Chaitea:
Tbh it's a massive fantasy of mine, but it would also be humiliating. I think the worst part of it for me would be trying to hide how turned on I am. 😂
When I got to over four hundred, I had to come to grips that if I just stop caring that I am within reach but I have to admit that being that obese that I would need to be cut out of my room would be a crazy experience because their looks of disgust would be the best of the whole experience
4 years
I only wear jogging type pants now anyway but since March I had to start using suspenders for my slacks but I was so self conscious about them at first but now I have to concede because when you gut hangs the belt starts digging into my fat so I had to start ordering mine online.
4 years
About 40 pounds since March and elbow and knee rolls
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Ditzy:
Never really understood why people like that.
Not saying its wrong or dissing the kink I just never understood what the pleasure is.
I would love to hear why some of you like it.
I am really curious and not bashing anyone for it.
My ex hated when I gained and my Mom still gets on my case for being fat and she can be brutally mean when she fat shames me.
I have gotten used to it but her words still hurt.
Growing up, I had always identified with being the jock but I was always chubby but when I graduated and moved away that was when I learned about the life. When I started to gain, I didn't like my family saying things but when a female associate of mine told me that no one that actually knew you and cared for you would never shame then I took my ego out of it and I only register with the teasing now which is a complete 180 from where I was. So, it depends on who is doing the shaming and the tonality of it. I only like teasing from those I actually like
4 years
Vanni:
Have always loved fat women cuz my mum is and that is when I realised it's just what I wanna be, it brings this special feeling and it's literally everything I want even though i can fairly say I'm skinny at the moment but then I still love me!!!
WideJuan76:
Just wait until you go through the transition and notice the changes that people never talk about like the first time like how you feel you gut hang below your shirt so you will love the new feel of it all
John Smith:
We are not even sure the first thing that will pop up from her weight transition might be a belly. She's not a man.
Built like she actually are, she could as well wind up all portly and pear-shaped, who knows?
I have to concur. It is based on genetics
4 years
I think that it mostly comes from the realization that you can't find alot of feeders that are in your area so you eventually turn that inward. I have always had feeder tendencies because I was taught how to cook early so I loved to see people eat my cuisine and I always loved food but never to the point of getting full because I hated that sensation as a kid until I met my ex after college and she introduced me to this life and she started out as the feedee until she posed this question to me. What will happen if you don't have a feedee around then what will you do with those urges so I had to existentially think about that and realize that I have always had a secret relationship with fat so the eventual evolutionary step for me was to turn it inward. At first, I hated it because I was so used to being the enabler and I never saw myself as the type to be the one receiving the food and it is a transition but you eventually can't stop eating until you get full and you like that more than anything until you finally have that "I am fat" moment. This young lady that I am dating ask me to waddle over to her and I thought she was making fun of me until I realized that I can't walk without waddling now so that might be why feeders become feedees
4 years
Vanni:
Have always loved fat women cuz my mum is and that is when I realised it's just what I wanna be, it brings this special feeling and it's literally everything I want even though i can fairly say I'm skinny at the moment but then I still love me!!!
Just wait until you go through the transition and notice the changes that people never talk about like the first time like how you feel you gut hang below your shirt so you will love the new feel of it all
4 years
Dolkite:
I've mentioned before that one of the most insightful things I read here was that if you get turned on by the prospect of being fat, you pleasure yourself, and afterwards, you are glad you're not fat, don't do it.
Often people think if something turns them on, they are obligated to embrace and express it, but there's a reason why people have sexual FANTASIES. Getting fat is a big commitment.
There are so many gems in this whole statement but the biggest truth is that fat is a major commitment being obese. I can't put on my gut and get a nice ego boost; this gut not only took effort but it takes effort to at least try to maintain strength when gaining flabby fat. Train oneself to be fat in ones dreams first then if you want more then expand to your hearts content.
4 years
Judy2:
I mean, I'm new to accepting this kink, I'm not even accepting it 100%... I thought I was a fat admirer of other people bellies and since I'm attracted to man, I wanted to experiment sexually with a man that has a fat belly... but what if actually I'm more turned on by my own fat belly? I'm not fat at all... I'm really afraid of getting fat... but sometimes I imagine myself with a fat belly and it's turning me on and I'm sooooo ashamed... I feel I could never fulfill my kink if this is my real kink... I would be too afraid...
How do you know what is your kink exactly when society and education brainwash you to be skinny?
Grizz:
I think you answered your own question, it seems like you are into the idea of getting fat yourself. I understand why you would be hesitant to gain. Social pressure, appearance, your health, physically and mentally it can be a lot to handle, but if it's something you truly desire you should go for it.
The only way to know is to gain a bit, like 5/10lbs and see how it feels. Then take it from there. I know it seems like a small amount of weight around these parts, but 10lbs can really make a difference in your body, especially at your size.
Judy2:
It's hard to know.. because how to be turned on when you are ashamed of your body? I was almost anorexic in the past... it's really hard in my head to gain weight.. and If i was gaining 10 pounds... it would be in all my body not just my belly... i would prefer it would be only in my belly... to test it for real...
LilRascl:
Don’t rush! You have nothing but time on your side. Think about it when you’re in the mood to think about it; don’t when you’re don’t want to. I found reading the stories on here really helped me see what got me going, and what wasn’t for me. Maybe give them a try?
You will get wherever you’re going, despite the pressure we might feel from having to always define what/who we are in online spaces. Go easy on yourself and only do what feels good for you!
(Sorry, elder feedee millennial pep talk is over 🤣)
Yeah, I totally concur with what LilRascl said; you have time to explore this life and see what is practical for you and then adjust accordingly.
4 years
El Brujero:
This s*it is unsalvagable.
You got the 100,000 fake profiles.
You got the 100,000 "buy my content" profiles who expect you to pay just to chat with them.
You got everyone and everything is racist guy over there who could put an insomniac to sleep with his rhetoric.
You got the weekly "will this weird food choice make me gain" forum posts.
You got the "my wife/gf is getting so fat" forum posts from blank profiles with no proof of said wife or gf anywhere near the profile.
You got the "fat feeding mom/fat family" creepazoid chatters talking about how fat their children are (how are they not banned yet for that?)
You got the guy who went ape*hit in chat the other night who spammed for a solid hour before finally someone cut him off.
And thats not even counting the dick picks, chat trolls and seemingly endless account deletion/rejoin/delete again people.
How the hell do you fix all that? I will say after all that...still better than Feabie
Edit: WideJuan is cool, I agree with the guy who said that earlier.
Yeah, that dude from the other night was beyond crazy but folks just have to take this site for what it is and note and log in got intel when you get it, store in the contact information of those whom you genuinely connect with and play a little game of can I spot the fake ones. I enjoy coming here because I can learn newer more intellectually astute ways to gain fat as well as learn the philosophy and psychology of what it means to be fat. I have no expectations of this site any more which is why I enjoy the shenanigans of it all. But much appreciated bro; I appreciate your humor and your unique way that you see things.
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