Hi Saph, have to admit I didn't look into this too much last night when I replied to the email.

I have IP banned the 'almostfit2019' account. On good faith that this person was telling the truth... although it did seem a little odd.

I have to admit not sure how easy it is to get onto a site using a different IP.. but seems like a hassle if they are doing it to prove a point. Hopefully they will just bugger off. Sounds like an attention seeker to me and if they no longer get our attention they will get bored.

Ban or not to ban..

The sharade that is the forum titled 'the binging bartender'.

I get his point.. we should allow members to talk about fat fetishism and experiences without shutting it down. Influx who all this is directed at is a little blunt and tbh I have read some of her posts and thought it was on the risque side telling people to grow up and such.

ANYWAY.. FemaleFatAdmirer is currently being allowed to run rampant on his pathetic little forum post. Tbh.. this is now beyond trolling. We wouldn't put up with posts of this nature from other trolls.. just because he is a member doesn't mean he can act however he pleases.

I don't want to issue a ban if the other mods don't agree. I want a sort of vote if you will.. Is a ban worth it to show him he can't act like this.. * i personally think he needs a time out to get iver hus issues* or will this antagonise him further upon his return to the site and instead just let it run its course?

Thoughts please!

I completely understand the stigma around this interest and site. At the end of the day it really is up to you.. Nobody will think badly of you whatever you decide, most importantly do what's most comfortable for you.

The usual response to being found online here by family, friends or colleagues is.. Well they must have been on the site for a reason.. As in they must be into this sort of thing themselves to be able to stumble across your profile.

My personal experience of this site.. I have been on and off a few times, but basically been a member for over 10 years. Always had a picture and have never had anyone from different social circles discover me online.

Hope that helps!

Have received a chat log from BBWcreator82 about this member.

Have given them a warning, for using derogatory language about fat people. Wasn't enough chat log provided to issue a ban. *handy copy and paste job potentially hiding instigating and antagonising comments from BBWcreator82*

Just keep an eye out please. Thanks.