What's completely normal to you now that your slimmer self would have found completely unbelievable and potentially 'disgusting'.
ie. increasing food order, signs of your laziness, fast food packaging piling up in your car, etc.
I have many. Our family orders a pizza for myself and the kids while my wife now orders an entire pizza all to herself - which she thinks is completely normal now.
She also now uses the elevator to go up/down one floor - she used to make fun of women who did that "really, and they probably wonder why they're a fat ass."
5 years
It's purely genetic. Everyone gains differently, which is the interesting part of the process.
Some get multiple rolls while others maintain a big beer belly that only grows larger and hangs lower. Some get massively wide hips while others have it stick mainly to their gut and butt. It's all genetics.
5 years
TheWhipHand:I used to order an extra dish or two when we would go out, and the first moment he seemed to think, "Maybe I will peck at it", I cheered inside. That turned into devouring the whole thing and we recently took a short road trip and he ate literally the entire trip.
Can entirely relate to both of these! I'd order my wife an unexpected side or additional appetizer. And when she finally caved into "pecking" at it, I was thrilled inside because I knew the next time we went to that restaurant it would become part of her normal order.
The fun for me is transforming their notion of "normal." It's a slow and steady process.
We went on a short road trip with friends last weekend and she wanted to constantly stop at gas stations. I've trained her for years with running to gas stations for a snack. And it was really starting to annoy my friends. She'd ask, "you guys getting a little hungry?" And they'd all simultaneously and sternly say "No." 😠 (probably thinking, it's only been 30min since our last stop, really?)
Was so proud of her.
5 years
Yes, my wife is visually unrecognizable. But there are even more surreal changes IMO.
Holding her hand is like holding the hand of a different person. It's so chubby now.
The feel of her skin. Her thighs and butt have that glossy smooth, stretched out skin feel. No more of her goose-pimple sun kissed skin when she was ultra-skinny.
It's also so annoying when we get separated at amusement parks or a concert because I have a hard time instantly recognizing her!
5 years
I get THC cartridges shipped from California for my vape pen. My feedee started vaping at night now for those muuuuunchies.
5 years
r/PigShaming on reddit is your playground.
I'll still get random pics from girls "Read one of your posts from 2 years ago, Please shame my disgusting fat ass." LOL
5 years
Even just power walking has my wife's feet painfully swollen. She's now grappling with the reality she will be well over 300lbs if she continues on this path. But she aggressively fights for the lifestyle and her fatty diet even after her doctor brought up a diet change. It's the most pleasurable thing she looks forward to. Losing mainstream sex appeal, making blatant health sacrifices..... nothing is going to rip this from her hand at this point. It's the gold medal at the finish line of every day. It's the treat that satisfies like no other. Food and laying around is everything to her.
5 years
I only tease when my wife is being blatantly greedy/begging where I'm in a position of serving her. Asking me to do all of the housework because she's too drained/lazy. Midnight begging for Taco Bell, etc. It's only then I can say "you're damn lucky I'm a feeder you little piggy." It's only then she can't deny it and cracks a big smile.
5 years
You can always spin a health story: depo shot is notorious for weight gain, Prednisone is prescribed for everything under the sun and is one of the worse prescriptions for increasing appetite and weight gain, etc.
5 years
