Munchies:
Feel you. But hey! Figuring it out is half the fun.

I will say sometimes it's not missing a spice. Rather, it's all about how you use the spice. For example, if you take your spices and heat them in a skillet on low, you unlock a bolder flavor.

Sweetfattie:
Oh god, toasting the spices. Somehow I always either burn them or don’t cook them enough. One of these days I want to take an Indian cooking class and get the teacher to show me exactly how it’s done. It’s probably practice and repetition, but I can only screw up dinner so many times before I go back to something I know I can do. 😅

Munchies:
We stan a queen who can cook.

Sweetfattie:
Haha, right now I’m a much better baker than cook. I’m determined to learn though! I can do a lot of American dishes well, but I’m not familiar enough with the spices, herbs, and other flavorings from other parts of the world to know what a dish needs when I taste it. I can tell that my saag paneer doesn’t taste right, but what exactly is it missing? Hell if I know!

Munchies:
It's because of how you trained your brain. You can train your brain to enjoy pretty much anything if you are consistent about it. It's why people who eat healthy tend to find fast food gross.

Sweetfattie:
Can confirm, I dislike most fast food. Always have with a few exceptions. I enjoy eating out, but I would rather have a delicious curry with naan and pakoras, or barbecue brisket with tangy coleslaw and cornbread, or ma po tofu with egg rolls and hot and sour soup, or a big pastrami and Swiss on rye with a crisp green salad… Give me big flavors! A variety of textures! Temperature contrast! Rubs, sauces, marinades, cured meats, strong cheeses, luscious ripe fresh fruits and cool crunchy vegetables.

This is why truly stuffing myself is a special treat. I have expensive taste in food. (Yeah, there are some things I can make myself, but my homemade Indian and Chinese food game is still weak. Alas.)

Wanttobefat600:
Im not saying that healthy food can't neccessarily taste good, I just have a personal preference toward unhealthy junk food. Idk why but i just tend to crave more of processed type foods

Wanttobefat600:
I've spent many years contemplating whether or not I was okay with being unhealthy as a result of gaining weight. And while honestly, I'm definitely scared of dying, I've finally accepted the fact that my health will not be the greatest as I gain weight lol. After so many years I just realized that my urges to gain aren't going anywhere so it leaves me no choice. And plus I just like eating junk fatty foods better so even if i wasnt into fat and gaining id rather be a bit unhealthy than have to give up eating foods that taste good and give me the satisfaction only foods that make you fat can

Danny823:
People usually don’t like this option, but exercising is the best way to do this. Plus, working out means you can eat more calories

If you go to the gym and lift, and you do nothing but legs while eating in a huge calorie surplus, your legs will definitely grow significantly bigger, but I know it’s a lot of work for people that usually don’t want to exercise

MarieTrans:
"Up yours, woke moralists" lmao

Sendet:
A moment ago this person's comment had been "Haha funny conservative rant".

Oh no...

Random moralistic interjections - and on a fantasy fetish site (though cady55 beat me to pointed this out prior "I apologize, I thought this was "Fantasy" Feeder"...)

But then they blame conservatism when someone points out that sudden moralistic interjections are unnecessary and unpleasant (and that it was illogical)...

And... they use 'woke' for themselves and I can't even tell if they are being ironic or if they are indeed the type...

All of which means... Oh no... That means...

I'm sorry everyone. It appears that I have fed a troll @.@

MarieTrans:
#7 seems like more of a downside to me (and very personal), I like my men to be in touch with their emotions

ChubuffElly:
This is a shot in the dark. I know that fat distribution is mostly genetic but are there foods that are 'allegedly' prone to go into your butt and hips and maybe even breasts?

Letters And Numbers:
I think for as much as many of us will vociferously protest, many of us treat this site and this larger community as an extension of the pornography world. So while it might be a hangout spot just like a social club some of the time, it's a social club where people sneak off to masturbate constantly and they also like to talk about what they masturbate to and complain about things and then masturbate again. And I think this leads many people, men and women, buyers and sellers, to internalize that it's a series of transactional relationships.

I don't even know if that's so different from going to any other website, or any real bar or social club, except that people have lower inhibitions here and everyone is aware what everyone else wants to pay for. There are few secrets.

But if I was trying to meet someone IRL and get them to essentially gratify my fetish, I could use my charm and wit and good looks. That and paying them some money might get me what I'm looking for. And then there's Fantasy Feeder.