Ever wish you weren’t a fa?

Milhause:
So I recently stumbled upon my wife’s reddit account and I noticed a comment she made a week ago.

She was asking advice on how to knit a specific type of sweater because “I’m really self-conscious about my belly, particularly the lower belly (apple shaped).”

She’s gained a little weight recently and despite all my verbal and physical affection, I know no matter what I do I can’t help her love herself. She’s amazing and sexy and gorgeous and it breaks my heart that she focuses on the things she doesn’t like about herself instead of the things she does.

I’m also bummed because it gives me secondhand shame. I think her belly is really cute and feminine. She knows I’m a FA, but she doesn’t see herself the way I do. And I hate that the thing I find really sexy is the part of her she’s most embarrassed about. That’s fucked up and it makes me feel bad.

Idk, sometimes I just wish I wasn’t a FA. I hate feeling powerless to help her love herself and I wish her being down about her body didnt make me feel like I’m indirectly part of the problem.


Can't make someone love parts of themselves if they aren't open to do so. All you can really do is offer love and support.

If she hates being fat so much, then maybe you two can work on that together. Make it fun quality time like going on walks or cooking healthy meals. All the while, continue to show her you find her sexy no matter what she looks like.

It will give her a sense of agency while reaffirming you love how she looks.

On that note, I've never regretted being an FA. I love fat men, and they love me. Currently dating a fat man who loves being fat but is losing weight for health reasons. Not sure if he's going to lose all his fluff, but I know I'll find him sexy even if he does.
1 year

Beer bellies

Munchies:
Nothing wrong with enjoying beer. But go too hard and some of that belly might end up being an enlarged liver.

LuvsChub04:
i know mines fatty,for sure


Gotta be careful with that. I'm sure you've heard the danger already from your doctor, so I won't nag you about that. But if it gets too bad, it can, ironically, lead to weight loss.

my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/15831-fatty-liver-disease

Would be a shame to drink all that beer to gain weight only for it to be the reason you lose it all.
1 year

A new story

I feel like this breaks some law somewhere. And if this is you not sexualizing a minor, I'd hate to see what you classify as sexualizing a minor.

All the ick. My soul needs to be scrubbed with sandpaper and I have the sudden desire to go to church.
1 year

Deviantart links

UKLionheart:
I have posted the first chapter of my story on DeviantArt as it breaks the guidelines here.

This is the opening chapter of a long story, following the protagonist for twelve years. She is 11 when the story starts, but I want to make it clear that there is nothing sexual about the story and there will not be until she is over 16 (Age of consent in UK) and has a strong relationship with her boyfriend. Even then, there will be no graphic descriptions. This story focuses on Emily growing up in the family she always saw as loving and protective, until it wasn't.


I couldn't make it very far into the story. I don't know if you broke any laws by making this story, but I feel like you have.

High key would not let you near any children after reading the little bit that I did.
1 year

My wife's weight gain

This is kinda weird. Does your wife know you've been making these meticulous notes about her for the past few years and then spontaneously posted all of them to a fat fetish site?
1 year

Finally figured out heavy cream

Sundown:
After many times trying to gain weight with heavy cream, I finally figured out a way to drink it without digestive issues. I added it to 6 scoops of mass gainer with a cup of whole milk and a cup of heavy cream with water immediately after a workout. No digestive issues! It doesn’t kill my appetite either, oddly. I can still have meals as usual if I drink my shake in the morning.

I gained 15 lbs in the last month and a half. I gained a little fat but not as much as one would think. Started off and still am pretty lean, so my goal isn’t to gain weight by just getting fat. I would like a little more fat though so I’m gonna keep doing this for a bit.


That makes sense. Body builders sometimes use heavy cream to get swole.
1 year

Building up a tolerance to fast food stomachaches

J8o8h8n:
I was wondering if anyone else has the problem of getting a bit of a stomachache when stuffing themselves silly with fast food? Is this something that goes away the more frequently you do it? Or is it something that is constant?

If it's something that can eventually go away when getting used to it, I might have to keep it up for a bit, especially if it means eventually I can load up on delicious junk food and my stomach is used to handling it.


Darling, your stomach hurts because you are overdoing it with the greasy, salty, and/or sugary food.

Stop that.

A junk food binge might leave you feeling blah, but you shouldn't have any stomach pains.

That said, the trick to feeling less gross on a junk food binge in to eat a bit less junk food and throw in some veggies. Bonus points if it's leafy. The water and fiber in the veggies with help your digestion and keep your pipes regular.
1 year

Everyone's losing weight

Bellyhangjim:
Its not all bad, - seeing that deflated melted body's with rolls of excess skin swaying from side to side like bags of mashed banana - is beautiful too


Wow. Those sure are words.
1 year

Uh... wow!

SNOWBELLY:
My theory is pretty simple, your fat cells have around 10 percent water, a huge influx of fat "pushes the water out" to make room for the fat, then after the huge amount of fat is no longer available the water creeps back in. if you have 50 lbs of fat (not unheard of at all) that would be 5 lbs of water. of course results would very from person to person. that on top of what Munchies said could easily account for it. Many dieters describe the opposite effect, they diet and diet without losing a pound, then the extra water the fat cells stored gets whooshed out. Its actually called the "whoosh" efect.


I promise you that the whoosh effect is not a thing.

medicalnewstoday.com/articles/the-woosh-effect#what-is-it
1 year

Uh... wow!

SNOWBELLY:
the delayed gain is very real and i think i know why it happens, well its a theory anyway


I gave a detailed explanation in another thread. Here it is if you care to read.

fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts
1 year