Butterpup:
Probably the highest calorie drink you're gonna get is by blending maltodextrin, cheap peanut butter, and milk. Use 3x as much peanut butter as maltodextrin and only add enough milk for it to be palatably thinned out. This will produce a slop that has just enough sugar and carbs to shunt calories to fat and fill the cells while forcing your body to pack on new cells with all the fat you've consumed. The protein from the peanut putter is a plus

Screemtee:
scheduled a meetup with a feeder this weekend, way too excited about it lol. hoping it goes well🤞🏻

Metalbear:
My partner and I have been together for a little over 6,5 years. My relationship with food had always been difficult because of my abusive father. I'm trans (FTM) and I've been on T for three years. This has made my belly nice and soft and my girlfriend lately admitted she's attracted to bigger guys, but never dared saying it because of my issues with food and my body.

I'm attracted to bigger people as well and my own body is now in a way attractive to me. I've gained weight and muscle and I want to be bigger, but I want full support from my girlfriend. Maybe even in a feederism type of way. I don't want to force anything upon my girlfriend of course, but I'm having difficulties to open up about the subject and to speak up about my desires.

Anyone that went through something similar and has any tips for me to get the question out and how to word it? Being bigger just feels like it would make me feel more masculine and just so much better.

I'm not sure how to word myself here, but alas.

Munchies:
Honestly? I'd tell her what you posted here.

If she enjoys bigger men, and it will help you with your healing journey, she'll probably be down to clown. Just be honest.

Canuck:
munchies' advice is right on. you two obviously have a solid, strong relationship, being together that long. just keep the conversation going on what you are feeling, and what you are both finding attractive, and see where it goes.

my partner was into fat guys, we met thru wooplus. after we got to know each other well enough, i shared my interest in feedism with her. i made sure she knew it wasn't that important, there was no pressure for her. it took a bit, but she started to see the aspects of it that she thought were interesting, and we went from there. i don't think she'd describe herself as a feeder or feedist, but we've worked it into our lives and play over the 4 years we've been together.

best of luck!

Morbidly A Beast:
This thread is really hard to follow because enas insists on double posting on one post with multiple quotes

Munchies:
Once again proving you still don't believe in consent. Explains your shitty take on rape earlier.

There have been some cis men in this thread with positive additions to this thread. None of those post have been yours. If anything, you are an excellent example as to why women and trans people can't have nice things.

Enas:
I need to understand how you made that judgement in order to consider it seriously, because right now this im suspicious you're arguing with this in bad faith.

So far, i've pointed/criticised 2 things about OP's articulation, and i also have the advice that one needs to be interogative in order to stay safe. I think those are positive contributions! And i hope to build upon them some more! O.o

SumoSized:
My brother in christ do you know what consent means? I've been trying to be lurk in this thread because I figured I had more to learn from this thread than I had to contribute but my god do I need to respond to this. OP was not "arguing" anything. They were posing a discussion amongst women, trans women, nonbinary folks, and any other vulnerable group in the feederism community because as they said in their original post demographically they are more likely to be feedees and as such they need to stay safe from men who commit acts that are sexual assault and in certain cases can be comparable to rape.
Consent to anything feederism related is absolutely mandatory. Force feedings are a form of roleplay and should be seen as such. You are not literally forcing your partner to eat against their will, there should be a safe word involved and if the feedee or hell even the feeder feels uncomfortable they have the right to immediately stop and revoke consent. And secret feedings should be entirely off the table as there is zero consent involved.
There is no "both sides-ing" either of those things. Consent is required and that is what OP wanted to discuss with others in their particular position. Now considering we're both men and are not in any of the groups OP was addressing in their original post let's withdraw from the conversation and allow this forum thread to continue as it was intended to be.

Stuffytummywriter:
I love that you spoke up and tried but after 6 (SIX!!!!!!!!) entire pages of essentially one shitty dude mansplaining why his little opinion is worth taking away allllll the space from women (and nb and trans dudes), women, by the by, HE HASN'T EVEN HEARD YET because no one had a chance to contribute on-topic because of him... this thread is dead in the water. another attempt at women trying to look out for one another destroyed by men

Munchies:
Once again proving you still don't believe in consent. Explains your shitty take on rape earlier.

