I want three ears of freshly picked roasted corn. And later this week I may even procure some.

But now would be so much better.

I think Buffetbelly is right. When I lived in NYC and worked near Lincoln Center, I *NEVER* saw fat people. But in other parts of the city, and even more outside the city, there are plenty. Any place where style counts, don't look for us.

But there's another issue, which I think gaining men always forget. Women don't generally--and we're talking sweeping generalisations here, of course--don't talk about physical attraction in front of men. We know what you look at, but we don't tell you. Plus, we don't think to google 'fat men' to look at pics. We're less visual, according to a number of studies, at least.

I *adore* fat men, and always have. But no one knew that until a few years ago, when I felt obliged to 'come out'. I'm absolutely sure there are far more FFAs than anyone knows. So be of good cheer. And while I do remember how bad it feels to be turned down, even many years later , you really can learn to be brave--nothing terrible happens if you're turned down, I promise.

My kinkiest fantasy is being nearly immobile, lying on the bed, being hand fed or tube fed (NOT gastro tube) by a very fat lover while being oiled and massaged and masturbated by a team of feeders. The fat feeder is a man, but the others are of all genders. And I don't mean just two.

If you don't feel safe, we have a genuine problem. I think when that happens, you should keep a copy of the conversation and report it to a moderator.

That doesn't mean that those of us interested in feeding need to be a majority, even. There's a real commitment among all the moderators and especially the site owner to keep this place open and comfortable and safe for us, and that's all that's required.

For all of you who are newer here, there was a time when FF was mainly feeding types. And it wasn't so long ago.

I think most of us like the site with more folks, and you are all adding lots to the site and livening it up in fabulous ways. But it is a bit of a loss for some of us--though I don't mean by that that I would go back! It's just that a lot of people react badly to feeding, and the great thing about being here is that it's a feeding-safe-zone. So to the extent that that is diminished, even a tiny bit, it's a drag.

But the trade-offs seem clearly worth it to me, at least so far.

Sometimes people use the pic section to post pics of people they admire, or think are beautiful, or whatever. It violates our copyright rules, and it isn't a great idea, but you can imagine why people might do it, if you don't assume they're trying to be someone they're not.

If, however, they're posting lots of pics of the same model--then, uh-oh. Bad news.