If you don't like the discomfort and the comments, perhaps gaining is not for you. As you get older, you are much more likely to have orthopedic issues. My wife is not gaining on purpose, and in her 60's, she has a lot of pain which is worse than discomfort.
6 years
I used to chat on IRC, and had the opposite problem. The people wanted to talk about fattening up their kids. That was so wrong, and I would stop chatting with that person.
6 years
Not all women, even fat ones have big breasts, or even medium ones. It's all genetic. Estrogen helps only if you have the family genetics to grow breasts.
6 years
What bugs me, is that when I state that I prefer larger women, people either ask me why, or try to figure it out. If I said I preferred blondes, no one would ask me why,
6 years
Women seem insecure in dating men shorter than they are, or men who have breasts bigger than they do. It makes no sense to me.
6 years
Fat increases estrogen in males. That is why some of the men here have full size female breasts. If a male's nipples are sensitive like a female, the male is high in estrogen.
6 years
Computers, phones, TV's, stereos, etc.
6 years
If you really want her, fat or thin, I would tread very carefully. Remember that most people do not want to be fat. Sometimes it is hard to remember that after being part of this community for so long.
6 years
nofbar:
You should also consider some couples-counseling.
Most likely the counselor is going to tell them to split. There are probably a lot of things we would all like to do, but don't because our partners would object.
If he is older, she is going to end up having to take care of him if he becomes disabled or sick from his rapid weight gain. Gaining in your later years is a bad idea, medically.
6 years
