HappyBigBelly:

Recently, she’s cut it a bit shorter to where it’s poofier in the back bit crunchy due to all the goop she puts in it to accentuate her curls. She’s mentioned keeping it short forever, which is surprisingly fine with me.

Wondering how I can encourage her to keep going wild with shorter and shorter hair without pushing too hard? I am so seriously excited at the thought of her with a short, tight buzzed ‘do or maybe just shaving it bald and see what happens :-)

LoraDayton:
You do understand she is a whole person and not your personal doll to dress? Like seriously, this isn't that hard. "[wife's name], I just wanted to share how much your current hairstyle really suits you! What are your thoughts about it? Have you thought about any other styles in the future? Would you be open to suggestions or ideas I have?"

Instead of manipulating your partners, fucking talk to them and ask them things. It's not that hard.

HappyBigBelly:
You always play the same note :-) At least the trumpet still works, I guess.

HappyBigBelly:
Hi everyone :-) We all post here a lot about our partners’ body type, but today the subject is hair. And what looks good on certain body types.

For the majority of my wife’s adult life, she’s had fairly long hair, with mainly a thin, straight texture to it once it grows to a certain length. She had cut it short many years ago, before we knew each other, and it brought out a much curlier texture.

I’ve always been mainly a “long hair guy” when it comes to my favorite style on her. But her decision to cut it short again recently hasn’t turned out as bad as I thought it would. Think Lily from the AT&T commercials, hairstyle-wise. It was long enough to be “present” but much easier to deal with for her. (At 330 pounds as she is, it got harder for her over time to do certain maneuvers, such as putting it up).

Recently, she’s cut it a bit shorter to where it’s poofier in the back bit crunchy due to all the goop she puts in it to accentuate her curls. She’s mentioned keeping it short forever, which is surprisingly fine with me. She’s mentioned styles that I didn’t used to think looked good on larger women, but I could even imagine her looking great with a buzzcut or just shaving her entire head and starting over. I guess it’s because I end up loving everything she tries, even if I don’t at first.

Wondering how I can encourage her to keep going wild with shorter and shorter hair without pushing too hard? I am so seriously excited at the thought of her with a short, tight buzzed ‘do or maybe just shaving it bald and see what happens :-)

Wantsassbbwtosquashhim:
No takers? Not one bbw thinks they have what it takes to make me tap?

Littlemon:
Having dessert after every meal and drinking soda instead of water
GOMAD (Gallon of milk a day) is also great
Boost VHC helps, too

Stacyt:
My husband needs to wear a dress shirt a couple days a week for work. The ones that fit well in the neck and arms tend to be tight in the waist, and if we go for one comfortable in the waist he is swimming in the neck and arms. Does anyone have a suggestion for a shirt brand cut a little larger in the middle, and also long enough to provide some extra room?

Gaininginblono:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 years. She has always been a big girl and she knows that I love her body. I think recently she said she had lost 30 pounds since we have been dating. I played my usual card of pretending I didn't caught what she said because I know she is shy about her weight. I'm curious if the stories about marriage weight gain are true and especially if anyone has experienced this with a already large partner ( or themselves) . we are not going to have children and I feel that is the actual reason for most "marriage weight". To be clear I am going marry this girl someday anyway. Just curious if I have some extra weight on her ( or me) to look forward to.

Gamergainer:
I'm gaining a lot and a lot of my fat is going to my moobs.

Between my long hair and my chest, I often get "M'am"ed (I live in the south lol).

I also notice that I jiggle a lot when running or jogging.

Anyone into busier guys or guys who also tend to store a lot in their breasts?

Angy523:
I would like my boyfriend fatter, but he is losing weight… he wants to get abs now… He likes sweets

TheWhipHand:
My little husband had been a chubby little boy, but had been put on a strict diet…. I knew he had a little fattie inside.

Fatrnfatr:
The basic difference between gaining and losing fat is whether the metabolism is burning fat or carbohydrates for fuel. That is determined by macros, but also by fat cells. A chubby boy will have the fat cells and inability to tolerate carbs to get chubby again, even if they diet. And if they plump up enough the fat cells will double and double again, enabling prodigious weight gain.

But someone who was lean as a child and walks or bicycles miles a day can cut back on sweets and lose fat fairly easily. The EU lifestyle is more amenable to this than the US where we drive everywhere and the younger generation is 30+ pounds heavier than their parents at the same age. As they age they will grow massive.

Casual Gainer:
I've heard various things over the years, such as when you suddenly eats allot less the body starts to conserve more energy (as fat).

But still, I would start kcal counting meals if you're concerned.

I typically only eat two meals a day but they're large enough that it's typically enough to maintain my weight when combined with a fairly physical job.

I only lost some weight starting a couple of weeks ago after I became ill and was eating allot less.