I've mentioned it before, but we witnessed my wife's young sister absolutely blow up from a thicker sized teen to now well over 325lbs over 5-7 years.

My wife would make comments that she doesn't know how her sister could get that big (she was the only obese member of the family)

And now my wife has piled on over 100lbs and is quickly catching up to her. Great to see them together at the family BBQ's, spilling out of their chairs; like they were both meant to become happy hogs. 🐖

I've always wondered what my father-in-law thinks about his two daughters becoming porkers. Everyone else is lean and into fitness.

I remember your thread from a couple years ago about this being THE FINAL 10LBS, lol. Your concern over his health and size; and that's when your hubby was around 250!

Looks like the one that really grew, was YOU in your depravity and control over him. 😈

I would love to be a feedee. I often get jealous of my wife pigging out on anything she wants and always dominating where we eat.

But then I see her completely out of breath from short walks, always a sweaty mess, how increasingly useless she's become around the house and how she's traded in all of her hobbies for laying on the couch and Netflix. I'm glad I'm fit; will stick with being a feeder and vicariously live the "out of control fat*ss life" through her.

I basically have stopped even complimenting any girls on these sites for that very reason.

A while back, the last straw for me was when I sent out a simple one line compliment message and had the girl respond "I'm technically an online sex worker, am not going to just message you for free."

LOL. Well then.... "enjoy" the "community". 🖕

Most Indian food, in layman's terms, are stews with butter (ghee) as a base that make a buttery gravy that's then put over rice or used to dip flatbread (naan) in. Even the flatbread is brushed in garlic butter to make some version of garlic bread.

Because white rice and white breads spike insulin, they efficiently pack on all of the heavy fats of the ghee onto the body. It's such a fattening diet.

Being your MERIKAN 🇺🇸, you should start with the most popular Indian dish in the states: good ol' Butter Chicken (Murgh Makhani). Not spicy at all nor has any intense indian spices. Very accessible for anyone and soooooo fattening, especially if you up the levels of ghee.

It's far more healthy than sugar. Sometimes I cringe seeing how excessive some members here are in stuffing with sugar/chugging entire 2L's of soda. Diabetes is no joke.

I live in a neighborhood that's predominantly Indian. They use clarified butter (Ghee) in EVERYTHING. And then combine it with carbs (rice, breads). And the wives are all ridiculously obese. Little butterballs walking around everywhere lol.

Baby powder. And lots of it. Also deodorant between your thighs, etc. My wife starts sweating profusely just putting her makeup on in the morning lol.

As a feeder, my dream is for my wife to constantly sneak fast food while she's out and then feel pressured to lie about it, hide snacks at the house, in her purse. Completely out of control but can't admit it to herself or the family how bad it's gotten and inevitability her becoming grossly obese.

I can then confront her with the countless bank charges and a good "told you so" about her becoming a massive piggie.

She was like this during her pregnancies and it was amazing.

Nailed it. The cognitive dissonance they exhibit during their changing desires and habits. There's still times my wife will say things alluding to the fact that she's not really THAT fat, she tries to eat healthy, she's in control, everything's going to turn around at some point here. Yet the fatter she gets she daily realizes there's no way she can give up the fattening food or her sedentary lifestyle - she actually loves it. Truth be told there's no turning back at this point.

Gram of fat has over double the amount of calories than sugar/carb (9cal vs 4cal). And diving into the sugar will, no joke, lead to diabetes pretty fast. If you're going to splurge hard, stick more with your fats: butter, cheeses, cream, oils, peanut butter, nuts, etc.