Moderation.

Enas:
I was planning to open a discussion about moderation myself but i wasnt super motivated. Now that i see one, i should intervene before it goes horribly wrong.

If we are going to have a discussion about moderation, which i hope this is one, we first need to actually understand clearly what moderation is in the first place and agree on a single definition. We can, and we should debate what definition we should proceed with, that is something that needs to happen. Thats because we cannot have any discussion, with which we will reach a helpfull logical conclusion, if Everyone's definitions contradict each other. I think a good way to do this would be to define what are the needs of a community that moderation is an attempt to satisfy, from which we can easily figure out what should the goals of moderation be, and then we can finally figure out how FantasyFeeder should be moderated, so that these goals will be achieved. I think this is a good outline of what we should be really doing, so i would like us to (hopefully) proceeded with that,unless someone can come up with a better idea.

So, what is everyone's thesis on the first question "What are the needs of this community that moderation ought to cover"? (Lets put the Hegelian dialectic to work, and see what are the good points that people bring up, and use those to synthesize a more developed thesis!)

Munchies:
Enas ... there is a literal moderator in this thread. She's the site owner's right-hand woman. Right now, all she is asking for are examples for better praxis. She doesn't need you to tell her how to perform debate.

This is akin to reading a bunch of books about surgical practice and telling a surgeon how to do their job.

All that said, if I am blunt, this is an example of what Morbidly is talking about.

Enas:
I was refering to everybody. I think pluralism is needed here more than anything.

There is also a long debate to be held on what moderation should be in the first place. Im here to talk about that, not to instruct. That is also why i didnt express my thesis on it, i dont have one. The best i can do is see problems in other people's thesis. Which is gonna be helpfull later on, hopefully.

Munchies:
Aaaaand this is what Morbidly was talking about, C00kie. Stuff like this will happen. Some people will throw in their two cents, and most will try to move on to the original topic. But you have some people who just refuse to read the room.

Eventually, the mods will lock the thread. If they deem it worth saving, they will delete all the comments that aren't about the original topic—even the ones that criticize the people who derailed the topic—and then reopen the thread with instructions to stay on topic.

This can leave the people pushing back against the person/people who pushed back against the derailer - even the gentle, respectful ones - with a bad taste in their mouths.


What counts as derailment though? Sometimes it is necesary to talk about a relevant but different, than the original, topic in order to understand the original one. In a natural conversation that happens often and its not a bad thing. Why is this always treated as a derailment here?
1 year

Moderation.

Enas:
I was planning to open a discussion about moderation myself but i wasnt super motivated. Now that i see one, i should intervene before it goes horribly wrong.

If we are going to have a discussion about moderation, which i hope this is one, we first need to actually understand clearly what moderation is in the first place and agree on a single definition. We can, and we should debate what definition we should proceed with, that is something that needs to happen. Thats because we cannot have any discussion, with which we will reach a helpfull logical conclusion, if Everyone's definitions contradict each other. I think a good way to do this would be to define what are the needs of a community that moderation is an attempt to satisfy, from which we can easily figure out what should the goals of moderation be, and then we can finally figure out how FantasyFeeder should be moderated, so that these goals will be achieved. I think this is a good outline of what we should be really doing, so i would like us to (hopefully) proceeded with that,unless someone can come up with a better idea.

So, what is everyone's thesis on the first question "What are the needs of this community that moderation ought to cover"? (Lets put the Hegelian dialectic to work, and see what are the good points that people bring up, and use those to synthesize a more developed thesis!)

Munchies:
Enas ... there is a literal moderator in this thread. She's the site owner's right-hand woman. Right now, all she is asking for are examples for better praxis. She doesn't need you to tell her how to perform debate.

This is akin to reading a bunch of books about surgical practice and telling a surgeon how to do their job.

All that said, if I am blunt, this is an example of what Morbidly is talking about.


I was refering to everybody. I think pluralism is needed here more than anything.

There is also a long debate to be held on what moderation should be in the first place. Im here to talk about that, not to instruct. That is also why i didnt express my thesis on it, i dont have one. The best i can do is see problems in other people's thesis. Which is gonna be helpfull later on, hopefully.
1 year

Moderation.

I was planning to open a discussion about moderation myself but i wasnt super motivated. Now that i see one, i should intervene before it goes horribly wrong.

If we are going to have a discussion about moderation, which i hope this is one, we first need to actually understand clearly what moderation is in the first place and agree on a single definition. We can, and we should debate what definition we should proceed with, that is something that needs to happen. Thats because we cannot have any discussion, with which we will reach a helpfull logical conclusion, if Everyone's definitions contradict each other. I think a good way to do this would be to define what are the needs of a community that moderation is an attempt to satisfy, from which we can easily figure out what should the goals of moderation be, and then we can finally figure out how FantasyFeeder should be moderated, so that these goals will be achieved. I think this is a good outline of what we should be really doing, so i would like us to (hopefully) proceeded with that,unless someone can come up with a better idea.

So, what is everyone's thesis on the first question "What are the needs of this community that moderation ought to cover"? (Lets put the Hegelian dialectic to work, and see what are the good points that people bring up, and use those to synthesize a more developed thesis!)
1 year

Recreating mochi's epic stuffings

Munchies:
Oh well. She seems to be happy, and that's all that matters.


I dont want to sidetrack the conversation but at some point i really got to talk to you about why this kind of thinking can be extremely toxic.
1 year

Dose your crotch get fat as you gain?

I too wanna have a huge fupa! >~
1 year

From virtual to reality: have you met online friends in person?

I have never met any body from here, in person :c

Heck, i havent even managed to find an online feeder!
1 year

Hello wanna ask me anything?

FatSubFeedee:
I've been a long time lurker on here but decided to create a new account so I could join the community, and I thought what would be better as a way to introduce myself than answering any questions people may have?
A little about myself, I'm 21 and weigh 340lbs and I'm 6 foot and I really like Transformers lol
If you've got any questions comment them and I'll try to answer them, have a good day and thanks for reading smiley

Munchies:
What is the answer to everything?

I dont know! O.o
1 year

Question for vagina owners

I know its not the question at all but i think it might be of some use to comment on this:

MickRidem:
"I hit my highest weight and wanted to bring it down a little. I started keto this summer.


The diet is, perhaps significantly, more importand than the exercise.

I hope your friend will achieve her goal!
1 year

Explaining why im putting weight on to my loved ones.

Please do not ask that question when someone brings up a marginalized person that you are not familiar with. It's extremely rude and unflattering. It's okay to ask who they are, but never what.


The question:
Ditzy:
What is a Lil Nas X ?
A person, place or thing?

was clear and simple. I can demonstrate, if you'd like, that questions (and statements also) are obsectively not rude. And that should be especially obvious with simple and clear questions such as this one.

Munchies:
I mentioned very clearly in my post that Lil Nas X is a person, Ditzy. He's a black man who happens to be gay if you want to be more specific.

Put 1 and 1 together, its easy to see that the problem, or mistake if youd like, wasnt the question Ditzy asked but that she read past that, to which the question was simply a natural consequence of. She should be more carefull with reading, not with asking questions that can be interpeted as rude.
1 year