Most controversial food opinions

Malvineous:

Most fruit is gross now because they don't let it ripen long enough. If I wanted it to be that sour, I would have bought lemons instead of blueberries.


Letters And Numbers:
Most fruit will continue to ripen on the counter. Just don’t eat it the minute you get it home from the store and don’t refrigerate it unless it’s the sweetness you’re looking for. Berries are a little different, but you have to be picky with them out of season anyways.


All true. Plus, most places purposefully sell under-ripe fruit. It just makes logistical sense.

Some fruits will stay good for a bit once they are ripe, but most don't. The store also doesn't expect the fruit to sell out immediately. So most fruit isn't ripe when it hits the shelves to extend the shelf life.
1 year

Feedee regret

Morbidly A Beast:
Content Creators are Toxic for the parasocial aspect it sends mixed signals to people who probably don’t know better, but it really isn’t the creators fault but like it isn’t said enough I feel like. But I also think sex work is real work. Big brain.

PurpleJade:
Big agree.

But also, karma. Know your industry and know the realities of it. Don’t take the job if you can’t handle the paperwork.


Content creation is a very seductive job. It plays into this narrative that if you market yourself well, then you can flourish. You're your own boss, and you can be rich just by being fat and eating food.

Unfortunately, it's not an easy job. Even the most successful content creators bust their asses to get where they've been. Most tend to quit after a few years because of how harsh it is on their bodies. And even then, the majority of these women will not be successful.

So imagine all of this an add not being a feedist on top of things.

As I mentioned before, being a fetish model is seductive to certain fat women. Society largely hates them. So if you tell them that there's a community of men that love their fatness and will give them money because they're fat, they'll be all over it.

Now there are two kinds of women that come to feedist spaces for money without being feedists: businesswomen and divas.

The businesswoman is about her money. She's not here to be your romantic partner, but for the right price she'll sell you custom content or let you stuff her. She might not advertise her services due to TOS, but she won't waste your time stringing you along.

The diva is a deeply insecure woman looking for cash and the validation they never got. These are the ones that say things like "a real feeder always pays" or "no free fat chats". Unlike the business woman who cas a hustler's mindset, the diva has objectified herself into a pretty bauble for men to fawn and fight over. However, her entitled nature drives people away if the horn dogs don't scare her off first.

"But Munchies," you might ask, "What about the scammers?"

Well, a lot of scammers are catfish. Sometimes, they're women, but they are just as likely to be men or even a network of scammers.
1 year

Feedee regret

AskDrFeeder:
Couchqueen on Curvage claims to regret it. She started gaining to please her boyfriend and make some money and now she can't stop gaining. Hot and sad at the same time!

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m pretty sure that video was rp and she just enjoys the humiliation/ruination part of gaining, could be wrong

AskDrFeeder:
Quite possible. But I think there's an element of truth to it. At one point she did lose some weight and then gained it back, which suggests she can't help but gain, which confirms her story.


It confirms nothing, tbh. I'm not saying you're wrong. But people can lose weight for a lot of other reasons too.
1 year

Gain weight without my loved one noticing it

Aliaspace10:
Hello

I have always been chubby and I have self-consciousness until now, I have tried all the diets to lose weight since I was very little, today I accept and I love my fat and flabby body. would like to gain even more weight but I'm afraid that my family and friends will comment and put me on a diet (this has already happened) How I could gain weight without them noticing?

Munchies:
Friendly reminder that you are 18 now. They can't make you do anything.

Aliaspace10:
But I still live with my parents


Still an adult. And as such, they have no legal right to your bodily autonomy.

That said, I highly recommend securing income so you can buy your own food if possible. That way, they can't harp on you for eating up all their food.
1 year

Anyone have autosexual feelings?

Nofbar:
I'm having trouble wrapping my head around this. Does it mean that I see a picture of someone who's extremely fat, I want my body to be like that?


No, autosexual means you are sexually attracted to yourself.
1 year

Feedee regret

Munchies:
Yeah, he's triggered, triggering. It's hilarious.

HRHB15:
The last couple times I have been here I have really enjoyed speaking with you. I really liked you and the insight you offer.

In our private conversations, I have enjoyed speaking to you and had a great deal of respect for you. I took you for an intelligent person beyond your years.

