It's because our metabolism increases due to the uterus trying to murder us from the inside lol

When I get "the period hangries" as I call them, I can be a bottomless pit and absolutely inhale everything in sight. No matter what I've been doing, I usually need a few extra hundred calories on those days.

The not-fun part about it though is that those ravenous moments seem to hit out of nowhere and it's not fun kink-wise. I mean I think it'd be great fun for a feeder to watch me eat (and I'd like it too!) but when I get to that point I'm usually feeling weak and shaky so it's more survival than anything, and if I get too full it just annoys me lol.

However for those who like seeing a feedee cram a lot of food in their mouth quickly, would definitely be a boon for them haha.

If the ONLY relationships yuo can build are based on your fetish, that's not a relationsihp. No one has ever once indicated attraction isn't important but attraction and fetish *are not the same thing* and using them interchangeably is dehumanizing. You must always, ALWAYS acknowledge the person first and just because you think you love someone does not mean they are required to participate in or validate your fetish. Additionally no one here at all has said anywhere that there is any disgust. Fat acceptance IS NOT equated with fat fetishism and conflating the two is exactly why you're so furious with a woman for pointing that out. Fat people have a right to not have their fatness fetishized if they don't want it. Not wanting to be fetishized is not in any way fatphobic. If you are seeing someone that doesn't want it, that is 100% your problem.

You wanna talk about self-hate? How about literally not seeing people for who they are without how hard they make your wang.

Holy crap, taking hormonal bc without a prescription or medical advice is so dangerous. Y'all! What are you doing! There are other ways to get those hormones or effects of them!

Then maybe stop focusing so damn hard on making sure *your* kinks are validated and approved first, believe in them for your own good, and stop putting that burden on other people? That was the point of the discussion. If people matter first, then hand-wringing over how they fit into your kinks shows that there's some level of objectification going on. Focus on the person, build the trust, and the rest will follow.

I think it's less that they are offended and more that they're embarrassed and ashamed. I think the OP genuinely wanted to connect with the person they were asking about, but didn't understand that the question came off.

either the OP of the thread deleted their account or blocked me lol I can't tell! But yes - they suggested they wanted to explore the real relationship part further so that should be the priority.

You don't need to tell them right now. It would only objectify them. I've been that person in relationships, the one someone pursued and only once things got hot and heavy did they reveal that "oh yeah, by the way, they preferred fat women." and it made me feel like crap.

If you're going out with this person because of their body, you need to let them go so they can find someone who values them for who they are with or without it. If you admire them as a whole person, this doesn't yet need to be introduced, or if you are going to, NEVER in a way that centers them as the object of the kink. You're just making it about you and your desires at that point.

Make it a conversation and let them answer first. Tell them how you find that specific person attractive, ask them what they like, what if any kinks they have if they are ready to disclose it, etc. It's just like literally any other relationship. Hanging it up on being FA diminishes it and limits you both.

Haven't read the story (I'll check it out soon!) but I generally love slime/goo!

It's so good! The ultimate comfort food.