My kinkiest fantasy is being nearly immobile, lying on the bed, being hand fed or tube fed (NOT gastro tube) by a very fat lover while being oiled and massaged and masturbated by a team of feeders. The fat feeder is a man, but the others are of all genders. And I don't mean just two.

If you don't feel safe, we have a genuine problem. I think when that happens, you should keep a copy of the conversation and report it to a moderator.

That doesn't mean that those of us interested in feeding need to be a majority, even. There's a real commitment among all the moderators and especially the site owner to keep this place open and comfortable and safe for us, and that's all that's required.

For all of you who are newer here, there was a time when FF was mainly feeding types. And it wasn't so long ago.

I think most of us like the site with more folks, and you are all adding lots to the site and livening it up in fabulous ways. But it is a bit of a loss for some of us--though I don't mean by that that I would go back! It's just that a lot of people react badly to feeding, and the great thing about being here is that it's a feeding-safe-zone. So to the extent that that is diminished, even a tiny bit, it's a drag.

But the trade-offs seem clearly worth it to me, at least so far.

Sometimes people use the pic section to post pics of people they admire, or think are beautiful, or whatever. It violates our copyright rules, and it isn't a great idea, but you can imagine why people might do it, if you don't assume they're trying to be someone they're not.

If, however, they're posting lots of pics of the same model--then, uh-oh. Bad news.

I adore guys in the 300-400 lb range, but if they can be healthy and happy and reasonably active (no running required) beyond that, then I've suddenly found myself in heaven at a party for all the good little hedonists.