Huge Motley Crue fan and saw them on the DR Feelgood tour.
Been listening to Roxette for the last couple of days and trying to relearn some of the guitar parts.

Height 5'3"
Weight 380 lbs
Shirts 3X or 4X
Bra 44 DD
Pants/jeans 28-30
Dresses 4X

Its best to get opinions from all sides.
Do what is best for you.

Its all a personal preference really and the admirer needs to understand there is a limit.
I haven't been an active gainer in many years but recently had the urge to gain a few pounds but I deal with compulsive overeating disorder at times so thats where my fear comes in.

I know the feeling and I too fear losing control again.
There is a point where doing simple things becomes difficult because you are so fat.
People with a fantasy that are around you most of the time fail to see that as a problem.

I spent my child hood skinny but never thought about getting fat. I know I liked fat boys and was very attracted to them.
I guess the reason I am fat now is because I hated being skinny and it was my way to control my life and make myself happy.
I love taking up space too.
I love being the fattest woman in the room.
Why you may ask? I don't know.

Oh Ok I wasn't sure so thanks

My question is what is a lizzo?

Don't be afraid to make your preferences known to your GF and the same goes for her too. Listen/ communicate.
Explain your kink to her but she doesn't have to agree with it or want to partake in it.
I agree with Poly's comment above.
Its fatphobic anywhere you go so thats a mute point.

I would not.
I think you would open yourself to not so nice people that will try to use you maybe even stalk you.
I have been stalked and its not fun at all
Luckily both of them got a nice long prison sentence.