Enas:
If you have any energy for philosophizing, what is that special lady that the searching is about?
Oddball454:
Its not that i have been searching for 25 years! I have had relationships during that time, though none right now!
Was just musing that I have known of this scene for 25 years, a quarter of a century, and i just realised half of my life too!!
Nonono! Im just curious about the ideological (a body of ideas) framework in which the "Special Other" exists. Not for you specifically, because im noticing a lot of people treat this in the same way. That they have an image of what that other person is, and then seeing whats closest to it.
And thats good to know xD
1 year
If you have any energy for philosophizing, what is that special lady that the searching is about?
1 year
Stuffytummywriter:
yes definitely! although i find it has less to do with the amount of calories and more with how tight i managed to pack my belly. Like if I overeat past the point of pain at night, i'll wake up to my tummy fairly screaming with hunger, while also being kinda puffy and sore and sensitive.
And if I have time (and supplies) to re-stuff again in the morning when i've binged the night before... it's the best feeling in the world! It's almost like my tummy is so distended still it needs to be packed full again to feel comfortable.
stomach capacity expands by sheer volume. You can even do it with water (if you have the patience)!
1 year
Harry-Misty:
I know this thread was a long ago, but i wanna make it again. So what food is made for diet but still makes you fat?
Munchies:
Anything low fat or fat free. Turns out, fat makes things taste good. So to compensate, they increase the sugar content.
This is, ironically, more fattening.
This is such a wonderful example of ideology!!!
1 year
This is a wonderful case where we could use the hegelian dialectic! 😆
Luckely ive already proposed to Hiccupx (site owner) about making an other "forum" thing that will be designed so that it will naturally encourage people to engage in it, but we will see if it will ever be implemented!
In the meantime, i noticed how one person made a thesis (the one drawing attention to the number of comments in womens vs mens pictures) then another person made an antithesis (the thesis was not correct because it didnt take into account the imbalance of objectification in men and women) and so it is time for a synthesis!
Unfortunately im currently too horny to think of what this synthesis would be 😅, but i write this to encourage someone else to try it! Try to form a synthesis with the thesis and its antithesis!
1 year
Why am i into that...? 🤣
1 year
What do they teach your classes on phylosophy? Im really curious!
1 year
I was also a feeder a few (3) years back. At some point i started having feedee urges tho, and i was trying to supress them. At some point i shared them with a lady i was talking with, and she pushed me down the rabit hole of gaining. My only regret is not being able to make any serious gains since then. Ive managed to put 15-20 kg (33-44lbs) of fat onto me. I have stopped exercising mostly, because i want to become weak, and ive been trying to get myself addicted so i wont be able to stop.
My wish is to be found by a feeder irl who will push me to gain for her pleasure! >.
1 year
Delta9:
From another point of view:
A person's body can change a lot faster than their partner's preferences can keep up. Small changes are bound to happen slowly over time. That's just the process of aging and everyone knows that. If you're really in a long term, committed relationship then I think it's the responsibility of both partners to accept and account for this reality. No one stays young forever.
However, when you make the conscious decision to drastically change your body in a way you know won't be attractive to your partner, a person who you supposedly care about, I think it in some way violates the implied terms of the relationship. Nobody wants to sign up for one thing just to get the bait and switch later.
If I love my partner, don't I have some responsibility to at least try and maintain my body in a way that will be attractive to her? And of course there are any number of ways a person can change themselves, not just getting fatter or thinner. Drugs and alcohol are another way of destroying your body.
If you choose to put yourself and your own desires before your relationship and your partner, that's fine. It's not a wrong decision. But maybe you should talk to him first or simply end the relationship instead of leaving him stuck with someone he doesn't think is attractive anymore, forcing him to make the choice to leave or not.
If you've falen in love with somebody you wont love them despite their imperfections but because of them!
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