Plumpussy:
I’m not immobile but I weigh close to 600 lbs which probably puts me in extremely obese category.
Seeing my partner work so hard to support the both of us while I stay home makes me feel bad about it.
Another thing is, many of those playful scenarios where I’m too big to do stuff became reality, and even though it is a lot of fun, there is so much hassle.

Chunkyshark:
Saaaame lmao like “oh you’re so soft and flabby even though you’re not huge yet what’s your secret” Haha cyclical anorexia b/p subtype, thanks!

I think I’m finally “recovered” and ready to be fat as fuck though and just blow my skin out so I never get delusions of the possibility of thinness ever again

Munchies:
I've got mild body dysphoria. I find associating a body shape with your happiness or self-worth is a bad idea. Your weight can go up or down. It's good that you're able to eat food and gain weight without feeling bad for doing it. But when your gains don't go the way you want them to go, it's easy to end up in a dark place.

Anyway, I'm rooting for you to wake up and love the person staring back at you in the mirror - no matter how you look at any point.

Chunkyshark:
oh honey I love being fat, I just struggle living in a world that’s so heinous towards fat people

Angiefoodcake:
Whenever I use the internet at home. I keep getting redirected to Google. But it's doing fine on my mobile wifi. Has anyone had this issue?

Pizzaqueen94:
I've noticed that I'm extremely gassy, burping, and just having more indigestion than I used to. Like I'm burping and gassy all day it seems like. Well, maybe that's exaggerating it a bit, but off and on all day. I do eat large portions, but just wondering if it's more common for large people to have these symptoms. Even when I was like 50 pounds less I didn't notice it as much.

MottiF:
Do you know any? Except for the known “Shallow Hal” and “Feed” which were terrible from my perspective…

Munchies:
I think you have a misunderstanding about how bigotry works. A lot of times, people will say bigoted things without realizing what they are saying is bad. Sometimes, they'll say something they think is a compliment or a joke but is actually deeply harmful.

Sometimes, if you are lucky, you can explain why what they said was harmful, and they will apologize and learn from it. But most of the time, they'll minimize or dismiss what you're saying. And if you push the issue, it's common for them to go mask off and say something really bigoted.

Now, I have seen well-meaning people accuse someone of bigotry when they weren't being bigoted. However, that is rare. In the two years I've been on this site, I can count the number of "false positives" on one hand. And, once again, not understanding why something is bigoted isn't a "false positive."


Malvineous:
I see where you're coming from, but one thing I've noticed is that most people seem to be completely incapable of handling criticism on any level, even if it's constructive. Not just about bigotry, but pretty much anything. It's totally possible that someone starts off well-intentioned, is told that they said something offensive, and then their kneejerk reaction is to defend their honor tooth and nail against a false accusation in their eyes. I guess I see people's defensiveness as being more of a personality problem than an opinion problem if that makes sense, and I do feel more inclined to grant some leeway to someone who just put their foot in their mouth without thinking though what they said. Of course it really depends on a case by case basis and how inflammatory they become. There's also ways to bring it to their attention that are more likely to make them listen to you, like saying "Just so you're aware, there are a lot of people who are hurt when people say X because of Y reason", instead of trying to dunk on them or be sarcastic or condescending. If they still want to argue after being that nice about it, then you really do know where they stand.

Primalinstinct98:
Does anyone have any experience or tips with coke and mentos? I really want to try doing it but I'm nervous and don't know what I'm doing 😅

BallinBot:
From what I've heard, the reaction only really happens outside of a body, because the foam up happens from the poreous shell of the mentos, when your saliva coats the mento, the reaction doesn't happen. Of course, if you think you can swallow or force it down, you could do the reaction all in the bottle and let it foam out of it?

Plump Belly To Curvy:
A related point, though I wouldn't imagine it would be reason to lock a post, is remember the name and purpose of this site. Fantasy Feeder.

Please don't buzzkill on people's fantasies unless they would be harmful, dangerous, or illegal (in which case the post should probably be removed). We have a lot of feeder info and fantasies, but I've seen some fun ones get shut down by practicalities which may or may not be valid. Sometimes people may just want to imagine. If they want realities, they can ask for that.