'You look great! Have you lost weight?'

'Be good!' (in reference to not eating)


I just get annoyed hearing any talk of weight/dieting to be honest, a fatphobic comment usually crops up somewhere and nothing really irritates me more than that.

Football. Or maybe just the fans being on the tube. So loud and busy and they don't even offer me a seat when I look fat and pregnant (or those who genuinely do need a seat!)

Infrequent trains. So many times I've spent 29 minutes waiting in the cold and dark for a train to turn up. That seems petty but 29 minutes is really long in the cold and dark. Oh also not legally being able to smoke when I'm outside on an abandoned platform.

Erm I also hate it when people want to leave or sleep when I want to carry on partying. I would definitely get rid of that too

Yes, always has been even when I was thin.

My advice would be just to show him how comfortable you are with your body, particularly when you gain a couple of pounds. Show them off, flaunt them infront of him. I think for a lot of guys it's not just the eating and weight gain that's sexy, but also the confidence and enjoyment that we get from it

Practically, I sometimes worry about this regarding my own feelings towards weight gain as a feedee. I worry that once I've gained as much as I'm comfortable with that I wont know what to do. I don't want to return to miserable dieting again and I don't want to get into a cycle of yo-yo dieting just so that I have the freedom to gain again. (Though that's only because I hate the thought of losing weight and dieting because I do relate them to unhappiness.) This is why I would never intentionally gain weight though, I want to enjoy this freedom for as long as possible.

However, in terms of a relationship I don't find this a worry. I see my weight as a side effect of my happiness and security. As my relationship grows, I see my body grow, and I find it all very romantic. I also think that there is a stage when two people become so close and are able to share a life together, for example in the sense of marriage. The development stabilises, and in the same way, I expect so will my weight, because I would have acheived the ultimate level of security.

For me I suppose it may be different as I'm young. I've always thought that I'll be a fat wife and mother one day, so to me weight gain is just a natural part of growing up and becoming the fat woman that I want to be, and I find that very sexual. I don't have a weight goal; I just have a life goal. When I think of the future, of having a home and a family, being a fat woman is all part of that, and I find that romantic in its own way, different to the sexual side of weight gain.

I don't think the fetish will go away, as I'll always find being fat/getting fatter sexy. However, I think that once I'm as big as I'm going to get, there will be other advantages which appeal to the fetish that being smaller and gaining weight don't have. It'll be different, but not necessary less I think it also depends on how much of an FA the feeder is too, so that these pros and cons also apply to them.

shame I didn't get any of you!

Lol I just get people standing up for me on a packed tube or bus which is fine. I once had somebody make a huge deal about it when somebody else tried to take the seat and she actually said 'no the seat is for you, you need it because you're pregnant!'. I was trying so hard not to laugh!

I've never had anybody actually ask me though, I don't know how I'ld respond if I did! I think it's because I smoke, nobody I know would ever really think I was! Although I have noticed some stares from people on the street when I'm smoking too! I think that might be because of my belly.....

Nigerian accents! <3


I don't really find accents from English-speaking countries very sexy (other than London, but I guess I'm biased!)

drumondpark.com/piggoespop/index.php

I saw this whilst I was christmas shopping, would have loved it as a child, so funny!

-Try to be the one that does not make the Pig go Pop
-Feed the pig the hamburgers and watch his tummy grow
-Feed the pig too many and his tummy will pop

I get offered seats on public transport all the time because people think/say I'm pregnant. Luckily it hasn't been too awkward so far, I tend to just take the seat and stay quiet!