There have been some cis men in this thread with positive additions to this thread. None of those post have been yours. If anything, you are an excellent example as to why women and trans people can't have nice things.

Enas:
I need to understand how you made that judgement in order to consider it seriously, because right now this im suspicious you're arguing with this in bad faith.

So far, i've pointed/criticised 2 things about OP's articulation, and i also have the advice that one needs to be interogative in order to stay safe. I think those are positive contributions! And i hope to build upon them some more! O.o

SumoSized:
My brother in christ do you know what consent means? I've been trying to be lurk in this thread because I figured I had more to learn from this thread than I had to contribute but my god do I need to respond to this. OP was not "arguing" anything. They were posing a discussion amongst women, trans women, nonbinary folks, and any other vulnerable group in the feederism community because as they said in their original post demographically they are more likely to be feedees and as such they need to stay safe from men who commit acts that are sexual assault and in certain cases can be comparable to rape.
Consent to anything feederism related is absolutely mandatory. Force feedings are a form of roleplay and should be seen as such. You are not literally forcing your partner to eat against their will, there should be a safe word involved and if the feedee or hell even the feeder feels uncomfortable they have the right to immediately stop and revoke consent. And secret feedings should be entirely off the table as there is zero consent involved.
There is no "both sides-ing" either of those things. Consent is required and that is what OP wanted to discuss with others in their particular position. Now considering we're both men and are not in any of the groups OP was addressing in their original post let's withdraw from the conversation and allow this forum thread to continue as it was intended to be.

Stuffytummywriter:
enas you really lack self awareness

Enas:
Can you explain more, if you'd like? For example, what makes you think that? How do you think that affects what i say (or how i act)?

Stuffytummywriter:
oh hello, a thread where OP specifically asked cis men to take a step back and listen full of men deciding they needed to dissect and argue every single one of OPs word choices. who'd have thought

Bxbeans:
🤣 Who'da thunk 🤦‍♀️ffs

Stuffytummywriter:
thats how

Enas:
I know that OP asked cis men to step back, and i did the oposite, i basically steped forward. I did it because i think i have valuable information to contribute to the conversation, and i generally choose to behave in ethical ways. I understand that doing that is better for the conversation than to respect what OP asked.

JN_TumLover56:
Hello there FF fam! Just wanted to wish a Happy Canada Day to all of my fellow Canadians on this side of the community. I feel like this Canada Day feels a bit more different now from how the current events have been unfolding.

Sure our country may not be perfect but it’s still our home no matter what. So let’s appreciate this lovely country of ours once more, even the foods that make us feel Canadian! “O Canada” to all my fellow Canadians, because we stand on guard for thee. Now more than ever.

Also I recently cooked up a special video (the link below) on my channel about this very topic. So if you’re from or are a fan of Canada, I dedicate this to all of you!

youtu.be/vyvCEwAuTSM

*THIS IS NOT A CONTENT MOVE*

Morbidly A Beast:
I could not imagine being a woman on the internet, where every interaction could be an attempt for some creep to get with her. it’s 100% men’s fault. I’m not even like some anti-male kind of person, men online are kinda savage animals, whether it’s kink spaces, gaming or just normie social media.

Theres something extremely beastial when it’s pure sexual gratification, it’s kinda like how people are more freely willing to say abhorrent things to people just because they are anon.

I get it I’m a man who commented on this post but the topic is interesting, and I’ve had interactions I didn’t want to engage in.

Munchies:
Nope.

sprays you with water again

Still not listening. Still missing the point. Will it take a man for you to start paying attention?

This thread exists as a way to have a dialog about how women and trans people can feel safer in kink space.

Some cis men (including you) waltz in with "solutions" that do not address concerns and miss the point.
...

Enas:
I didnt even attempt to provide a solution so far, i've only really pointed two things out.

You could say that i tried to define the problem clearly. That, ultimately, its about recognizing patterns of abusive behavior early (i think i said something like that). Do you think there is a problem there?