Angy523:
I would like my boyfriend fatter, but he is losing weight… he wants to get abs now… He likes sweets

TheWhipHand:
My little husband had been a chubby little boy, but had been put on a strict diet…. I knew he had a little fattie inside.

Fatrnfatr:
The basic difference between gaining and losing fat is whether the metabolism is burning fat or carbohydrates for fuel. That is determined by macros, but also by fat cells. A chubby boy will have the fat cells and inability to tolerate carbs to get chubby again, even if they diet. And if they plump up enough the fat cells will double and double again, enabling prodigious weight gain.

But someone who was lean as a child and walks or bicycles miles a day can cut back on sweets and lose fat fairly easily. The EU lifestyle is more amenable to this than the US where we drive everywhere and the younger generation is 30+ pounds heavier than their parents at the same age. As they age they will grow massive.

Casual Gainer:
I've heard various things over the years, such as when you suddenly eats allot less the body starts to conserve more energy (as fat).

But still, I would start kcal counting meals if you're concerned.

I typically only eat two meals a day but they're large enough that it's typically enough to maintain my weight when combined with a fairly physical job.

I only lost some weight starting a couple of weeks ago after I became ill and was eating allot less.

Daxia:
I gained 55lbs in 2 months (in July and August) So I went from 235lbs to 290lbs I stoped eating a lot and drinking sodas since that but I still feel my belly getting fatter
It's the first time that this happens to me

Why do I keep seeing my belly getting fatter even if it's 1–2 months after?

Munchies:
What else are you eating and drinking? What's your fitness level like? Just because you cut out soda and are eating less doesn't mean you are doing what you need to do to maintain your weight.

UPDATE:

fantasyfeeder.com/gainers/diary

Well now I know you're playing stupid.

Daxia:
Well this last week I haven't been eating a lot or drinking what I want because I don't have enough money
And my fitness level is like normal, I just exercise while doing my work

And I don't want to maintain my weight, I want to get fatter
I just don't understand that when I eat and drink a lot I don't see a lot of difference and now that I don't eat that much, I start to see some changes


Uhm? I don't understand? What do you mean I'm playing stupid ?

Munchies:
You cut out soda, but you are still consuming a lot of calories - on purpose no less. So of course you're going to gain weight.

Daxia:
Like I said, this last week I'm not eating a lot
My calories intake is really low compared to 2 weeks ago
I just don't understand why I'm starting to see changes on my belly 2 weeks after

Daxia:
I gained 55lbs in 2 months (in July and August) So I went from 235lbs to 290lbs I stoped eating a lot and drinking sodas since that but I still feel my belly getting fatter
It's the first time that this happens to me

Why do I keep seeing my belly getting fatter even if it's 1–2 months after?

Munchies:
What else are you eating and drinking? What's your fitness level like? Just because you cut out soda and are eating less doesn't mean you are doing what you need to do to maintain your weight.

UPDATE:

fantasyfeeder.com/gainers/diary

Well now I know you're playing stupid.

Daxia:
Well this last week I haven't been eating a lot or drinking what I want because I don't have enough money
And my fitness level is like normal, I just exercise while doing my work

And I don't want to maintain my weight, I want to get fatter
I just don't understand that when I eat and drink a lot I don't see a lot of difference and now that I don't eat that much, I start to see some changes


Uhm? I don't understand? What do you mean I'm playing stupid ?

Daxia:
I gained 55lbs in 2 months (in July and August) So I went from 235lbs to 290lbs I stoped eating a lot and drinking sodas since that but I still feel my belly getting fatter
It's the first time that this happens to me

Why do I keep seeing my belly getting fatter even if it's 1–2 months after?

Angy523:
I know there are already some topics with the same subject, but maybe I'll find some similar situations with mine.

Soo, long story short, I would like my boyfriend fatter, but he is losing weight. Ofc this doesn't change how I feel about him and I won't force anything, but I don't understand why. When I met him, he was 10kgs heavier than he is now. He actually was joking about his belly and he always told me even I don't like his belly, I will get used to it. For some reason, he thought all my exs had 6 packs and he still thinks I would prefer a boyfriend with abs, but I assured him all my exs had bellies and I don't care about having abs. He started losing weight on purpose and he wants to get abs now. I tried to tease him telling him he'll have a belly in the next years and he always told me he doesn't mind that.

It should be easier for him to gain weight since his eating habits are pretty much helpful. He likes sweets and sometimes he drinks just soda (or at least he used to, now he is drinking less soda...he actually didn't drink it for some weeks, now he started to do it again). The only problem is that when he is around me sometimes he skips meals because I do so (lately I convinced him to eat even when I don't, but I still think he is eating less than he needs). I know in the past, when he was 15kgs heavier than he is now, he used to eat even 2 pizzas, but now he said half of one pizza is enough for him. Also, during these months he has some important exams which keep him busy and he doesn't always have time to eat.

Any suggestions?

TheWhipHand:
Tough one. Maybe try finding out why he feels the need to lose weight. My little husband had been a chubby little boy, but had been put on a strict diet. Over time he internalised the need to be thinner, and it took a while to get him out of that mindset.
Secretly he was a little butterball at heart - he loves cakes, cookies and sweets - he was only resisting because he had been influenced.
When you go out, go to a place with good desserts, and order one for yourself, even if you have no intention of eating it. Watch what he does. Does he simply not eat it? Or does he eat it up greedily, just trying to be healthy? Mine would do the latter, so I knew he had a little fattie inside.

Fatty67:
I got woken up in the middle of the night and my belly was making so many noises and then I was starving out of nowhere so I got snacks and stuffed myself in bed. Is this the point of no return? 🤣🫣

Softy90:
Hello, I come with an unusual question? Are there doctors in Berlin who happen to be FA's or feeders and don't blame everything on weight. I want to change my doctor.

Imnothereghost:
I was at my peak at 182lbs last year but I am trying to regain that this year using cream the same method as last time but I'm stuck at 175lbs any advice?

PricklyPearLvr:
Just a question for y'all. I keep getting notified of a profile view from a grayface from Fiji. When I attempt to view the account it's like it's a dead link. It won't take me to the profile. Is this an admin, or just a spam account. Thanks in advance.

Letters And Numbers:
Me and at least one other person I know of had that happen about a month ago. Gray face from Fiji, about 5 or 6 days in a row. I missed seeing them logged in by about 20 minutes once.

I talked to the staff about it, and they said it’s probably someone signing in with a VPN. It wasn’t admins or a bot that they knew of. That’s what happens when you delete your account. So probably someone making and deleting a new account every day. Very weird though. Maybe some kind of data scraper. I felt kinda paranoid about it at the time, though, and then it stopped.