I think both of you are right. I chose "mutual gainer" as well since I am turned on by my own weight gain and women who gain weight as well. While I am not in such a relationship, the idea of being with a women who loves to eat as much as I do and where we both encourage each other and grow fat together is my version of heaven.

After going on 3 diets and gaining back more than I lost, I decided I am not dieting anymore. My heaviest when I was in high school was 205 lbs. I got down to 175 lbs. senior year and thought I would never be 205 again. But alas when I did reach it, I decided to just eat what I wanted and let nature take its course. A new job with lots of lunch meetings led to 40 more lbs. being added in 4 years. So now I was 245. Another new job led to 25 more lbs. in one year. Now 270. I found myself enjoying my own fattening and just let it go from there. Slowly and steadily I have added more weight and now have hit 305. It turns me on to think I have gained 130 lbs. And I have decided to enjoy my life as a big bellied fat guy going forward.

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For me it would be the spoilt princess/goddess worshipping scenario, where everything revolves around indulgence, gluttony, an overwhelmingly hedonistic lifestyle, where I wouldn't have to lift a finger. I'd just eat and nap all day and have a devoted servant (maybe even more than one) look after all my wants and needs. I'd end up totally huge obviously.

I harbor and enjoy this same type of fantasy as Elanor. One where I would be a King and have a 1/2 dozen female attendants who would feed and pamper me. I would eat and nap all day long, and my attendants would bathe me, massage me, and enjoy fattening me up day after day. I would revel in my gluttony and growing immobility. A completely hedonistic lifestyle.

Now would I want an immobile lifestyle for real. No. But the hedonistic fantasy is nice to think about and as Elanor said it would take a lot of money to make it a reality.

I concur with what Julia said above. The combination of being indulgent and decadent with such gluttony and abandon. The physical feeling of having my belly swollen and stretched to capacity, and just being on the verge of being uncomfortable or what I like to call "pleasantly stuffed". The sugar high or "food coma" symptoms that make me feel really mellow and also sexually turned on. That's why I find stuffing to be so arousing. There is just no better feeling than letting yourself go and totally pigging out.

Me too. While nothing gets me going like watching an attractive woman gaining weight, the thought of growing fatter myself also turns me on. If I were in a mutual gaining relationship with my wife whispering in my ear that "I want to make you so fat!" and knowing she gets off on it, I would totally succumb and both of us would get absolutely huge. Just the thought of a relationship like that turns me on so much!

If no health risks means my legs, knees and feet would not hurt, and I wouldn't be low on energy, my blood pressure would not go up and I would no longer have sleep apnea, then I would love to gain another 100 lbs. and reach 400. However, I do like to travel and right now I can just fit into airline coach seats with a seat belt extender. Another 100 lbs. though and I would not be able to fly anywhere without buying two seats or always flying first class which would be mighty expensive, so I will have to be happy remaining at 300 lbs.

I can relate. I am straight as well but find myself at times fascinated with guys who are heavier then I am and have huge bellies. I enjoy looking at their huge guts straining their tight shirts and I will often fantasize on what it would be like to have a belly that big and how it would feel to carry it around. I guess because I am so turned on by fat bellies on women and myself, it would make sense that I would enjoy looking at guy's huge gut as well.

I agree with all of the above. The more you overeat, the more you want to eat in the future. It can be a wonderful feeling when you overindulge, feeling your belly packed to capacity, and the weight gain that results. Nice to hear Becky that you enjoy it as well. Would love to hear about your progress in the future.

Some time ago I decided to fulfill my true fat desires and eat whatever I wanted and also let nature take its course. I was tired of constantly dieting and then regaining the weight, so no more dieting for me. I slowly and steadily gained 130 lbs. over a 12 year period and have leveled off at around 300 lbs. I found gaining myself to be erotic as well and that I loved being fat.

Intellectually, I would love to gain another 100 lbs. The thought of eating my way up to 400 lbs. really turns me on, but I know physically my body would not react well and I would start having mobility and knee issues. So I will have to enjoy remaining a 300 lb. fat guy going forward.

I have had a fat fetish for as long as I can remember. I really like it as well and do not want it to go away and it won't if you are honest with yourself. You do not have to become immobile to fulfill the your desire to become fatter. Just enjoy all the food that you love and see where it goes. Your body will tell you when it has reached a point to where your weight should not go any higher. As much as the fantasy of being immobile may be very arousing, the actuality is not a way you want to live. So relax and enjoy the ride.