Not sure what’s going on tonight but I don’t appreciate it. This person came in here attacking and name calling me. But you have chosen a side and lost my respect… enjoy the laugh.


To be honest, I initially thought you were a decent person. But then you started being misogynistic, and kept doubling down. So at that point you lost all my respect.

I can vibe with a different opinion. But when you start with the whole he-man women hating, I will call a spade a spade.
1 year

Feedee regret

Munchies:
So, no. These women aren't the reason why you can't find a girl.

HRHB15:
And let’s be clear because you’ve mentioned that and so has the person I’ve blocked.

I haven’t complained in here about not being able to find a woman. They may not be lining up like they were when I was younger but I still have options. I would love to find a woman into this but I’ve done fine without it all these years. I sometimes want female company but I’m not paying for it. You don’t know my story but I assure you everything I have was hard fought for. But I’m not sharing it with just anyone if they ever even come along. I accepted many years ago that I was done having children and done wasting my time on women that didn’t deserve me. I’m good either way. Believe me.

Goodnight.


Babes, at this point, I am convinced you have the reading comprehension of a squirrel. And if you can find a partner just fine, then these women haven't ruined anything for you. So I fail to see the problem here.

If you are out here, flourishing, thriving, and in your lane, then why are you bitching about women who's wants aren't compatible with yours? Are they harassing you? Spewing hatred at you? Are they threatening to find your grandmother and do unspeakable things to her?
Curious minds wish to know.
1 year

Feedee regret

HRHB15:
If that’s what y’all want the site to be don’t be complaining when that’s all that’s here. I engage when I am here and my opinion or feelings on the topic caused this guy to go nuts today. I see shit on here all the time that I don’t like but I don’t go shitting on people’s opinions.

I’m not going to change my opinion nor am I going to be pushed around into saying something different. Stop being enablers everyone.

Nyarlep:
He’s not even denying being a bigot now. 10/10. Effectively triggered.
Bro literally looked up my profile just so he could go out of his way to misgender me 🤣


Yeah, he's triggered, triggering. It's hilarious.
1 year

Feedee regret

HRHB15:
Typical victim calling people buzzwords. 😂

Sorry you don’t see it as a problem but it is in fact a problem.

Oh how “misogynistic” you are to think whores have to be women…🤡


Babes, you were the one who specified you were talking about women. Don't be a silly billy just because someone called a spade a spade.
1 year

Feedee regret

HRHB15:
I don’t know what other word there is for a woman who is sexually attracted to money and does anything for it. But I don’t make excuses or take up for them. They destroyed dating and they’re destroying kink sites like this one.


Findom didn't destroy dating. In fact, people who are interested in money first and foremost have always existed and will always exist.

You don't hear sane people talk about how prostitution killed dating. These women might be annoying, but the didn't kill dating.

The issue, is much broader than finances.

Fantasy feeder is not a dating site. Yes, you can find love here, but it's the same as finding love in any place that's not necessarily made to find love.

Let's take FF as a case study. There's a handful of ways to interact with people: forums, DMs, and chat (public amd private). You can gab all day in the forums, but the conversations are aren't happening in live time. And anyone can chime in.

That leaves the chat room and DMs. These are limited unless you are a paying member.

You can vibe in gen chat where everyone tends to be, but it's often dead. And when it's active, you might not find anyone you want to talk to. You could send a private chat, but you're limited to 15 chats a day sans the social upgrade package.

Men are more likely to message a woman first. Unfortunately, most women online are skittish. We are regularly bombarded with messages from vile people, so most of us are cautious as to who we interact with. The main exception to that are the women looking to earn a buck.

There's a similar story with DMs. You can send an unlimited number of DMs, but you can only open 5 in a rolling 24 hour period. So, unless yoi got the social upgrade package, you are going to be very choosy as to who you message. Unfortunately, your average woman is bombarded with messages from vile people, so we are very choosy who we talk to.

The exception to this are newbies who don't know better or women eager to make a buck.

Women who are only in it for the money did not replace women who are not. If you are struggling to find such a woman, the issue is a combination of patience and your approach.

I met my partner of two years on FF. He'd been on the site two years before me. Sure, he met women who wanted money from him. But you know what he did? Declined, wished them well and lived his best life. This was during the peak of the "Tik Tok" invasion.

So, no. These women aren't the reason why you can't find a girl.
1 year