update haha
Since getting with my current partner, I've put on like 40 pounds lmao
We're both going strong! And honestly, they appreciate me so much which has been a great feeling
So glad you found someone who cares for and appreciates you! Wishing you all the happiness in the world.
1 year
NoMoYoYo:
After gaining about 65lbs in the last 9 months, I've finally hit a point that my body isn't happy with me.
I feel tired, sluggish etc.
I am about to change my strategy. I want to still gain, but in a much healthier way. i.e. less fast food.
I know what I've done to myself. I knew I'd reach this point. Surprised it took as long as it did.
Does anybody have any suggestions on how to keep gaining while being healthier?
I've struggled with this too.. gaining and then feeling an extreme toll on my body, stamina, and mobility. I by no means have mastered a perfect balance. In fact, I still fall off the wagon once every couple of weeks and end up putting on weight as a result. I'm currently about ten pounds heavier than what I set as my absolute limit. BUT... I have slowed down A LOT, and I'm taking steps (including literal ones) to ease knee and back pain that at one point, had become unbearable.
A couple of observations from my lived experience:
1) I love junk food. I can put down 10 fast food burgers without feeling full. Fat, sugar, and carbohydrates don't give me the right kind of energy though. I feel much better if I've included salad, greens, fresh vegetables, and fruit than when I exist off McDonald's and Pizza Hut.
2) My drinks of choice are Dr. Pepper and chocolate milk, but I feel loads better when I make myself drink water.
3) Movement is essential. I carry my weight in my midsection and have a very round, heavy belly. I have limitations on what I can do physically because of my size, but I do sitting stretches and lift weights sitting. It keeps the strain on my body from being unbearable. I also make myself get outside, and I'm walking about three miles a day, broken up into small segments/multiple outings. I'm slow, but I get those steps in, and my knees are better for it
I hope some of the things that work for me are helpful to you too. And adopting new habits doesn't mean you have to lose weight. I certainly haven't. Sometimes the difference is in the little things.
1 year
Triclipsemoon:
Just looking for TV show suggestions.
New, Old, Cult Classics, share your favorites with us!
Mine:
Firefly
Toriko
Naruto
Bridgerton
Pretty much any cooking competition show
Munchies:
Star Trek
Star Wars: The Clone Wars
Father Brown
Murder She Wrote
Poirot
Monk
Justic League
Justice League Unlimited
Batman: TAS
Superman: TAS
Static Shock
Batman Beyond
Teen Titans
LOVE all things Trek. 😊
1 year
Went to the movies, and the theater had heated recliners with little fold-out tables for snacks. I ordered pretzel bites with beer cheese, boneless chicken bites, and a personal pizza, but I had to balance the food on my belly because I'm too fat to fold out the attached table. This is why, in addition to buying two seats for me on our honeymoon travel, we also reserved a front row. Otherwise, depending on the layout, my belly might end up mashed into the seat in front of me.
1 year
Resident Alien on SyFy is my current obsession. It's part sci. fi., part quirky small town sitcom, with some pretty amusing dialogue.
1 year
It happened long before I was old enough to put a label on it and before I was aware it could have sexual aspects/undertones. Before kindergarten, I was already chubby, and my parents reacted by strictly controlling my food, snacks, and physical activity. Because they made my body an issue, I became hyper aware of physical features like my protruding belly... but I wasn't self conscious. I was intrigued
By elementary school, I was fat, despite my mother's constant false association of fat bodies with some kind of moral failing. I also enjoyed "forbidden" foods, and by the time I was eight or nine, I found a way to build a stash. I had my first intentional gains one summer, and I put on so much weight I was too big for one piece classroom desks. I hit 200 in middle school and 300 in high school. When I got an after school job at a local diner, I had pocket money for belly stuffing. By college, I discovered other aspects of this kink like inflation and bloating, weight gain fiction, etc. Today, I'm very happily engaged to someone who is into feedism too.
Long story short, I think there have to be some elements of body autonomy involved for me, and it's also about embracing who I am and loving me for me. The smallest I've ever been as an adult was 190, and I didn't feel happy at that size. I'm currently in the 525 to 535 range. If I didn't have health concerns I'm trying to mitigate, and if I could stay mobile, I'd happily go for 600, but that's not in the cards for now. Maybe down the road!
1 year
